Cong Fei, born in 1969, is a singer who grew up in poverty and passion. My father worked in the town, but he was hardworking but had a meager income, and his life was always stretched. Fortunately, Cong Fei's parents are the most respectable people in this land, even if they are poor, they always give food to the villagers who are more poor. 
Under the influence of his ears and eyes, Cong Fei's innocence and kindness are growing day by day. He is obsessed with singing, and his stiff fingering drives a heavenly voice. The villagers praised this "** genius" and told Cong Fei that he would definitely become a singer. As everyone knows, Cong Fei's poor family can only rely on his father to support the family of eight, and he has not entertained guests many times. In the second year of junior high school, Cong Fei took the initiative to give up his studies and work in the county. Although the salary earned by his hard work was meager, he was able to support himself, and Cong Fei did not hesitate to devote himself to self-taught music theory. He longs to find his own piece of the world in the ocean, even if the road is rough. Finally, Cong Fei was admitted to Shenyang ** College, one step closer to the dream of a singer. 
In 1994, Cong Fei was invited to participate in a charity performance in Sichuan. When he learned that it was held to help children in poor mountainous areas go to school, his heart was like a thunderbolt, and the host could not hide his excitement to talk about the children's plight. Cong Fei thought of his childhood and couldn't help but burst into tears. Cong Fei planned to perform an inspirational song to inspire people, but he cried bitterly during the donation process. He plucked up the courage to donate his only savings of 2,400 yuan, and was ecstatic to learn that he could sponsor 20 children for two years of schooling. Cong Fei deeply felt that he had changed the fate of these children through his meager efforts, and this unparalleled joy far exceeded the vanity brought by being a singer. 
This charity performance changed the trajectory of Cong Fei's life. Since then, he has made more and more time to participate in public welfare activities, using his singing voice to send warmth to the lonely and disabled elderly, using money to continue the dreams of students in the mountains, and even going to the detention center to sow seeds of hope for the lost. Although many people wondered why he gave up his career and wealth, Cong Fei resolutely chose to make public welfare his life's pursuit. It is hoped that through this expression, a charity performance can highlight how a charity performance has changed Cong Fei's life creed and promoted him to enter the road of public welfare. In 2002, Cong Fei divorced his Burmese wife, and he once fell into self-blame and confusion when raising his two-year-old daughter alone. Three years later, a flight attendant named Xing Dan took the initiative to contact Cong Fei to provide him with spiritual support. 
It turned out that Xing Dan had long admired Cong Fei's beautiful qualities of selfless dedication and was deeply moved. Cong Fei, a divorced man, was also deeply attracted to this empathetic woman, and the two finally got married. After marriage, Xing Dan gave up his job to fully support Cong Fei's career and ideals, and as the saying goes, a confidant is enough to spend his life. In 2005, Xing Dan gave birth to a daughter for Cong Fei, and Cong Fei happily raised two cute little angels. At the same time, when he learned that he was terminally ill, he had mixed feelings but was extremely strong - he wanted to leave the memory of being a father for his youngest daughter, pave a smooth road for Xing Dan, and unremittingly complete his public welfare mission. Xing Dan used his 32-year-old life to completely prove that he loves Congfei. gave birth to children for him, shared the pressure of life for him, fulfilled his last wishes for him, and then did his best to raise his two daughters. 
But after all, she couldn't escape the impermanence of life caused by the car accident, and Cong Fei left them only an endless mental burden. It is hoped that through this expression, the singing and crying love between Cong Fei and Xing Dan will be highlighted, as well as the suffering brought to their families by the public welfare undertakings they are fighting for. 37-year-old Cong Fei died of stomach cancer, and he wrote his last wish before his hospital bed - to transplant his cornea to 5 patients who need light. At the funeral, more than 180 poor students who had been sponsored by Cong Fei knelt down in front of his spirit and wept silently. These children lost their life coaches, and Xing Dan and her daughters lost the breadwinners of their families. 
30-year-old Xing Dan died in a car accident on the highway, and she didn't have time to fulfill her wish to pay off Cong Fei's debts. The two infant daughters became outcasts of society overnight, and their grief-stricken cries broke the hearts of everyone who heard them. In a state of pessimism and disappointment, a group of like-minded public welfare people with Cong Fei established the ** Association to support the growth of Cong Fei's orphan girl for a long time. Today, the two daughters have thrived with the help of all sectors of society. The eldest daughter is 22 years old and graduated from her father's alma mater to give back to society; The youngest daughter is 15 years old and inherits excellent talent. Cong Fei used his limited life to practice the belief of "giving up a small family and becoming a family", and the flame of hope he ignited has also been inherited by countless people. Every year, the special association sponsors hundreds of students from poor families to complete their studies, and many people join the association after graduation to cultivate more orphans to become talents. 
It is hoped that through this expression, the great pain caused by the unfortunate death of Cong Fei and his wife to the orphan girls will be highlighted, as well as the efforts of all sectors of society to promote their public welfare spirit. Cong Fei pursued public welfare all his life, but because of this, he forced his own daughters to a dead end. We have to think deeply about when a person should stop and how to find a balance between family and ideals. Cong Fei's life is worthy of admiration. He did not hesitate to give up the honor and wealth of the singer, just to help the children who needed it most. His acts of kindness have touched countless people and created infinite value in a limited time. However, he also alienated his ex-wife and missed the opportunity to spend time with his daughters. The death of 30-year-old Xing Dan and the grief and cry of his 14-year-old daughter both blamed Cong Fei's choice in silence. 
Many great people are like this, they can burn themselves for their ideals, but they should not also burn the happiness of their families. Cong Fei deserves to learn from his selfless dedication, but we should also avoid his mistake of neglecting his family. If Cong Fei still has a chance to choose, he will find a better balance between career and family. We should inherit Cong Fei's passion for public welfare, but we should not emulate the cost of his life. On the road of poverty alleviation, we can give money and love, but we must not harm ourselves and our families. Only when you are happy can you bring more happiness to others. This is a life topic that we should ponder while remembering Cong Fei
It is hoped that through this expression, while praising Cong Fei's public welfare spirit, it can also trigger reflection on his choice.