After half a lifetime of ups and downs, I summarized a paragraph: The following are all the mistakes I have made. Attitude determines fate, details determine success or failure, everything has an explanation, everything has implementation, and everything has feedback; He believes that there is nothing in the world that is not earned without hard work, and if you work hard, you will be rewarded. If a person has these characteristics, he must be a mature person. Don't waste your energy on anxiety or tantrums, whether to solve the problem first or solve the person who raised the problem, use the experience you have summed up in years of hard work, think rationally and get to the heart of the problem; Be able to learn to heal yourself, not complain or be anxious, and turn the pain you experience into motivation for growth; Sort out the scientific method of being a person and doing things and dealing with the world, have a set of their own principles, so as to master the method of life cards, so that we are more mature and strong, recognize our own ability, and insist on honing ourselves in doing things.
Furthermore, no matter how you behave or do things, you can't act blindly, you must be clear about your goals, you must analyze the essence of things, and gradually sort out how to do it, so as to have the right direction; If the purpose is not clear, no matter how strong the execution is, the results will only get worse and worse. Many people often say: I understand a lot of truths, but I still can't live this life. We ask ourselves, do you really understand? Did you just listen to it or did it, it's hard to get things done? It's still the old saying, the unity of knowledge and action is the only way to really understand.
The energy of each of us is limited, it is impossible for a person to learn many things at the same time, which violates the laws of nature, life is very short, and we will spare no effort to pay in the right direction, insist on doing this one thing, and spend our time and energy on things that can really create value, and do ...... for three years, five years, and ten yearsOnly with firm beliefs can we be focused enough, and only by focusing can we achieve great success, and eventually become an enviable successful person.