Some people often share the trivial things of life, day after day; Some people don't see a figure once in three or five days;
Some people also use it as a show, showing off all the time. Behind the circle of friends, there are ever-changing people's hearts.
So, what do girls who like to post on Moments have in common? What is their inner world?
1. Record the good pickers
For many girls, the circle of friends is like a thick diary of life, and they include all the trivial bits and pieces.
A bouquet of wildflowers on the side of the road, a homemade home-cooked meal, and a relaxing meal in the light rain, they are all skillfully photographed and then happily shared with everyone.
This kind of girl has a cheerful personality and a humble and low-key heart. They don't care how tall their lives are, but learn to find surprises in the ordinary and feel the beauty in the simple.
For them, the way to happiness is to be grateful and cherish what is in front of them.
Such a girl also likes to care about the people and things around her. Not only do they record what they see and think, but they also pay attention to what others have to say.
Through the communication of words and **, they are eager to have more connections with the world.
The girl who loves to send a circle of friends is not so much recording life as picking up the good times in life. They see things in the same way, but they think very differently.
So, a ** and an ordinary sentence that they inadvertently took can become a gift to the world.
2. Comparison of ladder climbers
However, there are also some girls who use the circle of friends as a stage to show, and they only choose to post the best side-
Fine dining restaurants and designer shopping bags, exotic and luxury travel, career and relationship ......The likes and comments of friends have become bargaining chips for them to compete.
This type of girl has a strong need for praise and recognition, and they are eager to prove themselves by posting news stories to gain external recognition.
However, this vanity is often rooted in low self-esteem – they need to constantly draw a sense of superiority from others in order to fill the emptiness in their hearts.
So they turned their circle of friends into a competition field, compared to clothes, compared to consumption levels, and ...... travel locations
The self-respecting mentality is exposed. While they enjoy being envied, they also invisibly hurt others.
This kind of girl needs to realize that true satisfaction comes from within, not from without; True happiness comes from giving, not taking.
3. Invisible onlookers
In addition, there are some girls who rarely appear in the circle of friends. It's not because they lack the desire to share, it's because they care too much about what others think.
There is no shortage of such comments in life: "Isn't it boring to post on Moments at every turn?" "If you update your status every day, isn't there anything serious? ”
The cruel words are like a knife edge, so that they do not dare to share themselves openly.
In fact, the circle of friends is a magic mirror - it can infinitely magnify our inner thoughts. The girls' fear of being judged is a reflection of their own high standards and exacting demands.
They crave external recognition in order to affirm their worth.
But being born as a human being is like a flat boat, which is inevitably beaten by wind and rain. Each of us has the same fragile and sensitive side in our hearts. So, why care too much about other people's speculation.
Think of the circle of friends as a space of your own, where you can splash as much as you want, and you can write your thoughts as much as you want.
You don't need to cater to anyone, you don't have to be everything, just be your true self, and everything will fall into place.
Fourth, the quiet flowing water
Whether they love to share, avoid it, or show it off, their hearts are all moving in the same direction - the source of happiness.
Some people say that happiness is like a river, and you can reach the other side where your heart desires. There is no absolute right or wrong, everyone is experiencing life and experiencing growth in their own way.
The true meaning of life is not how shining the time we live, but whether each day we live is full and meaningful.
Eventually, each of us will grow old and look down on fame and glitz. At that point, we may discover that true lasting happiness comes from the ability to savor life, not from the way to show off.
So, you might as well put down your phone and feel the light and shadow of this world for yourself. Feel the freshness of the warm spring sun, feel the sadness drifting in the autumn wind, and feel the silence of the winter sunset and snow.
Because, the most beautiful scenery still has to be discovered with heart.