Having a healthy body is something that everyone looks forward to and hopes for, and having a good body is equivalent to having the whole world, but some elderly people in their old age hope that their children will be by their side, and their wives will accompany them, and the family will be harmonious, so that the life in old age is happy.
Some parents in their children when they are young, in order not to see their children wronged, so they continue to subsidize them, to meet them, as long as they have, what their children need, will agree, and think that as long as they meet their children's everything, then in their old age, they will be supported by their children, but what the old man did not expect is that no matter at any time, when there is money in his hand, it will work, and his children have it, it is better to have it himself, and he has money in his hands in order to have a choice in his old age.
I believe many people know how important it is for the elderly to have money in their hands, so what makes everyone puzzled is how much money the elderly need to support their old age? In order to enjoy the old age? I think many people are very curious about this question, and there is no definite answer, a 60-year-old Aunt Li bluntly said: "I have 200,000 in my hand, and I still have a pension of 3,000 per month, I don't know if I have enough money for me to enjoy my old age, I can only go one day at a time, but even if I have no money, I will go to work to earn money for the elderly", what is going on? Let's take a look at the following story.
Narrator: Aunt Li is 60 years old.
My surname is Li, 60 years old this year, I have been retired for five years, I was very happy when I first retired, after all, I finally don't have to get up early every day to go to work, and I don't have to be so rushed, I can sleep until I wake up naturally every day, I can go out to eat whatever I want, and I don't have to worry about running out of money, anyway, there is a pension of 3000 every month, and it is not a problem to eat and drink.
Later, after living for two years, I found that if I continued to spend this money like this, it might not be gone in a few years, and what should I do when I am old and unable to move? I don't know if my savings are enough for me to live in my old age, which is still a little worrying.
When I was young, I was still a little more frugal, I ate very little, almost didn't go out to eat, and I also worked two jobs a day, although I was very tired, but I also earned some money, through my frugality, I also saved a little money, when I looked at the balance in my card, I was happy for a long time, and finally I didn't have to live a poor life, when my children got married, I also had extra money to hold a wedding for them, and after the incident, I also had 200,000 left, which was also very good.
I'm a strong woman, I don't admit defeat since I was a child, although my parents can't give me a superior life, but I also know that they don't want to be like this, so I don't blame them, anyway, I exercised the idea that I vowed to work hard to make money since I was a child, and then when I came out of society, it was not as easy as I imagined, and I didn't have any culture, but I never gave up, I did it like that a few jobs a day, and I gritted my teeth and persevered, in order to make money, and no longer hesitated to buy two taels of pork.
My wife and I only gave birth to one of my sons, and I also thought about having one more, but my wife's health was not good, so the two of us asked for one, although there was only one, but we gave all our love to our son, from childhood to adulthood, as long as it was what he wanted, we never stopped it, as long as we had, we would buy it for him, in order not to let him go our way, hoping that he could eat something we hadn't eaten before.
However, it may also be the reason why we spoil our son too much, causing him to not like to read at a young age, and we have a temper, at a young age, he said that he wanted to go out to work, we said that it would not work, so that he didn't have to think too much, as long as he studied hard, the matter of tuition, we tried to find a way, but he just didn't listen to persuasion, and resolutely went out with the people in the village to work in the factory.
When my son just went out to work, I cried for a long time, thinking in my heart, he will not study after the road must be difficult to walk, I understand that there is no culture, how difficult it is to develop society, but what can be done, he just doesn't listen, can only resign himself to fate, and then he worked for a few years, and also found a girlfriend in the factory, the two just got together not long ago, they became pregnant, and we didn't want our son to become an irresponsible person, so we let them get married, and we will solve the money.
At that time, we also spent more than half of the family's savings when we held the wedding for our son, and I also knew that we would definitely have to work hard to make money in the future, but seeing my son happy, I didn't feel tired of hard work, as long as he lived well, I was content.
After his son got married, he was also very diligent, probably the reason why he wanted to be a father, he went out on time every day to make money, and the first time he got his salary, he would also keep it for his daughter-in-law, and he would not go out to spend a penny, and I was very happy to see that they were doing well.
At that time, I really wanted the family to live happily for a lifetime, but who would have thought that my wife died suddenly, which made it difficult for me to accept it for a while, but after a week of adjustment, I also woke up, and I also understood that people cannot be resurrected after death, as long as the living people live well, then my wife will know under the spring and will bless us.
After my husband left, I worked for a few years, and then retired directly at the age of 55, after retirement, I was completely idle, living with a pension of 3000 every month, and I was the only one at home every day, my son and daughter-in-law moved out, and I was usually busy, and I didn't have time to come back to accompany me, I also understand them, and there is nothing to complain about, young people should work hard, and making money to support their families is the king.
When I was alone in front of me, I was able to live a small life, and I arranged it every day, going to square dance, going shopping in the mall, and going home to watch TV and read newspapers when I was tired.
Later, it may be that I have lived a little bit alone, I am a little bored, and I also have troubles, because in the past six months, I have not gone out to make money, and I spend savings and pensions every day, although it is not much in a day, but the circle time is really terrifying, beyond my budget, I was thinking, if I was dangling aimlessly like this, I really couldn't move that day, or when I had some terminal illness, what should I do.
And I obviously feel that as I get older**, I find that I walk a little more, I feel very laborious, especially when going uphill, a short two minutes, I walked to five minutes, it is simply too difficult, if I go on like this, will sooner or later, my feet will be wasted? I can't imagine it.
Although I'm old, and half of my body is in the ground, but I'm still very afraid of death, I'm afraid that I'll die that day, in order to prolong my life, I still go to exercise every day, to square dance, but now I don't dare to go square dancing and exercise, because I'm afraid that I will suddenly die outside and no one knows, then it's troublesome, anyway, I don't want to die so fast at the moment, I still want to live for twenty or thirty years?
I am also quite worried that I will not wake up at all that day, and I only have 200,000 yuan in savings, and my pension is not much, what if I need a large amount of money for surgery one day? I'm going to ** to find the money, I was really worried every day during that time, and my sisters didn't know what was going on, and they often came to ask me what I was doing, and then I told them about it.
But when they heard this, they said to me, "You stupid, why do you want to do this, it's still early?" And don't you have a son? You're still afraid that no one will provide for you, calm down." , I also know that my sister is right, and raising children to prevent old age has always been a tradition, but I don't want to trouble my son, I believe that others are the same, they will not trouble their children when they are in trouble, what time can not be solved by themselves, or through other solutions to solve, until the last resort, will not trouble children, so I was also thinking at the time, whether to find a cleaner to do it, earn some pension money, and when I don't want to trouble my children in the future, I can still have money to go to a nursing home.
I also know that at my age, it's time to enjoy my old age at home, and I don't want to go out to the wind and sun, but in this society, everything is expensive, as long as you go out, you have to spend money, so who dares to stop, if you don't work, you won't have money, you can't eat without money, and when you're sick, you can't get a penny, what should I do when the time comes, anyway, I don't want to go through the hard days again, and I don't want to borrow money from others, in case there is no money to pay back others, so I have to think about my pension.
But when I think of going to work, I panic, there is no easy job, no matter whether I do it well or not, as long as the boss is unhappy, I am the one who is angry, and I have to get up early every day, and I rush to and fro early, I am very tired, I don't have a little free time, and I have to say some hypocritical things for that little salary, if it is not for making money, I don't want to contact work again, who doesn't want to wake up every day to eat, have money to spend?
Hey, I'm really sad now, I don't know what to do, whether I want to find a job, save some pension money, or live a day a day, I now deposit 200,000, pension 3000, I don't know if it's enough for me to provide for the elderly, if it's enough, I don't think about going to work, I'm old, go out to find a job, it's difficult to find a suitable, and I'm tired of myself, but I don't know if my savings are enough for my old age, no, I have to carefully calculate an account, see if my savings are enough for the elderly, if it's not enough, go out as soon as possible to find a job, do two or three years to make some money, otherwise when the time comes, the trouble will be big, tired to death and not to say anything, but also troubled his son.