Raising a child is a difficult practice, and raising a sensible and self-disciplined child is even more difficult. Every time I mention tutoring children to write homework, parents are angry every minute, sad and a little funny, and even "tutoring children to write homework" was once ridiculed by parents as a catastrophe to be crossed on the road of cultivation!
Do you say I'm easy? When I came back from work one day, I had to tutor him in his homework, roaring and roaring for two hours, he was stunned that he couldn't learn, and I couldn't live a day on this day!
Sister ** said excitedly how she tutored her little nephew? Why doesn't the little nephew have a long memory and don't open his mind? After saying that, he even cried aggrievedly!
Not to mention that my sister has become a Hedong lion roar every minute because of tutoring children in their homework, even those gentle and dignified stars on weekdays can't help but post their roaring and raising babies on the Internet.
In this era of involution and chicken babies, I have to say that this generation of parents is really too difficult, and they are simply taking their lives to help their children with their homework.
Awaken your inner drive to the top of your life.
Someone said, "When children really want to learn and work it as their own thing, they will naturally learn easily and well." ”
In other words, once the child's mysterious internal drive is awakened, it is difficult for the child to think about it!
Internal motivation can be divided into cognitive internal drive, self-improvement internal drive, and subsidiary internal drive.
Among these three internal drives, cognitive motivation is the most important internal motivation for learning.
To put it simply, cognitive internal drive refers to an individual's interest in learning itself, and the purpose of action is to satisfy one's curiosity and desire for knowledge, without being urged by others, and is a kind of motivation for active exploration.
I once heard the story of a scumbag counterattacking a scholar, which is impressive!
Zhang Jie from Ningxiang, Hunan Province, is a scumbag in the eyes of his classmates, addicted to games, keeps his mobile phone in his hand every day, abandons his studies, and even drops out of school for half a year.
In the high school entrance examination that year, he was reluctantly promoted to a local ordinary high school with a full B score, but there were unforeseen circumstances, and Zhang Jie's family suffered an accident.
Although Zhang Jie's parents insisted hard at that time, they never gave up Zhang Jie's studies, and Zhang Jie was deeply touched by the deep care of his parents.
After that, this broken jar and broken teenager seemed to grow up in an instant, he began to be angry and study hard, and finally he was admitted to 4 famous American schools such as Hong Kong Chinese University with excellent results. 
Therefore, it is not that children can't learn, as long as their inner drive is stimulated, every child may have a promising future.
As parents, what we need to do is to see the problems behind our children, and then use professional and efficient learning strategies and methods to awaken the hidden energy of our children, so as to stimulate their interest in learning and their inner potential.
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The company has brought together more than 150 excellent expert tutors and is equipped with dozens of national second-level psychological counselors, covering all aspects of family education, and has more than 50,000 successful cases since its establishment, winning wide acclaim from customers and all walks of life.
We will guide parents to stimulate their children's internal drive, so that children can change from "willing to learn" to "love to learn" and become real other people's children.
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