Quality Author List Knowing that my second sister was coming to the hospital for hospitalization, I hurriedly fled from my home.
Aunt, grandma is going to live in the county people's hospital tomorrow, can we go to your house for a while?"
Early this morning, my eldest nephew and daughter-in-law sent a message, which made me a little embarrassed and didn't know how to reply.
This eldest nephew and daughter-in-law is the eldest daughter-in-law of my husband's second sister, who was hospitalized for a week in March this year due to a small hole in my second sister's lungs, and was discharged after her condition improved slightly. Somehow, in recent days her cough has become so severe that she even coughs up blood.
The last time my second sister was hospitalized, both daughters-in-law came to take care of her. Although it doesn't matter if it's just two daughters-in-law, it's hard to accept that each of them brought their two sons to live with me.
The county people's hospital is just across the street from our community, just across the road. My home is located in the bustling center of the county, near a large supermarket, the county people's square, a pedestrian street and a farmers' market, where children can play.
My second sister's family doesn't have a house in the county, and every time someone is hospitalized, she comes to my house. Not only are we responsible for cooking for the patients, but we also have to entertain the people who accompany them.
To be honest, I don't like people living in my house, but it's not easy to think about them, so I have to settle for it.
However, when my second sister was hospitalized in March this year, I was very angry with their behavior, and I vowed not to let them live in my house again.
On March 15, the second aunt called her husband and said that she was coughing more than she could stop coughing, and the needles in the township health center had not been cured for a few days. She decided to go to the county people's hospital for a physical examination.
My husband accompanies me in the city, and I'm usually home alone. Due to the low level of education of the second aunt, if someone wants to accompany her to see a doctor, it can only be me.
When my husband told me that my second aunt planned to come to the hospital, I said that it was okay and that I would ask for leave to accompany her to the hospital.
The second sister's house is 40 kilometers away from the county seat, and there is a shuttle bus to the county seat at 6:40 in the morning. Her husband told her to come early and go back the same day after seeing the doctor.
My house is 4 kilometers away from the station, and in order to prevent my second aunt from not taking the bus, I rode an electric car to the station at 7:10 a.m. that day to wait for her.
The shuttle did not arrive until 7:30. The second aunt came over with a bag of vegetables and a bag of sweet potatoes. I took my things home and took her to the hospital.
After the doctor inquired about the second aunt's condition, he suggested that she take a CT scan. When she learned that it would cost a few hundred yuan to get a CT scan, she told me that she only had more than 200 yuan on her.
When you come to the hospital to see a doctor, you only bring more than 200 yuan!
I couldn't believe it when I heard her say that.
Now that you've come to the hospital, you can't go home without getting a checkup!
I had to pay for it.
After the CT scan, we went to the attending doctor, who said she had a hole in her lung and had to be hospitalized**.
After learning the news, I had to go through the hospitalization procedures for her, and I also paid the hospitalization deposit in advance.
Because my second aunt is illiterate, my husband is not at home, and I still have to go to work, she is hospitalized in the hospital, so her family can only take turns to take care of her.
Her two sons work in Guangdong and cannot come to take care of them. The two daughters-in-law are taking care of the children at home, so they can only ask these two daughters-in-law to take turns to come over. The parents of the two daughters-in-law are still alive, and if they come to take care of the eldest sister, they can leave the children to the grandparents to help watch over for a few days.
However, that's just my personal opinion!
To my surprise, these two nieces and daughters-in-law came to take care of my second sister, accompanied by four children.
The four little guys are all boys, aged 6, 4 and a half, 3 and 12 years old is the stage of headaches!
As soon as I saw these children coming along, I felt my head grow.
But since they're already here, I don't want them to go home, that's obviously too cold.
There are a total of three rooms in our house, my husband and I live in the master bedroom, and my daughter has a separate room and a guest room. My daughter told me that she was not allowed to enter her room when she was not at home. My daughter is about to take the college entrance examination, and I have to take care of her mood so as not to affect her studies.
The room has only one bed, which is obviously not enough for so many people. Fortunately, the room was relatively spacious, so I put the mattress on the floor and successfully solved the sleep problem.
These children are growing up, and as their aunt, I can't be too stingy. Every day, they have to buy not only ingredients, but also fruits, milk, and other treats.
At present, prices are soaring, and it costs three to four hundred yuan a day just to buy food.
It's not a problem to spend this money, but the biggest headache is that these days children are very naughty and often fight loudly, making a mess and disorganized in the house.
Although I was very unhappy in my heart, I could only swallow this breath.
I can understand that my second aunt's family came to live, but what makes me speechless is that her in-laws' relatives also came to visit her after learning the news of her hospitalization.
These people came to visit my second sister in the hospital, and they had nothing to do with me!
Hmph, maybe I'm naïve. While these people were visiting my second sister in the hospital, they also had to stop by my house for a meal.
It's okay for women to come, just cook more dishes.
What is unacceptable is that the two brothers-in-law of the eldest sister actually came to my house for dinner for no reason, and not only stopped eating, but also smoked and drank.
My husband is a non-smoker, so there are no ashtrays at home. After the two finished smoking, they threw the cigarette butts directly on the ground, leaving small black spots on the floor.
The nature of my job means that I travel a lot, and sometimes I don't even go home at noon. That day, my second sister's two brothers-in-law came to my house for lunch, and I happened to be not at home. If I'm home, I wouldn't allow anyone to litter cigarette butts on the floor.
When I got home, I saw the cigarette butts on the floor and felt very strange, so I asked my niece and daughter-in-law why there were so many cigarette butts on the floor
She replied that her two uncles had smoked cigarette butts and thrown them on the ground when they came to my house for dinner at noon.
The two of them actually came to my house for dinner without even a greeting, which really left me speechless.
Even though I was angry, I didn't show it. Just tell them that when someone smokes at home in the future, don't throw the cigarette butts on the ground, otherwise black spots will burn.
They nodded in agreement.
This time, the second sister stayed in the hospital for five whole days, and the medical expenses were paid by me. Fortunately, she is a poor household, and 90% of her medical insurance is reimbursed, but the out-of-pocket part still costs more than 1,600 yuan. Coupled with various expenses such as food, I spent thousands of yuan on the hospitalization of my second aunt this time.
Spending money is just a trifle, and the most annoying thing is yet to come. The two young guys didn't need diapers to sleep at night, they just wet the bed on the bed, and the mattress was full of urine stains, which smelled pungent, so I had to throw it away. The 2,000-dollar mattress was scrapped like this, and I was so angry that I was going to die.
The time they lived in my house was like a year!
After leaving, I spent most of the day cleaning my home spotlessly clean and felt exhausted.
told his husband that he would never entertain the second sister's family in the future, but he was not angry, but said that these people were really ignorant.
When I saw the message from my eldest niece and daughter-in-law, I deliberately pretended not to see it and avoided replying directly.
After that, I told my husband about the imminent admission of my second aunt. My husband decisively said that if I don't want to entertain them, then go back to live together, and send a red envelope to my second aunt when the time comes.
Hearing my husband's words, my heart lit up.
I made up my mind, I took the initiative to call my eldest nephew and daughter-in-law, and lied and said: "Jingjing's mother, I'm really embarrassed, I'm going to accompany my cousin to take the college entrance examination next week, and I have to go up to accompany me during this time, and there is no one at home." The second aunt is hospitalized, you can arrange it yourself. ”
In this way, they must be embarrassed to come to my house again.
After hearing this, the eldest nephew and daughter-in-law agreed: "Okay!."”
That's when I breathed a sigh of relief.
Originally, I planned to wait until the 6th to go up to accompany my daughter, but considering that they might find out at home, I had to change my plan in advance.
Starting today, I started to take leave of absence to go to the city to spend time with my daughter.
The weather was unusually hot, the temperature was as high as 39 degrees, and only one of the houses we rented had air conditioning, which we gave to our daughter. In order not to disturb her rest, we were embarrassed to go into her room to blow the air conditioner, so we could only sit in the hot air, and the wind from the electric fan was also hot.
If my eldest niece and daughter-in-law hadn't said they would have come to live at my house, I could have enjoyed the air conditioning and TV in the comfort of my home
In order to avoid unnecessary trouble, I had to flee my home in a hurry!
The incident of the second aunt made me deeply realize that relatives need to maintain a moderate sense of alienation from each other.
You can't be too enthusiastic about your relatives, otherwise you will often hurt yourself the most!