Author |Shan wipe micro cloud map |In the past few days of the Chinese New Year on the Internet, occasionally flipping through the circle of friends, you can see parents who tirelessly insist on asking their children to write homework and brush questions every day, from Chinese New Year's Eve to the seventh day of the new year, doing everything possible to create an atmosphere of learning without closing. During the winter vacation, most of the circle of friends went to Sanya with their families, and it was lively and lively with the family, and it was possible to take anything less in the chicken, fly and dog jump, that isNo one forgets to take their children's homework. When you return from digging sand on the beach, you still have to write your homework; The whole family went out to sea to catch a fish, did you read English today? I thought that the parents who let their children do the application problems on the morning of the first day of the new year were already at the peak, but I didn't expect the parents of my classmates to say what is this, we went to my grandmother's house to pay New Year's greetings, and we also took the homework with raz brushes. There are also parents who practice piano, dance, ball, words, and thinking, and everyone has come up with the potential of the parents of professional athletes, and they must also train during the New Year.
Salespeople in various industries use the saying that rotten".The earth is not **, we do not take holidays"It seems to be a perfect fit for today's parents and children, after all, more than half of the sales will go back to their hometowns for a few days for the New Year. And our parents are where their children learn, what are the first and second days of the new year, and how many questions are written. 
In comparison, the parents of this year's parents, the last parents were so irresponsible. Ten or twenty years ago, as soon as the children had a winter vacation, the biggest obligation they had to fulfill was to move a few mouths and "finish the homework early!" "I finished writing it a year ago, and it's fun to celebrate the New Year!" "In addition, they can't do anything else, if they see their children now have to make holiday plans for their children as soon as they are on vacation, and they don't forget to do their homework every day, I'm afraid they can be shocked and faintedHow? Does it take so much to be a parent? Can't the Chinese New Year keep us idle? The characteristics of parents have changed dramatically throughout the ages, but the temperament of children has not evolved at all. Whether it was 100 years ago or 20 years ago, children didn't like to do homework, especially during the holidays. 
In the past, children did not write homework and wrote less homeworkIn the battle of wits and courage with his parents, he increased his emotional intelligence and IQ. As soon as Mom and Dad go to work, they immediately turn on the TV, and before they come back, who hasn't done such a thing as cooling the TV with a fan and a cold towel? In this real PBL project, the children's overall control ability, analysis ability, listening ability, and problem-solving ability have been trained. And can quickly get feedback from parents, the success of this PBL action, can get the holiday to continue to pretend to do homework but actually watch TV, the failure of the action to get a beating, so as to force the child to learn from the pain, focus on thinking about the solution to the problem, upgrade skills. 
How many parents can still lock their children under the age of 10 at home during the day and let them "arrange" by themselves? What we are parents do is 24-hour "personal service". Urging homework is not a simple mouthful, even if it is not accompanied by sitting and writing, you have to look through it every day when you come back, and how many questions are added to the homework book every day are clear. The last parents raised their babies and took the "market route" of on-demand distribution, and we are an out-and-out "plan" era. 
Only the irresponsible characteristics of the parents of the previous session can have the "presumptuous" happiness of writing winter vacation homework in our later childhood - parents don't have time to manage and don't consciously care, so they are lawless first, regardless of playing for dozens of days, and stay up a few nights before school to finish the homework and hand it in in a mess, anyway, the teacher doesn't look at it, so throughout the student days never overturned. Especially during the winter vacation, the New Year's Eve is so big to eat, drink and have funParents are busy with the year, who still has to do homework? Today, when I mention the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, the first full moon night of the year, my impression is that I "rush homework" until dawn, because at that time, the school often starts on the sixteenth day of the first lunar month. Students in the class who are more delicate and more organized will choose to collect winter vacation homework as soon as they have a holiday, spend up to two days to copy it quickly, and then have a crazy holiday. Twenty years later, when we met the head teacher of the year again, when he triumphantly blew up the witty operation of the winter and summer vacation homework that never "overturned", an elusive smile appeared on the head teacher's face. 
And the last parents, if they hadn't seen this article today, maybe they would still be immersed in my old dream of "being well-behaved and sensible and learning consciously". Today's children still don't change, and they want to pile up until the end to write, or just fool around, butOur ruthless father and mother will never allow it. If they play hard for a holiday, the day before the start of school, they will never be able to do it like their parents, casually throwing down a sentence "Why did you go early, who told you not to finish it early?" "Then I didn't change my face and watched TV with the same yarn. 
No matter how good the temper is, the parents of the post-80s and post-90s will be angry in their hearts, even if they have good physical fitness and do not have a heart attack, they will post a circle of friends at the last time to vent their anger and find companions. We blame ourselves, we suffer, we hate, another holiday has passed that has become a scumbag, and at the same time secretly swear that the next holiday must be arranged step by step! We learned about the weaknesses of human nature in the "wasted" holidays of our children one by one, so we began to torture ourselves and became an epoch-making parent who can be called "the best of the best". 
Sometimes we are torn between thirties and seventhsIs it better to let children have fun without brains, or should they learn a little bit anyway? Some parents have woken up to what a plan isIf there is an excuse to be broken one day, it will be broken again and again, simply do not close during the Spring Festival, visit relatives and friends for the New Year, interspersed with daily learning! seems to exterminate human nature, and the year does not allow children to be happy, but in fact, it has insight into human nature, and loves their children deeply, helping them avoid the final tragedy. Parents who also want their children to do homework and study during the Chinese New Year are really not inhumaneThe most terrifying thing is the kind of deceitful corpse-like cold water type parents (usually fathers). 
How many days off have I been, and I haven't seen them seriously urge them to do their homework, let alone make plans for their children. It's the New Year, and the air is full of lazy food, adults and children want to be presumptuous until the middle of the night, and they are expressionless and say "You haven't moved your homework yet". Even when the children were jumping and screaming and ready to go out to play, they coldly threw a few words into ice, "Go out after finishing your homework", "How many days have you not read a book?" "I don't know if the children are not sensible, or the parents are not sensible, it's too disappointing. 
Why did you go earlier, is this sentence better for children, or for parents who pour cold water on such a fraudulent corpse? When we were children, we looked forward to the New Year, looking forward to the new year's new clothes, a table full of food, and a wonderful and laughing Spring Festival Gala program, which is no longer expected by the children in the city nowThey lack nothing, except for the opportunity to play without heart and lungs.
Looking back at history many years later, I am afraid that this period from parents to children is full of "plans", and they are always taught to "time management". It is especially difficult for us to tolerate idleness, complete relaxation, and a state of empty brain without purpose, and to talk about a "self-improvement" purpose in everything. Let's just say that more than ten or twenty years ago, adults and children watched TV together, which is the most brainless public entertainment, children can watch a new white lady with their parents and joke about Qianlong, which parent has a bag in his brain will think about what educational significance and improve humanistic quality at this time. It's different now, even if it's entertainment, look at the TV we watched with the baby - "Poetry Conference" and "National Treasure", which is really entertaining and entertaining by our parents. When watching a movie, we will first brush it ourselves or ask friends in the circle who have watched it, whether there is a "** thunder" in the row. So children don't have a chance to experience the embarrassment that suddenly appeared on TV when we were children: "**Mom and Dad interrupted and changed the channel, you don't seem to understand." Their small lives are full of positive energy and non-waste that are more "pure" than us.
So, could this be one of the reasons why they seem to read and watch a lot more movies than us, but they can't write essays? There is a rich life with a more layered sense of lessness, I have never played blindly after school, and I have never had a childhood where I watched everything messily. We are usually a generation of parents with efficient self-management, and we require children to be like robots with proper time management, preferably with high efficiency, so that they can immediately end a task, and immediately turn to the next "self-improvement" task, 10,000 years is too long, and 985 will look at the day. My ideal parents today are at least able to give their children a chance to breathe during the Chinese New YearPlay anything, sleep at any time, enjoy not planning for anything, and enjoy the joy that happens in this moment.
Chatting, dazing, jumping and yelling, and playing until the battery runs out. Don't mention homework during the holidays, don't implement daily plans, don't think about the start of school, let's each otherEnjoy a no-nonsense, no-holds-barred relaxation time. This holiday, I became my ideal parent, because not to mention that my children don't want to do their homework, I don't even bother to urge them.