An interesting phenomenon was discovered: women with survival anxiety, whether they are unable to be financially independent, or they obviously have the ability to earn money, but their core is weak and they cannot be responsible for themselves.
When choosing a mate, most of them can't start from the "heart" and face up to their emotional needs, but will habitually admire the strong and choose those men who seem to have a strong ability to survive.
Especially for some women who lack social experience and experience, this kind of man with strong external display undoubtedly has a great impact on them.
Take them to eat high-end restaurants and live in high-end hotels, let them experience luxury that they have never experienced, and give them a ** mobile phone to reimburse a little money.
They were full of joy and thought that it was a gift of fate, but they didn't know that it was Pandora's box.
Especially for some married men, when they come out to pick up girls, their calculations in their hearts are definitely much louder than women's.
These things are just cabbage money within their budget, or even reimbursable, go and try to ask them for a lot of money?
Not to mention that it is easy to go from thrift to luxury, and it is difficult to go from luxury to thrift, and it will leave a black history that can never be whitewashed. Don't believe that the Internet says that those who love you will accept everything about you, it's pure.
It is a very unlikely event to be able to find a springboard and get out of the whole body, and most of them overestimate their own minds and play into their lives.
At the age of 30, I watched everyone start a family and live a better and better life, but I became a single mother, and the man didn't even pay child support.
Men are always the most shrewd in this kind of thing, even if they are divorced, it is because the internal contradictions between their husband and wife are really irresolvable, not how good they are.
At an age when women have nothing, they will worship and look up to these flowers. When you have more and more things, you will know how ridiculous the so-called luxury used to be.
On the surface, this is a woman picking a rich man, but a smart woman knows that behind a rich man is ability, courage, decision-making, circle, and so on.
But people have the ability to know themselves, and they want to remember this sentence"Good things are never backwards compatible"This world is always the weak adapting to the strong, and the world only respects the strong.
It is difficult for the weak to really meet the strong, because they are weak and cannot distinguish the real strong, and the weak will also attract the weak.
Don't believe in nonsense that girls should be simple and kind. Women and men will face the same world in the future.
She must have the same blood, strategy, means, and courage to conquer the city as the boy in order to stand still.
The world will not be gentle with her just because she is a girl, so only being strong is the only way. Independent, strong, and dazzling to live in this world.
And really high-cognitive women have long seen the species of men thoroughly, and they know that there is only short-term passion in this world, and there is no so-called long-term love.
So they worked hard to grow themselves, just for the sake of this person, they would immediately replace the next one, and never drag the mud and water.
A woman who started from nothing, a woman who really made money with her own energy, she has experienced too much, and her heart has long been exhausted and she has seen through the vicissitudes of the world.
It's not that she won't be emotional, it's that she can be retracted freely, she won't have too high expectations for anyone other than herself, and whoever leaves and who stays with her can handle it indifferently.
So whenever I see those women who are broken for love, there is only one reason, they have too little experience and too little experience.
In fact, the surface is soft and weak, and the heart is strong, this configuration will make a woman breed an inexplicable charm, which is inexplicable.
Maybe this woman only looks 5 points, even if she stands with a big beauty with 8 points, the man still wants to have more contact with this woman.
Therefore, only extremely realistic women will have a happy life, and if girls are not realistic enough, their lives will not be good, this is the law and cause and effect.
Most women have a bad life, and their careers and families are damaged, and their essence is that they are not realistic enough, and they have been living in their own fantasy and obscene space.
The reality I am talking about here is to only focus on the present, pay attention to the improvement of cognitive psychology, and spare no effort to improve the competitiveness of oneself, rather than only asking others to do nothing for themselves, and the unity of knowledge and action is very important.
The more real a woman's life is, the sooner she will open up, why some women suffer from scum, and even if she knows that she is a rotten person or can't leave, it is because she is easily moved by memories and small details of the past.
The man gave her a dress when it was raining, accompanied her for a night when she gave birth, and in the middle of the night her aunt went across several streets to buy a glass of brown sugar water.
This stupid woman can remember it for a lifetime, so that for this memory, men can keep greening her, beating her, and abusing her.
And the real woman never cares about what this man did to me before, but only looks at the present, at this moment, people will change.
Especially if a poor man becomes rich, he has been good to you before, but it does not mean that he will be good to you for the rest of his life.
The real woman is as long as she finds that this man has changed, she immediately kicks it off, never looks back, and her hand rises and falls, cutting everything, and everything happens only 0 times and countless times.
This kind of high-cognitive woman will throw off her peers for at least ten years, and if the wise do not fall in love, the fool will be trapped by love.
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