Why are so many female teachers single in their teaching profession? Is it overly ambitious?
If the teachers are so good, why are many female teachers single? Is the teacher's taste too high?
As we all know"Leftover men"、"Leftover women"It has become a phenomenon in today's society, that is, a lot of young people of the same age are not ready to get married. Teaching is a very good profession for many people, especially female teachers, which is the dream of many people. However, in real life, a large percentage of female teachers who stay in school are single.
In the middle school in my district, there are about 10 single female teachers in their 30s, and 2 of them are still single in their 40s. These teachers have a high degree of education, a stable income, and good family conditions, why did they become"Leftover women"This? Is it too demanding to choose a mate?
The reason is actually quite simple.
First of all, female teachers have high standards when it comes to mate selection and refuse any unsatisfactory conditions. Female teachers generally have a good academic background, at least a university diploma, and a stable salary. As a result, they have relatively high criteria for choosing a mate. For example, a teacher in our office once said that she had to meet certain requirements or not attend.
First of all, you must work within the system, preferably as a civil servant; Second, you must have at least a bachelor's degree; Your parents must have a fixed pension and have their own home, and you must be less than 175 cm tall. These conditions may not seem strict, but in reality there are very few people who can meet these conditions, and some people cannot become civil servants even if their family conditions are good. In conclusion, these seemingly simple conditions are actually difficult to meet.
Secondly, most female teachers do not like teachers very much, it is difficult to find opportunities to socialize with boys, and they gradually lose contact with the opposite sex. Female teachers prefer boys, and although girls like boys, it is the boys who look down on girls the most.
Male teachers are highly educated, with at least a university degree, and earn a considerable income. However, male teachers have fewer opportunities for promotion and may remain ordinary teachers for the rest of their lives, without the possibility of becoming principals or deans of instruction. In addition, male teachers have a smaller circle of friends and are more difficult to socialize with, and in a society like China, which values relationships, it is even harder for them to find help.
Teachers are reluctant to go to teachers, but they don't have the opportunity to contact teachers, and gradually they lose the opportunity to get along with teachers.
Third, there are fewer and fewer outstanding young people in rural areas, and many outstanding young people are unwilling to return to rural areas. As we all know"Leftover men"There are more excellent women in the group, while"Leftover men"There are fewer excellent males. In other words, quality men rarely become"Leftover men", which makes it difficult for many excellent women to find their favorite partner.
There are even fewer young men with the ability, especially in small towns, where most men have opted for careers, let alone those with college degrees. As a result, it is difficult for female teachers to find very good men.
For example, in our case, there are many men from good families, but most of them do not have stable jobs and do not have a high degree of education. They are well paid and have their own houses, but many female teachers don't like them because they feel that these men are uneducated and therefore not considered.
Many girls choose to become teachers because they want a secure job, but they must not go to a bad country so as not to jeopardize their lifelong careers. In today's society, it is not easy to find a stable job, and for many girls, teachers are their first choice. Some girls are even willing to work as teachers in remote rural areas. However, it is not easy for a girl to go to the countryside to find a partner, unless she is willing to lower her standards.
It is particularly difficult for female teachers in urban and rural areas to find university graduates, let alone men with higher education. In recent years, the number of civil servants recruited globally has been very low, and those who have been admitted to the civil service are usually from wealthier families, so they are less willing to marry female teachers. That's why don't ask too much of girls, or they might marry the wrong person.
In general, among female teachers"Leftover women"The phenomenon is mainly due to the rigidity of female teachers' perception of mate selection. As long as the requirement for the ratio of spouses does not change, the number of single female teachers is likely to increase in the future. The key to solving this problem lies in the reflection and change of teachers themselves.
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