When people are over 50 years old, they have gone through most of their lives, have rich experience, and have seen through the chaos and complexity of the world. At this age, some people like to pretend to be confused, not because they really don't understand, but because they understand that many things cannot be changed, some things do not have to be said, and some things are said in vain. Therefore, pretending to be confused is also a kind of wisdom in life.
First of all, pretending to be confused is a sign of maturity. When we are young, we are always full of passion and a sense of justice, and we can't help but stand up and speak up when we see injustice. However, as we grow older, we gradually understand the complexity and multifaceted nature of many things, and understand that everyone has their own difficulties and difficulties. Therefore, we no longer express our opinions easily, no longer easily accuse others, but learn to understand and be tolerant. This kind of pretending to be confused is not really confused, but a sign of maturity.
Second, pretending to be confused is a way to protect yourself. In interpersonal communication, some things are difficult to explain clearly, and if you blindly get to the bottom of it, you will not only hurt others, but also get yourself into unnecessary disputes. Therefore, there are some things that we just know in our hearts and do not have to say them. Doing so will not only save you unnecessary troubles, but it will also make you feel more at ease.
Third, pretending to be confused with understanding is also a kind of wisdom. At work, there are some things that are obvious, but it is not good to say them, but it will bring trouble to yourself. In this case, we can choose to pretend to be confused and not say anything. Doing so will not only avoid unnecessary conflicts and disputes, but also allow you to focus more on your work and life.
Finally, pretending to be confused with understanding is also a kind of mental adjustment. There will always be some unsatisfactory things in life, and if we blindly dwell on them, we will not only make ourselves more unpleasant, but also make the people around us feel depressed and heavy. Therefore, there are some things that we can choose to pretend to be confused and not to be overly entangled and calculated. Doing so will not only make you more relaxed and enjoyable, but it will also make the people around you feel more comfortable and at ease.
To sum up, when people are over 50 years old, pretending to be confused with understanding is a kind of wisdom and mentality adjustment in life. At this age, we should learn to look at and deal with problems more maturely and rationally, and at the same time, we should also learn to protect ourselves and adjust our mentality. Only in this way can we better enjoy life and enjoy life. February** Dynamic Incentive Program
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