Life is like a magnificent river, and fate is an important factor in shaping our course and trajectory. Some people say that "human life is hard, and there are blessings", which means that the tenacity and smoothness of fate are directly related to the happiness and success of individuals. However, the hardness of fate is not innate, but is built on a series of conditions.
1. Seek good fortune and avoid evil
Mencius said: "Seek good fortune and avoid evil, and the people's feelings are also." "Seeking good fortune and avoiding evil is the code of action of the wise. In the journey of life, we often face various opportunities and challenges, and how to maintain composure and tenacity in adversity, and how to maintain humility and gratitude in good times determine the direction of our destiny. Those who have a hard life grit their teeth in adversity and move forward bravely; Keep a clear head and keep your feet on the ground in good times. This wisdom of seeking good fortune and avoiding evil has achieved the tenacity of fate.
Second, the combination of rigidity and softness
In the intertwining of life, we need to learn to be both rigid and soft. Rigidity is decisiveness and firmness in the face of opportunities and challenges; Softness is understanding and tolerance when dealing with interpersonal relationships and the environment. Just like Tai Chi, in the face of different situations, we need to flexibly use the way of rigidity and softness in order to resolve crises and realize self-worth. A person with a hard life can not only stick to his principles, but also compromise and seek peace, so as to make steady progress in the wind and waves.
3. Accumulate virtue and do good
The ancients said: "Accumulate virtue and do good, if virtue is matched, everything is worry-free." "Accumulating virtue and doing good deeds is the soul of life. The level of virtue determines the direction of a person's destiny, and the persistence of good deeds achieves the solidity of destiny. In the long course of life, kind people tend to have more happiness and success, because their good deeds converge into the blessing and blessing of fate. People with a hard life are destined to make good connections and move towards a bright future because of accumulating virtue and doing good.
Fourth, follow the path
Lao Tzu said: "Tao gives birth to one, life to two, two to three, and three to all things." "Conforming to the way of heaven, humanity, and nature is the highest state of life. The hardness of fate stems from the wisdom of conforming to the way of heaven and humanity. When faced with life choices, we must learn to follow our inner voice and find a direction that is in line with our own path. People with hard lives, conform to nature, follow the trend, and eventually control their fate and achieve brilliance.
Fifth, quiet to self-cultivation
There is no ambition without indifference, and there is no far-reaching ambition without tranquility. "In the hustle and bustle of the world, maintaining inner peace and calmness is a golden key to the door of destiny. Meditation and self-cultivation is a sharp weapon for sharpening destiny. In the accumulation of years, we know how to cultivate virtue quietly, wait quietly, and think quietly, so that we can find our own position in the complicated world, open the door of destiny, and sail to the distance in our hearts.
The door of destiny has always been open, waiting for everyone who works hard. The five conditions are the key to open the door of destiny and the bridge to success and happiness. May we always adhere to these conditions on the road of life, bravely face challenges, move forward firmly, and eventually go to the top of destiny and achieve the glory of life!