Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. ”
This ancient adage speaks of the influence of the environment on people, and the people and things around us shape our thoughts and behaviors all the time.
In this rapidly changing world, who we choose to walk with, who we work with, and who we spend time with often determines our quality of life and future direction.
1.Walk with great people
Walk with the wise and you will be extraordinary. ”
This is a famous quote from American writer Mark Twain, which tells us that the company of good people can bring out our potential and keep us moving forward on the road to excellence.
Writer Ernest Hemingway, a Nobel laureate in literature, has always been in the company of a group of talented artists and writers throughout his writing career.
In the "Lost Generation" in Paris, Hemingway had close associations with Fitzgerald, Picasso, and others.
They inspired each other and worked together to ** literature and art, and this exchange brought Hemingway's creation to new heights.
Ernest Hemingway once said, "My best works are born out of discussions and arguments with good friends." ”
This sentence shows the importance of walking with good people.
In their company, Hemingway not only broadened his horizons, but also improved his writing skills.
Great people can bring out the best in us and keep us moving forward in our pursuit of excellence.
In ancient times, Confucius's ** people followed him around the world, learning etiquette, archery and other six arts, Confucius's erudition and wisdom deeply influenced them, making them generations of outstanding talents.
I've had this experience myself.
During my university years, I had the privilege of studying with a group of excellent classmates whose diligence and talent inspired me to keep improving.
We learned from each other and grew together, and that time became a valuable asset in my life.
2.Work with optimistic people
Optimism is a force that allows us to see hope in the face of adversity. ”
This is a famous quote from the English writer Charles Dickens.
Optimistic people always maintain a positive attitude in the face of difficulties, and this positive energy can infect the people around them, making the team more united and resilient in the face of challenges.
Hollywood legend, Tom Hanks. Hanks is known in the film industry for his sunny image and optimistic attitude.
During the filming of "Forrest Gump", he played Forrest Gump, a character with limited IQ but a kind heart, showing incomparable optimism and tenacity.
Hanks's attitude not only infected the audience, but also deeply affected the entire crew.
During the shoot, no matter how difficult it was, Hanks always kept a positive mindset and encouraged the team members to overcome it together.
His optimism became the cohesion of the crew, allowing everyone to give their all, culminating in the creation of this classic.
Working with optimistic people energizes the team and allows everyone to stay confident in the face of challenges and create extraordinary achievements together.
In ancient times, Su Qin, with his optimism and tenacity, successfully persuaded the six countries to unite against Qin, although he ultimately failed to change the course of history, his optimism and efforts became a good story for later generations.
I myself have learned the power of optimism in my work.
Whenever a project hits a bottleneck, I always try to stay positive and look for ways to solve the problem.
This optimistic attitude not only helped me overcome difficulties, but also made me a positive energy communicator in the team.
3.Surround yourself with people who are comfortable
Be kind to others, and have endless fun. ”
This is a famous quote from the ancient Chinese philosopher Mencius.
Getting along with people who are comfortable can make our lives more harmonious and happy.
In ancient times, Meng Weijun treated people with courtesy and made good connections, and his mansion became a gathering place for the world's talents.
Getting along with people who are comfortable can nourish our souls and make our lives better.
Well-known blogger Li Ziqi. Known for sharing pastoral life and traditional crafts, her lifestyle and attitude have attracted countless fans.
In Li Ziqi's **, she always gets along with nature and the people around her in a peaceful and gentle way, whether it is cooking with her grandmother or communicating with her neighbors in the village, she can make people feel a deep comfort and tranquility.
Getting along with comfortable people is like finding a haven of the soul, no matter how noisy the outside world is, you can find a piece of tranquility here.
Li Ziqi's philosophy of life not only makes her own life comfortable, but also brings positive energy to her people, allowing people to find a moment of tranquility and relaxation in their busy lives.
In my own interpersonal interactions, I also try to be kind to others and get along with people who are comfortable.
I believe that this way of getting along can make our lives more colorful and allow us to establish good interpersonal relationships in society.
Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. ”
This quote reminds us once again that who we choose to walk with, who we work with, and who we spend time with can have a profound impact on our lives.
Walking with excellent people, we can continue to move forward on the road of pursuing excellence;
Working with optimistic people, we can find hope in the face of adversity;
By getting along with people we are comfortable with, we can find happiness in life.
Let us learn to choose, learn to cherish, and create a better future together with those who can make us grow, make us happy, and make us comfortable in life.