In 2005, on a spare afternoon, Ms. Huang was helping out in her daughter Xiaowan's shop, and the mother and daughter were talking and laughing, and they were very happy.
Xiao Wan also said to Ms. Huang during the chat that day
"Mom, my clothing store has been opened, and when I make money, I will honor you and my father in the future."Ms. Huang was so moved by her daughter's words that her eyes were wet.
In Ms. Huang's eyes, as long as her daughter has the two elders in her heart, she will be content.
Ms. Huang and her daughter Xiao Wan.
When the mother and daughter were chatting happily, suddenly, two uninvited customers came to the store.
The two who came looked like mother and daughter, and the older woman hurriedly walked up to Xiao Wan when she entered the door and cried
'I'm sorry, I'm sorry、、、Ms. Huang was stunned when she saw this scene, as if she remembered something.
Immediately after, no longer waiting for the mother and daughter in front of them to speak.
Ms. Huang pushed the two of them out, and asked loudly as she pushed
'What are you doing here?' Didn't you bother our lives? ’The scene in front of him made Xiao Wan directly stunned!
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Why did her mother, Ms. Huang, react so much? Why rush to push the mother and daughter away?
Countless questions swirled in Xiao Wan's mind, what the hell is going on?
The whole thing started 20 years ago.
Ms. Huang's family lives in rural Jiangxi Province and she has been working in the local town.
After matchmaking, Ms. Huang and Mr. Wan from a neighboring village met and got married.
Because both of them are employees of the town's unit, the two of them live a rich and happy life.
Unfortunately, after many years of marriage, Ms. Huang's stomach has not moved.
Seeing that the children of the people who got married together were running all over the ground, Ms. Huang was very anxious.
Ms. Huang. Although her husband, Mr. Wan, has always said that it doesn't matter if she has children or not.
Ms. Huang knew that those were just her husband's words of comfort, and he was actually very eager to have a child of his own.
During the Spring Festival in 1986, Ms. Huang and her husband went to a relative's house in a nearby town to pay New Year's greetings.
In the afternoon, Ms. Huang and her husband were ready to leave after paying New Year's greetings to relatives.
As soon as I walked to the entrance of the village, I saw a large cardboard box on the side of the road, and there was a cry of a baby in the carton.
Ms. Huang hurriedly walked to the carton in three steps and two steps.
When she opened the carton and looked, oh my God, it was a baby inside.
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Ms. Huang quickly asked her husband to take off his coat and wrap it up for the baby girl.
When Ms. Huang picked up the baby, she found a piece of paper under the baby, which read:
'The child is in good health and was born on the ninth day of March 1985'.Seeing this piece of paper, Ms. Huang and her wife understood that the child had been abandoned.
Ms. Huang picked up the child, but looked around but did not find a single figure.
Ms. Huang couldn't help but say:
'Even if you don't want children, put them in a safe place, and throw them outside in the ice and snow on such a cold day, in case no one sees the children and they must not freeze to death?' How can there be such ruthless parents in the world. ’Husband Mr. Wan said:
'No one wants us to do it, it's just because we live far away from our house, so we don't have trouble in the future.'Ms. Huang listened to her husband's words and took the baby home with her husband in the car.
When she got home, Ms. Huang found that she did not have any baby products at home.
She hurried to get her husband out to buy everything the baby needed.
She also made a special statement that she must buy the best milk powder.
Her husband went out to buy things, and Ms. Huang was not idle.
She began to boil water and prepared to give the baby a hot bath to ward off the cold.
When she bathed the child, she found out that it was a baby girl.
Ms. Huang said to the baby with a sigh while bathing the child
'Poor little cub, your parents should dislike you for being a little girl, I will be your mother in the future, I love you'.After bathing the children, the husband also came back from shopping outside.
The husband and wife were busy feeding the baby and preparing diapers for a while.
On the first night of sleeping, the husband and wife took turns to be 'on duty', for fear that the baby would have an accident.
The next day, Ms. Huang thought that since the baby had been picked up by a distant relative, it meant that the girl's parents' house was not far from the relative's house.
She asked her relatives to help ask, whose child is it, and whether she wants it?
If she still wants, Ms. Huang is ready to send the child back to the family.
Soon after, Ms. Huang received a message from her relatives.
Relatives told Ms. Huang and his wife
'Through many inquiries, it was found that there was indeed a baby girl who had been abandoned in the neighboring village where they lived, and the baby girl already had a girl in her family and wanted a boy, and the baby girl's family also said that they would never disturb the baby girl's life'.After listening to the words of the relatives, Ms. Huang and her husband were relieved, and then they went through the adoption procedures for the child, and the child followed her husband's surname 'Wan'.
After completing the adoption procedures, Ms. Huang and her husband were very happy that they finally had a child of their own, but they did not know the difficulty of raising a child.
From the moment the child was brought home, the couple treated it as if they were their own.
Eat, drink, wear, and use all the best.
At that time, many people couldn't afford to feed their children milk powder, so they drank rice soup.
Relatives and friends around her advised Ms. Huang not to spend so much money on milk powder.
Usually feed your child some rice soup and water.
Ms. Huang didn't agree, she said
"Even if we don't have anything to eat, we can't lose our children."In order to raise his children, Mr. Wan began to work as a casual worker after work.
For the sake of this child, Ms. Huang and his wife gave everything they had.
If other children have it, their daughters will have it, and if other children don't, their daughters will have it.
It is very appropriate to describe it as being afraid of melting in your mouth and afraid of flying in your hand.
Under the careful care of his parents, Xiao Wan went from being thin when he was first picked up to being white and chubby.
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This made Xiao Wan very sad.
Ms. Huang and his wife were sad when they saw their daughter sad, and they were also sad.
Although they comforted and told Xiao Wan more than once that she was biological.
But it can't stop the rumors outside.
To know'All mouths are golden, and the bones are destroyed'.
In desperation, Ms. Huang, who has always had a strong personality, took the initiative to put down her figure.
Go door-to-door to find neighbors and ask others.
Don't tell your child this when he's young.
For this matter, Ms. Huang has said good things to others.
After their daughter started school, as long as it was what her daughter wanted, Ms. Huang and his wife tried their best to meet it.
Ms. and Mrs. Huang are kind to their daughter, and their daughter is also close to the couple.
In the eyes of outsiders, they are a very happy family of three.
Time flies quickly, and in a blink of an eye, Xiao Wan has grown up ** and reached the age of talking about marriage.
Xiao Wan. In 2003, Xiao Wan reached adulthood at the age of 18, because he did not go to university, he had reached the age of talking about marriage in the countryside.
Ms. Huang's father-in-law came up with the idea of kissing and kissing.
Because there is no blood relationship, the father-in-law wants Ms. Huang's daughter Xiaowan to marry Ms. Huang's nephew (Ms. Huang's husband, younger brother and son).
When Ms. Huang heard this suggestion, she immediately objected.
Because although her daughter is not biological, she was raised by herself and her husband, and she wants her daughter to marry better.
Ms. Huang knew that her husband's brother's family was not living in good conditions, so she was very opposed.
But Ms. Huang's husband supported the idea, telling Ms. Huang that he said
'My nephew is a member of our family, and if our daughter marries him, we will only be closer to him, and the family will definitely honor us more'.Originally, Ms. Huang did not feel guilty for her husband to give birth to a child, but this time he decided to follow her husband's wishes.
Soon, Ms. Huang's daughter and nephew got marriedSince then, the nephew has become a son-in-law.
At that time, Ms. Huang and her husband were full of joy, thinking that they were both from the old family, and this son-in-law must not be like their son in the future.
What Ms. Huang didn't expect was that it was this man who was both a nephew and a son-in-law, and what he did afterwards broke Ms. Huang's heart.
After her daughter got married, Ms. Huang thought that she had survived to the end and that it was time for her husband to enjoy happiness and retirement.
But life played a big joke on Ms. Huang first.
In 2004, Ms. Huang's husband suddenly fell ill and passed away shortly after
The departure of her lover, who had been with her for half her life, made Ms. Huang sad.
Fortunately, my daughter stood up at this time and said:
'Mom, Daddy is gone and me, don't be sad'.After listening to her daughter's words, Ms. Huang felt a lot of relief.
At least he has his daughter by his side, and he is not too lonely.
Just when Ms. Huang was gradually getting out of the pain of bereavement, bigger blows followed.
04. Twenty years later, the biological mother came to the door
In 2005, Ms. Huang saw that her daughter's family was doing well, so she sponsored her daughter and son-in-law to open a clothing store.
Soon after the store opened, the unexpected came.
One day, Ms. Huang was helping out in her daughter's shop, when suddenly two girls, an old man and a young woman, entered the store.
After arriving at the store, the two went straight to Xiao Wan, and then the older woman took Xiao Wan's hand and cried and said:
'I'm sorry, I'm sorry、、、Seeing this scene, Ms. Huang's heart 'chuckled', and it was time to come.
Although the two didn't say anything, Ms. Huang had already roughly guessed who the two of them were.
At that moment, Ms. Huang was extremely angry in her heart, and she shouted loudly:
'What are you doing here?' Didn't you bother our lives? ’After saying that, he quickly pushed the two out.
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Then she took Xiao Wan's hand and sat down.
Ms. Huang snorted and cried, and told Xiao Wan how to pick up Xiao Wan back then.
At the same time, she told Xiao Wan that the two women who came to the store just now were her biological mother and her own sister.
After speaking, Ms. Huang was surprised to find that her daughter did not show a sad application, but let out a very calm 'oh'.
Her daughter's reflection made Ms. Huang instantly feel that her daughter, who had been raising her daughter for 20 years, had become so strange at this moment.
Since the appearance of her daughter's biological mother, Ms. Huang's heart has become insecure.
She is afraid of losing her daughter who she worked so hard to raise, she only has her daughter as a relative in this world, and her daughter is her only support.
In order to please her daughter and son-in-law, Ms. Huang offered to help her daughter and son-in-law take care of the children, and contracted all the housework at home.
Laundry, cooking, tidying up the room, full-time nannies are not so attentive, Ms. Huang has been doing it for more than ten years.
Qingfu has not been enjoyed, and after raising the big (Xiao Wan), he has to pull the small (grandson, granddaughter).
Even so, Ms. Huang found that her daughter was not as close to her as before.
My daughter hasn't talked to her for a long time, and when she wants to talk to her daughter, she always says she's busy.
Ms. Huang later found out that her daughter actually had her biological mother and sister's ***
They also often chat and interact with each other frequently.
When Ms. Huang questioned her daughter, Xiao Wan just said casually
'I just treat them like friends.'A simple sentence put Ms. Huang in the way.
Although Ms. Huang was lost in her heart, she had to endure it.
Ms. Huang did not expect that her repeated regression did not win the understanding of others, but made them even worse.
05. The contradiction intensified, and the two sides had a showdown
In 2014, Xiao Wan's biological mother was demolished and divided into two houses, 9 and 15 in the same community.
Xiao Wan's biological mother asked Xiao Wan and Xiao Wan's sister to take 150,000 yuan each and give them the house.
Since then, Xiao Wan has lived in a community with his biological mother and sister, and Xiao Wan's sister is still working in Xiao Wan's store, and the two have a very close relationship.
All of this was difficult for Ms. Huang to accept, but she had to accept it.
She cares too much about her daughter in her heart, Xiao Wan and her biological mother are so close, Ms. Huang is still forbearing, she has no other better way.
She could only plead silently in her heart, Xiao Wan should not forget the nurturing love of more than 20 years.
It can be said that Ms. Huang has been humbled to the dust in front of her daughter.
Then, Ms. Huang found that Xiao Wan actually pulled her biological mother and sister into the family group formed by their family.
Although she had to make inches, Ms. Huang still endured.
What she didn't know was that it was her blind forbearance that led to greater contradictions later.
One day, Ms. Huang found that a few photos were posted in the groupXiao Wan returned to his hometown to recognize his relatives, which directly touched Ms. Huang's bottom line.
Xiao Wan returned to his hometown to recognize his relatives**.
She directly had a public showdown in the group and said her daughter:
'Do you want to go back to your mother's house?' Your surname is Wan not Hu, when you were a child, you asked me to take medicine and wear, I am your mother, now that you have grown up, I am not your mother anymore? Isn't your mother's home my family? Do you want to go back to that mother's house? ’Faced with Ms. Huang's soul three questions, the group fell silent.
No one spoke, leaving Ms. Huang alone to weep sadly.
After the pain, Ms. Huang decided not to put up with it.
What would she do if she wanted to have a thorough understanding?
In 2020, Ms. Huang asked for help** and asked her adopted daughter to compensate 2 million in child support, and then dissolve the mother-daughter relationship.
Ms. Huang was already disheartened, but if there was a glimmer of hope, she would definitely not take this step, but the behavior of her daughter and son-in-law disappointed her again and again.
The daughter and her biological mother are getting closer and closer, and they are drifting away from herself, which makes Ms. Huang disheartened.
The son-in-law's various behaviors over the years have made Ms. Huang even more desperate.
What exactly did the son-in-law do? Makes Ms. Huang despair?
Because the son-in-law's family was poor, when they got married, Ms. Huang and his wife provided them with a wedding house.
After marriage, Ms. Huang continued to help her daughter's family.
In 2004, when Ms. Huang's husband fell ill and was hospitalized, her daughter and son-in-law could not get a point, but the son-in-law encouraged Ms. Huang to sell her hometown house to her father-in-law for medical treatment.
This made Ms. Huang very dissatisfied, but she didn't say anything for her daughter's happiness.
After her husband's death, Ms. Huang paid for the renovation of her hometown house into a two-story building.
And she changed the real estate certificate to her son-in-law's name, which is equivalent to giving the house to her son-in-law.
Ms. Huang thought that people's hearts are flesh and blood, and sincerity is exchanged for sincerity.
She is good to her son-in-law, and her son-in-law should be good to her.
But this son-in-law doesn't seem to appreciate it very much.
One year, when her son-in-law celebrated his birthday, Ms. Huang spent more than 20,000 yuan to buy a gold chain for her son-in-law.
The son-in-law Xie put it away without thanking him, even if it made Ms. Huang say nothing.
The son-in-law's parents like to play mahjong and often ask Ms. Huang to borrow money when they lose.
Because the other party is not only his own in-laws, but also his husband, brother, and sister-in-law.
After lending them money, she scolded them as the eldest sister-in-law.
Let them not play mahjong all day.
Let them make good money, because they have a small child at home to get married.
Who knew that it was these kind scoldings that were understood by the son-in-law as Ms. Huang looking down on him and deliberately insulting his parentsSo he almost became an enemy with Ms. Huang.
In 2016, Ms. Huang fell ill and was hospitalized for heart bypass surgery, a few days after the surgery.
She wanted her son-in-law to help her send her home, but her son-in-law made an excuse and didn't ask.
This time, Ms. Huang no longer has any illusions about her son-in-law.
What makes Ms. Huang desperate for her son-in-law is that her son-in-law is indifferent to herself, but she is courteous to Xiao Wansheng's mother.
In Ms. Huang's opinion, her daughter Xiaowan is becoming more and more estranged from herself, which has a lot to do with this son-in-law.
Ms. Huang never thought that this nephew and son-in-law's relatives would make her so unbearable.
She was completely desperate for her son-in-law.
Her daughter and son-in-law have humbled her to the extreme.
She didn't want to lose her last dignity in order to maintain her pitiful affection.
So she asked her daughter for a 2 million 'breakup fee' on the show.
The adopted daughter Xiao Wan said directly:
'Impossible'In the end, under the mediation of the program team, the daughter and son-in-law agreed to pay 100,000 yuan in advance.
Subsequently, he paid 5,000 yuan a month in alimony, and promised to treat Ms. Huang well in the future.
This is the end of this matter for the time being.
After the dispute between Ms. Huang and her adopted daughter was broadcast, it caused great repercussions.
Some people say that Xiao Wan should not be so close to his biological mother;
Some people also say that Xiao Wan was influenced by her husband to have a gap with her adoptive mother;
Of course, some people say that it is right for Xiao Wan and his biological mother to get along as friends, after all, they have the grace of childbirth.
Is it more generous to give birth and raise?
Born without raising, the severed finger can be returned; If you don't give birth and raise, you will never be able to return.
Which is right and which is wrong, this sentence is clear.
We often say that family affection is priceless, maternal love is the most selfless love in the world, and Ms. Huang's maternal love for Xiao Wan is even beyond the love of a normal mother for her child.
If it weren't for the sadness, how could she be willing to let more than 20 years of family love come to an end?
In fact, the reason why Ms. Huang wants such a huge 'breakup fee' is to force her daughter Xiaowan to 'turn back', and she longs for her daughter to return to her.
What makes us happy is that at the end of the show, Xiao Wan still hugged Ms. Huang tightly, and at that moment, Ms. Huang cried like a child in her daughter's arms.
It is natural for you to raise me young, and I to raise you to be old, I hope that their mother and daughter will no longer have a gap in their hearts and go to opposition!
Do you think Ms. Huang asked her adopted daughter for a 2 million 'break-up fee', is it expensive?