The eldest son is over 70 years old and cannot afford to pay alimony, the younger son and daughter are still alive, and in 2020, the ninety-year-old lady in Suqian, Jiangsu Province actually asked her grandson to pay? Why is Dudu's grandson asked to pay for it? What's the secret behind this?
Qian Yourong, who is in his seventies, has retired, and he should have enjoyed his old age, but recently he was annoyed by his mother's lawsuit, why should Qian Yourong be so distressed?
It turned out that his mother actually sued Qian Yourong's three sons and asked for alimony to Mrs. Liu every month!
Mrs. Liu has three sons and one daughter, the eldest son Qian Yourong is retired in his seventies, and the second son Qian Youming is a farmer at home.
Therefore, Qian Youming thought: He has taken care of his wife for so many years, and the eldest brother has never said anything, and now that he is in trouble, it should not be difficult for the eldest brother to give some alimony.
But when Qian Youming told his eldest brother Qian Yourong about it, the eldest brother Qian Youming looked embarrassed, he was already retired, he only had a pension of a few hundred yuan a month, and even his own life had to rely on his sons to take care of him, and he had money to give Mrs. Liu?
Qian Yourong's sons also said: I don't want to pay. First of all, the aunt and uncle are still alive, no matter how much alimony is said, it is not their turn to pay, and besides, Mrs. Liu was very partial to the little uncle before, and now she wants to ask them for money? What's so embarrassing?
Mrs. Liu lost her husband when she was young, and worked hard to pull her children to grow up, and her eldest son Qian Yourong had reached the time of high school, in order to take care of the family, Mrs. Liu had no choice but to let her eldest son drop out of school to work and subsidize the family.
But the second son Qian Youming was not angry, and was finally persuaded to retire because of a fight. But Mrs. Liu has been very fond of her second son since she was a child, and when she reached the marriageable age, when the eldest Qian Yourong was not married, Mrs. Liu had already found a good partner for Qian Youming.
even sold the valuable items in the family to Qian Youming as a bride price, the boss Qian Yourong was honest and honest, although he was uncomfortable with his mother's arrangement, he didn't say anything.
After marriage, Qian Youming needs money everywhere, and Mrs. Liu even drove the family's money Yourong out of the field to work, and gave Qian Youming several places to take care of.
Qian Yourong has been working hard outside for many years, and he married a wife by himself, while Qian Youming is guarding a few plots of land at home. The blood affection makes Qian Yourong love and hate his younger brotherQian Youming's gambling debts are even repaid by Qian Yourong's part-time job.
When Mrs. Liu was old, Qian Yourong planned to take her mother to live in her own home, but her mother had to live with Qian Youming and respect Mrs. Liu's choiceWhen Qian Yourong was not retired, he paid his mother's alimony to his younger brother on a monthly basis.
After retirement, Qian Yourong gradually began to reduce the supply of alimony, and now his younger brother Qian Youming's life suddenly began to be tight, and taking care of Mrs. Liu became a difficult thing for him.
Liu understands the difficulties of his second son Qian Youming, and finds his eldest son Qian Yourong to ask for money, but what savings does Qian Yourong, who has retired, have? Seeing that her eldest son really had no money, Mrs. Liu actually hit her grandson with the idea!
Mrs. Liu said; Grandma usually treats you well, right, but now grandma can't live anymore, shouldn't you honor me?
The three grandsons have not had much contact with Mrs. Liu since they were children, and Mrs. Liu's favorite child is still the child of her second son Qian Youming, and for these three grandchildren, Mrs. Liu can't even call them all names!
In this contrast, the three grandsons were naturally unwilling to pay this alimony, so Mrs. Liu angrily sued the three grandsons to the court. On one side is the son, on the other side is the mother, and the money in the middle is really full of meat in the palm of his hand and the back of his hand, and he doesn't know what to do.
Through the joint efforts of the mediator and the judge,Qian Liu's three grandsons voluntarily paid Qian Liu's 370 yuan in alimony every month from June 2021. As for Qian Liu, he continued to live with his youngest son Qian Yongming
As the son of Mrs. Liu, Qian Yourong does have an obligation to support Mrs. Liu, and as an obligation stipulated in China's Civil Code, the obligation of support cannot be refused to bear, nor can it be transferred to others, and Qian Yourong must bear itMaintenance obligations
But in fact, Qian Yourong, who has been laid off at the age of seventy, does not have his own income**, and he is not willing to shirk in the face of maintenance obligations, but he is really unable to bear it.
Therefore, if Qian Yourong claims that the three sons should bear the maintenance expenses of the old lady, this is in accordance with the lawIf the son is not able to support him, he can ask the grandson to bear the maintenance of the grandparents.
Although the second son, Qian Youming, is the main person responsible for supporting his mother, he does not have the right to claim alimony from other supporters, and Qian Youming cannot be the subject of receiving alimony.
However, the old lady's request for alimony against her three grandsons was reasonable, and the three grandsons were indeed legally obligated to pay alimony to Mrs. Liu, so Mrs. Liu could accept the alimony provided by the three grandchildren.
Alimony may be treated as a gift, and the person receiving alimony has the right to dispose of it freely, and the supporter may not interfere with or withdraw the gift.
In practice,In general, the person being sued by the person being sued for support but has not fulfilled the obligation to support, in this case, the person being supported may apply for the help of the people's court to recover his maintenance.
Although parents may have caused certain damage to the interests of their children when taking care of their children, the children cannot refuse to perform the maintenance obligations, unless there are legal reasons that lead to the dissolution of the maintenance relationship between the parents and the children, and the children may refuse to perform the maintenance obligations.
If parents fail to fulfill their obligation to support their children, they need to bear certain responsibilities in accordance with the law, and the same obligation to support their children is also a constraint on their children, and children who have not fulfilled their obligation to support their children in accordance with the law must also bear certain responsibilities.
"Whether a family is happy or not, the whole family needs to be created together, only when doing things for the sake of the family, reduce the contradictions in family life, in order to have a harmonious family atmosphere.