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My name is Wang Zhenzhen, born in 87, Hunan. I am now very happy with my own little family. But my former family of origin experienced unspeakable suffering.
I was from a rural area, and at that time information was not delivered very quickly, and it took ten and a half days to receive a letter. In that era of information blockage, young people rarely fell in love freely, and most of them were introduced by matchmakers.
My parents' acquaintance is no exception. At that time, the two were introduced by a matchmaker, and after meeting, they felt that they could just look at each other.
At that time, there was no legal concept, the legal awareness was weak, there was no marriage certificate, and even if I got married with a banquet, the people in the village recognized it, and my parents did not get a marriage certificate when they got married.
After my parents got married, my younger brother and I were born one after another. Mom's burden suddenly increased. We had to eat and dress, and when my brother and I got sick, the family couldn't afford a penny. My mom was overwhelmed. I can only go around looking down and asking others to borrow money.
At this time, it was popular in the village to go out to work in Guangzhou. My dad saw that his peers were working outside the home and making money, and my mom and dad were also excited. After discussing it, my dad decided to go out to work and earn money.
When my dad went out, he was still in love with my mom.
Although my mother was also very reluctant, she still told my father, saying that it didn't matter, and told my father to work outside with peace of mind, and she would take care of the children at home.
One day after the Spring Festival, my father turned around and left at the urging of my companions, and my mother wiped her tears alone at home.
My dad was tired from working outside and missed my mom again. At that time, there were no mobile phones, only one in the village. My dad gave a ** to the family every once in a while.
At first, my dad was okay, and he sent money to my mom on time as soon as he was paid. As soon as the end of the year arrives, I rush home.
But two years later, my dad didn't beat him anymore, and then he didn't send the money. I'm not in a hurry to go home for the New Year.
Those who were out came back and told my mom that my dad had found a woman outside. After waiting for a year, I said that my dad had a baby with that woman.
When my mom found out, she threw us to my grandparents. She was uneducated, and she went to Guangzhou alone, and found my dad over there, and my dad fought with my mom to help the woman.
My mom couldn't get my dad's heart back, so she came back from Guangzhou. I saw the wound on my mother's face, and I knew a little bit about my parents at that time.
When I play at the neighbor's house, I will also hear those who chew the root of the tongue behind my back, saying that my dad doesn't want us anymore. Said that my dad had someone else outside.
At the end of the year, my dad and the woman were also thick-skinned, and the main reason was that they wanted a name, and they went back to our house to have a showdown with my mom directly, saying that he was going to marry her and telling my mom to quit. He had seen the world outside and knew that he had not obtained a marriage license. He could have married that woman. My mom and I are in a de facto marriage. But in the countryside, I don't understand. My mom let him bully.
My mom was violent, and my dad was violent to my mom. That time I saw my dad's **. It also planted a seed in my heart. I didn't want to be like my mom, and I had a fear of marriage. I'm afraid of meeting my dad's kind of man.
After my dad got a marriage license with the woman, he never came back.
My mother did a lot of work at home alone, getting up early and working late, and she supported me and my brother alone.
I hated my dad at that time. But what can't I change? The only thing I could do was study, my grades were not very good, but I was still admitted to an ordinary college in Hengyang.
I studied all kinds of things in college. I was in the library when others were in the moon. When others are talking about QQ, I am learning. I learned a lot in college. When others were worried about not finding a good job after graduation, I was recruited by a large company in Changsha before I graduated.
I graduated from college and started working. Since I saw my parents' marriage, I was afraid of such a marriage and did not trust any man. So apart from work, I never fall in love.
Although I inherited my parents' good looks, I have many suitors. But I just closed myself off and didn't accept any kind of overtures.
My mom urged me. I'm also indifferent.
This age dragged to 30. My mom was in a hurry.
I told my mom about my concerns. My mom knew that her marriage had caused me such a mentality, and it was very uncomfortable. But she still comforted me, saying that not all people are like my father, and listed many happy families around me.
It wasn't until I met Luo Yongxing that we met at a class reunion. He was my classmate's cousin and an alumnus of my university, but I didn't know him at the time.
He happened to be talking to a client at the hotel where we were gathering that day, and when he saw his cousin, he came over to greet him, and his cousin asked him to play with us.
He readily agreed. Later, he mentioned it to me after getting along, saying that he had seen me, the kind he had admired me in college. Saying that I was beautiful and that studying so hard in college attracted him.
At that time, he was just as inferior and didn't dare to confess to me, but now that he has a successful career, he has the capital to love me. So it was a joy to see me again that day. When his cousin invited him, he immediately agreed.
He asked for my *** at the dinner table and I didn't give it to him. He later found my *** through his cousin
Message me every night and talk to me for half a year.
My reply was um, oh, yes. Never say more. I'm still the kind of person who doesn't want to get married, I don't want to be my mother's kind of person.
He sometimes waits for me at the door of my company to make an appointment, but I don't show up. Sometimes classmates deliberately create opportunities for us to meet. My classmate works in the same company as me, and she knows what I'm doing. also knew the influence of my original family on me, and she told Luo Yongxing.
Luo Yongxing chased me even more relentlessly and never gave up. I began to melt slowly.
Once, I went to a place in the suburbs to deliver materials to a customer, I had never been there, I didn't know how remote that place was, and there was only one car back and forth a day. If you miss it, you won't have a car back to the city.
I missed the car on the way back and had to walk. He knew I was driving to pick me up right away. I was walking alone on the mountain road, it was getting dark, and I was very scared, and I was really moved to see him.
He cared about me and gave me warmth. He also took me to meet his parents. His parents were ordinary working-class people. But the special kind of affection. His parents were very polite when they saw me going and made a table of dishes that I liked. You can see that they are attentive.
I felt the warmth of family at his house that I had never felt before.
The scene of his parents' love and harmony made me believe in love. Make me willing to fit into their family.
After we got married, Luo Yongxing, in order to reassure me, added my name to the two houses he bought, and also gave me all his deposit cards, giving me a full sense of security.
My parents-in-law also tried their best to think about my two children, so that my two of them could live happily and not let me be wronged.
I saw that my life was so beautiful, and I was very emotional: we don't have a choice in our original family, but it is still possible to work hard to grow up and change our destiny the day after tomorrow.
As long as you work hard enough, there is a high probability that you can meet someone as good as yourself and make yourself happy.