Some people say that "being kind to yourself" means "enriching yourself" for many people, but Wu Qianyu tells us with his own real experience: "Wealth" is not material wealth, but should refer to spiritual wealth. Only people who value their self-worth can have a strong and stable spiritual strength to fight against all kinds of difficulties in life. ”
Actor Wu Qianyu's original family is not superior, she entered the showbiz through a beauty contest after graduating from junior high school. In the entertainment industry, she met and married Shi Boxiong, a wealthy son.
In the eyes of many people, Wu Qianyu does not have the conditions to enter the circle of wealthy families, but after reading what Yang Tianzhen wrote in "Take Yourself Seriously", we realized that the fullness of the soul is the common characteristic of Wu Qianyu and Yang Tianzhen.
Today, I will share with you Yang Tianzhen's five shocking spiritual guides in "Take Yourself Seriously", and you will find the deep meaning if you read it carefully.
1. There is no such thing as an impromptu play from the sky in this world, everything comes from preparation. No one can easily play on the spot, and all the play on the spot is accumulation.There are a lot of opportunities waiting for you to grasp in all walks of life in this society, and the opportunities are endless, but the ones who can really grasp one olive branch after another must be the group of people who choose to accumulate in life.
Just like Yang Tianzhen, who has been transforming since graduating from university, every transformation she makes is not completely arbitrary. It is precisely because of her full understanding and sufficient experience that she can label her success every time she breaks new ground on her resume.
Luck is an important ingredient, but the importance of ability can never be overlooked.
Second, as time passes, some fools will be reborn and become smart people, and some fools will insist on themselves and be fools all the time.There is no shortage of people in society who are always moving forward, and they can grasp the eternal thing in the passage of time, and that is self-improvement. As individuals who are carried by the times, we are often asked to abandon our immutable state, and even to be reborn again and again.
Wu Qianyu has talked about her original family many times in variety shows, but from her current state, it is difficult for us to find traces of the harsh pressure of her original family on her. She has been reborn and washed the dust of her childhood life by herself. A renewed life like Wu Qianyu can often have infinite possibilities in the future.
3. Working so hard to improve yourself is to create a freer environment.The pressures of contemporary people in their careers often translate to a certain extent into the motivation of their efforts, and these efforts are directed towards the freedom they seek. Every effort of Yang Tianzhen is actually paving the way for her future choices, and the width of this road is determined by her own ability.
From her, we can understand that hard work is in a sense to expand your choice, to avoid being burdened by work and environment, because the higher the ability, the more space you have to choose.
4. Everyone's stress and feelings will be affected and limited by life experience and current emotions. Many truths belong to the gifts of time, and only after time and the past tempering, can we slowly understand.Wu Qianyu's original family is not good, unlike those wealthy families whose parents strongly support their children's careers, she does not have much bright childhood experience. But as time washes away the impurities of the years, the past experience has become the source of her firm willpower, which has jointly created her stable core and strong concentration.
Waiting for time to settle the past, and treating all kinds of experiences with a tolerant heart, is not accommodation, but our foreshadowing of the future.
Fifth, we are always surrounded by all kinds of "other people's appearance", "other people's goals" and "other people's lives", so that we often forget that we are in the end.When everyone is keen to share their goals and lives on social media, it is more and more necessary for each of us to be firm and grasp ourselves in the moment. Just like Yang Tianzhen, whether she is an agent, producer, or live broadcaster, she can always be clear about her positioning and environment, and at the same time clear what her goals are, and clear goals are giving rise to infinite motivation for her.
It is true that the lives of others can be a reference for us when we are confused, but in the end, we all have to go out of our own way, rather than copying everything from others. When it comes to life choices, we don't veto others, and we can't blur ourselves.
Times never stand still, and in an increasingly ever-changing society, we will find ourselves living in a mix of voices that sometimes weaken or even obscure our own worth, making us forget the path under our feet. However, it is better to grasp the present and treat ourselves well in the ups and downs of the times, so that we can live under the times and not be coerced by the times.
Yang Tianzhen uses his life experience and professional income to provide us with guidance in life, interpersonal relationships, self-worth and other aspects. Through Yang Tianzhen's accomplished life, we can deeply feel how powerful the spiritual strength of a person who fully affirms his self-worth is.
It is precisely because Yang Tianzhen and Wu Qianyu have a strong spiritual core that they can break through the limitations of their original families and academic qualifications, and they can be like fish in water in fields and classes that do not seem to belong to them.
No matter what the environment you are in, self-worth and self-ability are the foundation for adapting to the environment and developing yourself. When you affirm yourself and treat yourself well, even in the face of people with a more superior social status, you can still be calm and calm.
Constantly strengthen one's own spiritual strength, improve one's spiritual realm, and refine the essence from suffering when encountering suffering, and do not exile and recreation when things are smooth. In a life that values self, many moments of your life will be wonderful and valuable, no need to deliberately look for anything, the path we take is the most fragrant path.
If you are also confused, but unwilling to fall, or often beaten, easy to be unconfident, but want to become a better version of yourself, you may wish to read Yang Tianzhen's "Take Yourself Seriously".
May everyone be kind to themselves, take root in countless forests, and nourish the soul of this tree with the nutrients brought by the spirit.