Every Spring Festival, whether to go home for the New Year has become a knot in the hearts of some young people, and some people just don't want to go back no matter how your family urges! Poor family and friend relationships, short vacations, long distances, high expenses, endless material and status comparisons, urging marriage to give birth to ......All of this became a reason for them not to want to go home. After hesitation, some people are determined to be "free themselves" and enjoy a free and independent lifestyle in travel; While others stay in the city to plan and prepare more for the future. However, there are still some young people who have to go home and are repeatedly entangled in the journey home.
The big city can't accommodate our bodies, and when we return to our hometown, we have nowhere to put our souls! I don't know what I can do and what I should do! When I went to the countryside, I longed for the future and the distance, and answered the comfort of the big city and nostalgia for my hometown. So it's very tangled and painful.
Anyone who has experienced it knows that blind dates in the countryside are terrifying for some young people. Ten years of repair can be crossed in the same boat, and a hundred years of repair can be slept together. It took 500 times to look back in the past life in exchange for the passing of this life. A good marriage is really hard to come by. But if you go on a blind date in the countryside, if you don't agree with more than 5 people, you will be said to be "picky, your affairs are not easy to manage", and you will be scolded by your elders! If you don't go on a blind date, you will be scolded, and if you don't agree after the meeting, you will be scolded, and if you talk for a few days without results, you will still be scolded! So much so that some young people really rent a girlfriend to go home for the New Year! Coped with things.
When you return home, you have to face endless material and status comparisons! Young people are even more at a loss. What the owner has bought a luxury car, and the west has bought a big house! This one has been promoted, and that one has become an official! are all looking up, few people look inward at your spiritual world, and few pay attention to whether the pace of struggle under your feet is really tough and powerful! If you don't mix it well, you will be cast a disdainful glance. Now it's all right! Many young people rent luxury cars to go home for the New Year, and it is said that it costs about 8,000 yuan a day! Isn't it good to have so much money to buy some household appliances for your home, or to decorate them? Isn't it a real filial piety to buy some nutritional products for your parents? At this point, I don't know whose fault it is. Ay! Big head! Big head!
Thousands of good things outside, but none of them are as good as home! But what can you do this time? The cowhide has been blown out! People think that you are making a lot of noise outside, but in fact, the teeth are lost in the stomach, and only you know the bitterness. Those who float outside and don't come home have their own difficulties! I believe everyone is familiar with the above reading, this is a classic line of Wang Baoqiang in "Detective Chinatown", which expresses the sadness and helplessness of many people who are wandering outside.
Time flies, the years change, and another year has passed in a blink of an eye, and young people are no longer the thinking mode of the seventies and eighties! I hope that the beloved elders can give young people more freedom and understanding! Let the wandering people have a warm home, no longer suffer from anxiety and fear, and keep their hearts to go home.
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