The sexual suggestion of Li Li, the president of "Flowers", was dealt with by Wong Kar-wai, but he understood that his scalp was numb
Li Li, the president of Bao in the movie "Flowers", is a typical working woman, she is hardworking, has excellent ability and leadership skills, and has been highly praised in the company. However, her introverted personality and gentle personality make her a little timid when faced with her male superiors. This timidity caused some misunderstandings among her colleagues, so much so that they began to sexually suggest her.
Wong Kar-wai, the director of the film "Flowers", has adopted a very special way in dealing with this problem: expressing these sexual innuendos through the camera.
In the movie, Lee Lee is in the office of the company, talking face-to-face with a male colleague, but there are some strange expressions on her face, which suggests that she is feeling something uncomfortable. At the same time, Wong Kar-wai used some extremely subtle movements, such as Li Li's fingers gently lifting her clothes, or she was fiddling with her pen.
These details give the audience a deeper understanding of Li Li's feelings. Although she has no obvious reaction on the surface, she is very uneasy on the inside. These details are handled in a way that the audience can understand, but not too explicitly, so as to achieve a more perfect balance.
However, in our real life, such sexual innuendo is not uncommon. Many women face similar problems in the workplace, but due to the lack of effective ways to express their dissatisfaction, they often have to swallow their anger and silently endure these discomforts.
I have a friend named Xiaofan who is a young teacher. At her school, there is a colleague, a male teacher who is older than her, who often jokes in the class or makes some inappropriate actions, which makes Xiaofan feel very uncomfortable. But every time she tried to raise her grievances, she was always told: "You're too sensitive" or "It's just a joke, you can't take it too seriously".
In order to adjust his emotions, Xiaofan began a long period of exercise and yoga. She hopes that this will make her more relaxed and better able to cope with these discomforts. But as it turns out, such an approach doesn't really solve the problem. Every time the male teacher appeared in front of her, Xiao Fan would feel a wave of nausea and fear.
I once asked Xiaofan why he didn't report this problem directly to his superiors. She told me that she had tried, but her superiors did nothing and made her feel more passive and helpless.
What should I do in this case?