Wen Xinxi.
Adults face the pressure of work, emotional discomfort, and the troubles of life, and there are always too many powerlessness and too many grievances. I cried silently at night, and still went to work normally the next day, and in the days of suffering alone one after another, I learned to carry it and learn to hide my personal emotions.
The tribulations and twists and turns in life are inevitable for each of us. At times, we may feel tired and frustrated, but these difficulties and challenges are also opportunities for us to grow and improve.
The only way to grow up is to learn to accept, to know how to let go, and to be content with silence. After going through hardships, you can achieve a better version of yourself and have a better future.
"Distance makes relationships more and more distant, friendship is, and family affection is no exception. ”
Xiao Wang's grandfather gave birth to four children, and Xiao Wang's father is the second. Xiao Wang has lived with several cousins since he was a child, and he is inseparable and intimate every day until he grows up**.
As time goes by, they have their own families, but whenever they think of their cousins, Xiao Wang seems to have some inferiority. Xiao Wang is now over 30 years old, and he doesn't even have a decent job. And his brothers and sisters are all developing in big cities, either starting their own companies, or executives of a company, or employees of foreign companies.
This may be the reason why I have no contact with them, there is no intersection in life, and there is no interest relationship, I am a very close brother, but I am not as good as a friend in life.
When a person slowly doesn't need you, your relationship becomes more and more distant. When we can't do anything about it, try to accept the disconnection of the relationship. Relationships need to maintain each other, but people don't have much energy to maintain all relationships, they can only maintain some of them, and they will lose the other part.
Accept that everything happens, this is the way to growth, you can only accept this phenomenon, maintain what you can, and it doesn't matter if you suffer within your ability.
"Let go of obsessions, release yourself, and fill your heart with peace and harmony. ”
There was once a painter who asked a master how to become famous, and the master told him: how narrow your heart is, how vulgar your works are; On the contrary, how big your heart is, how elegant your work is. The painter did not understand the meaning, but he was still desperate to succeed.
He worked hard every day to paint, while constantly belittling the work of others. Day after day, his works still don't sell for a good price. One day, the painter decided to end his painting career, believing that he could not succeed in this profession anymore.
Before it was over, he decided to put aside his prejudices and visit an exhibition of the works of his long-time rivals. On this day, he noticed that the painter was standing in front of his work beautifully. So, he went home and painted the scene he saw and named it "The Opponent and His Work".
When he painted this work, the painter did not expect any profit at all, it was just a spur of inspiration. But later the painting was seen by the master he consulted and brought to the exhibition, and the painter became famous.
In the words of the master, the reason for the success of this painter is that there is no more narrowness in his works, and the style of his works is beautiful, and it also reveals a sense of elegance for admiring his competitors. A work of art reflects a person's attitude towards life; A person's deeds show a person's height, and a person's height depends on a person's heart and bearing.
Letting go is a kind of wisdom. Many of life's pains, worries, and sorrows stem from not knowing how to let go. If you learn to let go, you won't be worried, you will be able to enjoy the true joy of life, and you will be able to enjoy every minute of life calmly.
"Savoring life in silence can truly feel the beauty and warmth. ”
Some time ago, my colleague Dai Bing and his girlfriend quarreled and broke up, he was absent-minded all day, and the whole person was extremely haggard. But a week later, he was back in shape and put back to work. We asked him what happened some time ago, and he indifferently told that after the breakup, some people want to live or die, and some people are silent, and the silence in the original relationship means respecting the other party's choice, since you can't get it, let it go.
When we were young, we could cry and shout when we were unhappy, but as we grew up, we found that there were fewer and fewer things to say. Sometimes I want to say something but I feel that there is nothing to say, so I lower the decibel level of my voice and become more and more silent.
In fact, through silence, we can better understand ourselves and others, and find inner balance and contentment. Discover your truer self in silence.
There is always a process for human growth, the sea needs the rolling of huge waves, the desert needs the wild dance of flying sand, and life also needs some twists and turns and tribulations in order to be more fulfilling and exciting.
All experiences are growth. Let's learn to learn from it, embrace change, and move forward bravely. In the days to come, we will become a better version of ourselves.
I'm Sinhi, what I write, i.e. life. I have tasted all the flavors of the world, not afraid of the shackles of the world, and not mourning for sorrow; I compose warm ** words, live a chic and calm life, turn into a breeze, bring coolness and happiness, and soothe all the bitterness and sorrow. If you like my texts, like, bookmark, comment, and follow me. Baijia account: Xianqinxi].