Introduction: "The human heart is like gold, and it cannot be leaked", this sentence stung me deeply, and behind the wealth and success, my heart was hurt by the words and deeds of my relatives. ThisThe third day of the Lunar New YearI couldn't hide the sadness in my heart, and I poured out the good memories of the past alone, but I was also heartbroken by the indifference and strife of the present. On the road of life,AffectionThe warmth of friendship once blew like a spring breeze, but now it is like a cold winter wind, reminiscent of my childhoodAffectionThe touch. Perhaps, it is only in the midst of loss and distress that we can truly feel itAffectionThe preciousness and sincerity of friendship. CoveredVillaIt's just a wealth piled up layer by layerAffectionFriendship is the real treasure in life.
Affluence does not mean that the hearts of all people are full. Our village has a lot because of various business opportunities and developmentVillaand wealthy residents. However, under the veil of affluence lies jealousy and resentment in the hearts of the people. People began to strive for material comforts, but gradually became alienatedAffectionand camaraderie. My family's village is relatively wealthy, which stems from the "lazy" life of the villagers, and many farmers no longer farm. On the contrary, some people got rich by doing machining, running a restaurant, or working on a construction site in Beijing. These wealthy people have built small ones one after anotherVilla, and I have enough strength to build a two-story small one in the spring of 2023Villa。WholeVillaThe frame cost 260,000 yuan, the decoration cost 310,000 yuan, and the furniture and appliances totaled 170,000 yuan, and a total of more than 700,000 yuan was spent. However, what followed was the envious and hateful gaze of the people in the village. Every timeThe third day of the Lunar New YearMy two aunts' cousins and cousins would come to my house to pay New Year's greetings, and we would have lunch together. However, the process of visiting the third day of the new year broke my heart. There was a clear glint of jealousy in their eyes, and their smiles were reluctant. When sitting in the living room and chatting, the atmosphere was still relatively harmonious, and we hadn't seen each other for a year. When it comes to my family'sVilla, everyone is full of praise for it. However, at lunchtime, when everyone was drinking and talking, the atmosphere suddenly became tense. My aunt's little cousin was the most excited because he used to work as a supervisor for a construction company in Beijing, although he is now unemployed. Under a glass of liquor, he spoke bluntly and pointed outVillaProblems:floor tilesThe quality is not good, and the laying is not standardized; wall paints contain harmful substances; Aluminum alloy windows are not of good material; VillaThe overall design is unreasonable, etc. However, my aunt's eldest cousin, after three rounds of drinking, also chimed in, without mentioning the 40,000 yuan debt he owed me. Even though I had anticipated their displeasure and anger, it still hurt me deeply. At the same time, this controversy among relatives also made me think deeply.
Expansion: The prosperity of the village brings superficial affluence, but the real human relationship becomes more and more fragile. People have accumulated wealth in various ways, and material abundance has not brought spiritual satisfaction. On the contrary, jealousy and resentment creep up in people's hearts. A wealthy village does not mean that people are more harmonious, but rather that the tension between people is rising. In the process,AffectionAnd friendship fades away, overshadowed by something other than material. The accumulation of wealth is only a temporary appearance, and people gradually lose the true meaning of life.
On the road of life,AffectionFriendship is our most valuable asset, and when wealth and success come, we often find that the world becomes more and more indifferent. The relationship between our relatives and friends also began to become complicated and distorted. We really feel it when we're in a difficult situationAffectionand the warmth of camaraderie. Recalling the bits and pieces of my childhood, I can't help but feel a lot of emotion. When I was a child, my eldest cousin always loved me very much, and he used to take me to hunt birds and roast bird meat in the stove for me to taste. My little cousin often shared his snacks with me, and when his brother was a soldier in Tangshan, he bought him a large bucketCookiesHe gave me half of it. That was the first time I tasted itCookiestaste. These fond memories planted a warm seed in my heart and made me yearn to go back to that childhood time. However, the cruelty of reality makes me feel heartache and disappointment. People seem to have become more selfish and aloof, and relationships between relatives have become distorted because of material and success factors. When I built it in a wealthy villageVillaAfter that, the attitude of the relatives also began to become cold and jealous. They set their sights on my familyVilla, with jealousy and dissatisfaction in his anxious eyes. Although I try my best to emphasize through thatVillaMost of the expenses are borrowed to make them feel comfortable, yet they still do not shy away from expressing their inner dissatisfaction and anger. I am deeply saddened and disappointed by such a reaction.
Extensions:AffectionFriendship is our spiritual sustenance and warmth on the road of life. However, when we are successful and wealthy, the people around us may become jealous and resentful of us. The relationship between relatives has also become complicated. Success and wealth often intensify the contradictions between people, so that:AffectionAnd friendship faded. Full of warm childhood memories andAffectionThe preciousness of friendship becomes more and more distant, and we gradually get lost in material and superficial success, clinging to the cage of material.
The progress of life has brought material prosperity, but at the expenseThe human touchexists. For the first time, I realized the relationship between the human heart and one's loved ones. When I showed my relatives about my achievements, they showed resentment and jealousy towards me, and these people were the ones I trusted and relied on. This disappointment made me think deeply. Is our world really getting colder? Should I expect too much from others? These questions haunt me and make me feel depressed and lonely. However, it is in such disappointments and predicaments that I also see the warm side of human affection. My friends and loved ones reached out when I needed help and support the most. They gave me encouragement and comfort and regained my confidence. Although I saw itHumanityindifference and selfishness, but I also saw the warmth and sincerity of human affection.
Expansion: Loss and distress are the ones we can really feelAffectionand the preciousness of friendship. Apathy and strife are inevitable in reality, but we also see genuine concern and assistance from people when we need it most. The warm side of humanity has not completely disappeared, it has only been overshadowed by material things and success. We should cherish and strive to protectAffectionand a bond of friendship. This warmth is due to our care and dedication to others, not just the accumulation of material things and success. Expansion: Loss and distress are the ones we can really feelAffectionand the preciousness of friendship. Apathy and strife are inevitable in reality, but we also see genuine concern and assistance from people when we need it most. The warm side of humanity has not completely disappeared, it has only been overshadowed by material things and success. We should cherish and strive to protectAffectionand a bond of friendship. This warmth is due to our care and dedication to others, not just the accumulation of material things and success.