The inner world can be expressed through behavior, and the higher a person's inner level, the behavior that will be shown will make people feel comfortable, not showing off, not complaining, having the confidence to accept life, and having a sense of control over their own life.
On the contrary, when a person's inner level is insufficient, he will only be controlled by the external environment. Just like a little monk and an old monk crossing the river and meeting a woman, knowing that this woman needs to cross the river, the old monk did not hesitate to bend down and carry this woman across the river.
After crossing the river, the little monk has been thinking about it, thinking that this behavior of ** is to get close to the woman, but the old monk is calm, and does not always keep the woman in his heart, but continues to maintain a calm attitude on the road.
The level of the little monk who intersected with the old monk was obviously not high enough to understand what the master was doing.
Low-level people are like this, they can afford to take it, they can't put it down, everything is what the heart cares about, but they never think that the heart is just a container, if you put inconsequential things in it, more important content can't be put in.
Especially in life, there are always some women who feel a lot of troubles, but in the final analysis, it is the level that does not trouble them enough. Women with insufficient inner levels can see it when they post on Moments, and they usually have these manifestations.
Feelings are a person's private affairs, whether they are happy or sad are personal experiences, sharing inner feelings with others, especially in the relatively public place of the circle of friends, there is a limit to triggering the emotional resonance of others.
If you often flaunt your happiness when you're happy and blindly vent your sadness when you're sad, it will give people the feeling of being too emotionally primacious.
When a person has only love and nothing more important in his life, pursues thinness, and is bound by love and love, it is obvious that the level is not enough.
Like the three girls in "Youth Fighting", Qian Beibei chose to go abroad in order to pursue her ideals;Ding Lan focused on her own growth, and where she had a long translator, she had good job opportunities, and was favored by high-quality men.
Qian Beibei and Ding Lan's lives are rich and exciting, Jin Xiaoni has been for love since her first appearance, and being with friends is either to share the highlight moments of her emotions, or to be secretly hurt, feeling that her boyfriend doesn't love her, the thrilling thing is not to get married, and she has no positive plans for her life.
Jin Xiaoni's circle of friends is love in addition to love, love makes her overindulgent, and she seems to be a loyal and infatuated person, but in fact, the level is not very high.
If you always pay attention to others, it is difficult to pay attention to your own development, and it is expected that the level is not high. Frequently complaining about one's emotional condition in the circle of friends, over time, not only will it not cause jealousy or resonance among others, but it will give others the feeling of being brain-dead and dare not make deep friends.
So throughout their lives, everyone is pursuing and the greatest desire is to have enough money, so as to achieve the freedom of wealth and take their material life to the next level.
However, not all people have enough capital to have the wealth of their dreams, after all, how much money a person can earn is determined by their own cognition, and the higher the cognition, the more likely the person is to have the ability to obtain money.
High-level people make money by raising their awareness;On the contrary, if a person's level is not enough, like a frog at the bottom of a well, there will even be an illusion that he is rich.
is like Fan Shengmei in "Ode to Joy", in order to save face in front of Wang Baichuan, he insisted that he bought the shared house by himself, and he was embarrassed until the truth was revealed.
Andy and Fan Shengmei are also very beautiful, the former has a lot of excellent men around him to pursue, and the latter is just a vase, just for playing.
The reason why there is such a result is because the inner level of the two people is different, it is easier for a kind man to see the heart of a woman, Andy is wasting his time by communicating without any good feelings at the party of his superiors, Fan Shengmei is keen on such a social field, and in front of rich people, she also pretends to be very knowledgeable and rich, but in fact, she has been seen through by others.
Whether a person has money or strength can be seen from the external verbal performance, there is no need to show off in the circle of friends, and the deliberate behavior will only make others laugh.