cheated at the age of the year, and his wife became a lover, and he regretted it.
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Two years after cheating, his wife took the initiative to fulfill him and his lover, but he regretted such a choice.
Cai Changming was presiding over a meeting when the mobile phone in his pocket suddenly vibrate. He took the opportunity to drink water to take a quick look and found that it was a teacher from his son's school calling. He had planned to reply after the meeting, so he didn't answer.
However, the teacher's ** never stopped, and he guessed that maybe his son was in trouble at school again. So he asked his assistant to continue to preside over the meeting, and he hurried out to pick up **.
After connecting **, the teacher told him angrily: "Cai Wei's parents, the child is fighting with his classmates at school, and it is estimated that his classmate's arm has been sprained, and we are on our way to the hospital, so you should come over and ...... quickly."Before the teacher finished speaking, Cai Changming eagerly assured the teacher that he would arrive immediately, apologized to the teacher, and said that he had caused trouble to the teacher again.
Hung up**, he motioned for the assistant to come out, and then hurriedly put on his coat and rushed to the hospital. When I arrived at the hospital, I spent money on the child's medical treatment and apologized to the parents.
This trip took most of the day. I was going to teach my son a few words, but the child didn't care about him at all, and when he arrived at the school gate, he went straight in. Obviously, he made a mistake, and he started beating people first, and he looked angry.
If it weren't for the teacher's presence, he would have really wanted to slap him twice.
For Cai Changming, spending money and time is no longer important, the important thing is that he can't accept the trouble his son caused him like a different person after he entered junior high school.
It bothered him like he was going crazy. Just on the way home, the sky suddenly began to pour down, and the sound of the rain rattled in his ears, making him even more anxious and uneasy.
In the car, he was alone, crying like a child. The grievances in my heart are like a sea bursting and an inflated balloon, which can no longer be suppressed. He, the leader of a municipal organ, used to be able to manage dozens of people and deal with the leaders of all parties, but now he is helpless in front of 14-year-old children.
5 years ago, he didn't have such troubles, because all the things for the children were handled by his wife Gu Yan. He devotes himself wholeheartedly to his work, pursues his future, and is busy outside the home wholeheartedly, and his wife is his solid backing.
Now, however, he is tired from his work and family, and to make matters worse, he has a wife who is vexatious all day. He felt powerless, if he had known that there would be today, he would not have divorced in the first place.
He really regretted it.
Cai Changming originally lived a happy life, his family was harmonious, he worked in the ** department, and his wife took care of the children at home. They have two lovely children, a son who is in school and a daughter who is not yet in school.
They have two houses, two cars, and some deposits. It's a perfect five-good family. However, since Chua's promotion, his life has changed.
He began to be scolded by more people and more people, especially young and beautiful women, who all hoped to get some benefits through Section Chief Cai.
Surrounded by flowers and plants and warblers and swallows, Cai Changming met his current wife and former lover Wang Meng. Wang Meng has an excellent appearance and figure, and knows how to dress up and attract people, which makes Cai Changming quickly attracted to her.
On the big stage of officialdom, some people and things are invisible. Cai Changming once thought that Wang Meng was just a playmate, and there would be no problem after a long time. However, he soon realized that Wang Meng's heart was very deep, and his desire was also very great.
Not only does she want to climb into Section Chief Cai's bed, but she also wants to be the hostess of Section Chief Cai's house. When Cai Changming knew her true thoughts, he felt extremely frightened.
He doesn't want to get divorced, because as a **, he can't** have an extramarital affair, otherwise his black gauze hat will not be able to keep it, and the rest of his life may be ruined. Therefore, he decided to cover it all up and keep it as silent as possible.
There is no impermeable wall in this world, Gu Yan, the housewife, finally knew about it. Different from Wang Meng, Gu Yan not only has a high degree and outstanding appearance, but more importantly, she is dignified and elegant.
Both parents are high-level intellectuals, and she grew up in a privileged environment since she was a child, reading a wide range of books, and knowing everything about piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. Such a woman is a treasure, but she retains a high level in her bones that cannot be desecrated.
When she learned that her husband was having an affair, she remained calm and waited patiently for Cai Changming to give an explanation. However, after his promotion, he was arrogant and unwilling to explain or apologize.
His attitude was clear, telling Gu Yan that he would correct his mistakes, hoping that she would not go too far and give her a look. Gu Yan has a tough personality, and her eyes reveal determination, she just wants to get an explanation.
The impasse between the two gave Wang Meng an opportunity. Gu Yan cast an indifferent look at Cai Changming, and Wang Meng responded with a warm kiss. The indifference at home is more and more prominent to the enthusiasm outside.
Cai Changming was not afraid of this, because he knew that Gu Yan was arrogant and would not make family scandals public.
Gu Yan couldn't see the hope of marriage, so she decided to fulfill her husband's choice, and this marriage came to an end. The property of the two is divided equally, and the children belong to their owners, the son belongs to Cai Changming, and the daughter belongs to Gu Yan.
Gu Yan did not expose the fact of her husband's cheating, in addition to her self-esteem, she also considered that although her husband was misbehaving, he was the father of the children after all.
Cai Changming chose his son when he divorced for two reasons: one was out of the expectations of his parents, and the other was because Wang Meng had already skillfully established a close bond with his children.
Unlike Gu Yan, who is strict with her children, Wang Meng is full of tolerance for her children, she will not restrict the food that children like, but provide children with rich choices; She also doesn't prevent her children from being exposed to new things, but tries them herself and shares them with her children.
Under the mother's discipline, the child feels a strict constraint; In the company of Wang Meng, the child enjoyed unfettered freedom. Children's minds and judgments are limited, and they will only see who can give them more space and freedom.
In the year after the divorce, Cai Changming, in order to avoid suspicion, he and Wang Meng did not immediately get a marriage certificate. During this time, Wang Meng was very attentive to the children, sending them early and picking them up late, and taking care of them in various ways.
However, as Wang Meng's true nature is exposed and the child enters a rebellious period, everything begins to change. The child became rebellious, and Wang Meng no longer wanted to care about them, so the child's affairs gradually fell on Cai Changming's shoulders.
In addition to work, he also needs to take care of his children.
After marriage, Wang Meng is like two people compared with her when she did not get a license. Her cynical attitude has reappeared, not to mention that he is much younger than Cai Changming, and Cai Changming is helpless against him.
But as time went on, Cai Changming couldn't take it anymore.
He hopes that Wang Meng can be more restrained and show his qualities as a wife. But Wang Meng is not Gu Yan, she is independent and straightforward, and told Cai Changming that she is such a person, they have been together for a while, and they will not change because of this.
Cai Changming's family has become noisy since they got married for a year, which is in stark contrast to the quiet and stable situation before, which makes Cai Changming feel very uncomfortable.
Cai Changming began to miss the old days and remembered Gu Yan's goodness. He wanted to remarry Gu Yan and wanted her to turn back, but he knew that it was impossible. Gu Yan is a person with a high level of spiritual cleanliness, and it is impossible to eat back grass.
In order to avoid him, Gu Yan took her daughter abroad to study fashion design, which was her dream all along. Now, Cai Changming can't remarry, and he can't divorce to end the days of chickens and dogs, he can only accept the reality.
Wang Meng's threats forced him to consider a divorce, and once divorced, she would report Cai Changming's extramarital affair with herself to the relevant authorities.
The old fox was also bitten by a dog, and Cai Changming didn't expect that he would be planted in Wang Meng's hands in this life. The child's rebellion is becoming more and more serious, and he has two problems in three days when he goes to junior high school, either confronting the teacher at school or fighting with his classmates**, so that he can't live a peaceful life.
On the surface, he is an upright section chief Cai, but behind the scenes, he lives such a life. Unless he is willing to give up that black gauze hat on his head, he will live like this forever.
He endured, really endured. He also regretted it, really regretted it. But so what? There are always some unavoidable things in life, just like walking by the river, there will always be times when your shoes are wet with water.
What's even more terrifying is that sometimes it is not only the shoes that get wet, but also the water can be submerged and even put in danger of life. As soon as I arrived at the office building and parked the car, Wang Meng's message came.
She said that she didn't go home for the past few days, and went to Hangzhou with her friends to play. Cai Changming took a deep breath, and then walked to the office with a heavy heart. Happy Saturday, Miss Feng!