The national examination for girls is upgraded, the object is improved, and the magic reality is real!
This girl, before and after the national examination, in order to strengthen the comparison, the object introduced by her friend is also to improve her grades"Magical"And real.
When we were young, we believed that God was fair and that career opportunities were equal. When we are young, we naively think that love is an act of purity, without worldly ideas. However, when we step into society, perhaps this innocence will soon be destroyed by the harsh reality.
Especially students from ordinary families, who used to hold"There is no room for a grain of sand in the eye"The mentality of those who depend on their parents for their lives, and those who have a happy married life, will involuntarily arise"Huai Cai is not met"feelings. However, when they go through all kinds of difficulties firsthand, they realize that false condescension does not solve the real problem.
However, it is difficult to realize one's society without experiencing this contrast firsthand"Identity"Impact on reality. A girl's life is turned upside down after she gets a job outside the system, which makes her realize the unexpected side of human nature.
The girl got a job through the state and immediately found herself in a huge change in her social status. Through an acquaintance's introduction, she not only met someone of higher social status, but her ex-boyfriend also sent her an invitation.
In the past, people thought that graduates from Shandong and Yunnan were the most enthusiastic about public enterprises, but judging from the current employment situation and the popularity of the national examination, public enterprises have become one of the most popular choices for college students across the country.
The answer to choosing the civil service is simple: it means having a stable career, which is quite different from the experience of working in the private sector. Not only is the pace of work more humane, but most importantly, the days are more stable, and you can meet middle age and old age with peace of mind and receive a relatively high pension.
However, young people often don't realize that even in such a rewarding career, the monthly salary is only a few thousand dollars. For women, especially those who have passed the state exams, this means:"Wheel of Fortune"Start turning.
One graduate shared how she compared before and after taking the national exam, and it wasn't just her parents who were proud of her. When she was introduced to friends and family, she clearly felt that her social status had changed dramatically.
After graduating from college, she couldn't find a job opportunity that suited her. Maybe to the people around her, she and many others"Difficulty in finding employment"Faced with a difficult employment situation, she is perceived as lacking in skills, has few ambitions, and seems doomed to a mediocre future.
As a result, most of the jobs recommended to her are salespeople, waiters, factory frontline workers, or other small business professionals. Her refusal to accept unsuitable work drew accusations from intermediaries who criticized her for being too demanding.
However, when he entered the workforce, he found that the potential colleagues who were introduced to him immediately moved up a notch. It is clear that introducers pick almost the most privileged group of people from their own social circles.
These people may belong to wealthy families, run small businesses, or at least, like her, have stable careers in colleges and universities, schools, and hospitals. Finally, she understood what people often say"Marriage within the system"meaning. Even her ex-boyfriend, when he heard the news, changed his attitude and took the initiative to come over to show kindness and try to learn more about it.
The girl's experience both"Magical"It's also real, involving two life trajectories that are not easy to confuse. Successfully passing the national government is a relatively decent career, but it does not mean that the future will be smooth sailing. At first, she thought it was just a job that would make her life easier and ease her worries about old age.
However, she didn't expect that her parents, relatives and neighbors, and even her ex-boyfriend, would have a very different attitude towards her than in the past. It made her wonder: Is this really the case? It turns out that it's not that friends and relatives don't understand people, it's that they used to think that they couldn't get along with good people.
After passing the national government, she is basically the same, and her personality has not changed. The only change is that her role within the system has changed, so in everyone's eyes, her"Value"It seems to have become different. The experience is both magical and real. However, many people have warned her to keep a cool head now that she has seen everything.
If people decide how to treat you based on your situation and career, it can only mean that you don't have a high status in their minds. Those who are eager to introduce you to someone may seem well-intentioned, but in reality, you may be just one kind in their eyes"Resources"。
There are two types of people, even if the other party is enthusiastic, do not easily defeat. One is the people who not only refuse to help us when we are in trouble, but also take the initiative to hurt us. This kind of person only cares about the result, everything is based on his own interests, and once he is involved in a conflict, he will definitely not hesitate to turn his face and deny others.
The other kind of person is that when they see that their situation is improving, they will quickly change their mind and go to see you. At the end of the day, they do"Resources"More interested than you. In other words, it is their nature to be capable, but they are also the ones who are most likely to bully the weak.
After her successful promotion to the civil service, she began to talk less about professional matters, especially avoiding talking too much with friends and family. For someone who has never been bullied in the workplace or at home, this may seem like an overly idealistic of human nature. Therefore, it is also a reminder to fresh graduates that if they are attending a business contract or have found a job, they should be careful not to disclose relevant information at will.
Whether it is a national or provincial exam, it has to pass political scrutiny, and sometimes a few trivial reasons can become arguments. Obviously they were candidates on the list to be admitted, but they were eliminated in the end, who found them?
Often, only those who are familiar with you or who have crossed paths with you will be able to understand some of your past mistakes. While some people may show great kindness towards strangers, they may feel resentment because they envy relatives or friends who have done a better job.
Be vigilant, neither harmful nor defensive. What's more, once you're admitted to the civil service, work-related rules will also limit the size of your private parties. Therefore, graduates learn to avoid arousing unnecessary suspicion.
Subject] Have you ever been in a similar situation?