Children at this age are rebellious, they like to spend a lot of energy doing what they like, and if they don't like things, it's useless for their families to be reasonable.
Because he understands everything. But he can't control himself to do what he likes to do, and he feels that everything he doesn't like is a waste of time.
How do you tell him, when you look at the total score in the college entrance examination, he can't listen to it. And today's children will tell you that the college entrance examination is his own business, and you don't care if you can pass the exam or not. There are also children who think that even if they don't do well in one of the exams, they can be admitted to the undergraduate, so it doesn't matter if they study or not, it can really make you angry.
When I was studying, I had a classmate who had been in the same class as me for two years, and his English score was a mess, and he was able to score 150 points in mathematics. Every time he repeated, he told him that he wanted to get a good score in English, but every time he repeated, he did math in English class.
In the same year as me, he didn't take the college entrance examination (his own 4th college entrance examination) because he was very nervous during the exam, and he only scored 88 points in mathematics, the best subject.
Later, I went to a vocational high school, but I still failed in English. He said he had a phobia of English. But recently I told him: Your English phobia has been passed on to his children. Because his children are also afraid of English. It is difficult for him to speak English at home every day, so he asks his children to spend more time and energy on English. As a result, before his child began to learn, he felt that English was so difficult and developed a sense of resistance. I'm going to teach his children English now, it's really difficult, and the progress is very slow. Because in the early stage, it is necessary to let his child gain a little self-confidence in English.
Of course, it's not impossible to deal with your child.
Because they believe in their peers, it is better to find a few students who have not been admitted to college before because of partial subjects, and give him an explanation. Let's talk to a few more people who have overcome the problem of bias and talk to him. Then find a better English teacher who he can like to make up lessons for him.
The so-called good English teacher means that in addition to the high level of English teaching, the teacher must also know how to promote the child's motivation for English learning.