In the scorching July, Xiao He and I met on a blind date. At the beginning, Xiao He was giggling on the side, I thought he was really funny. Who knows, behind this smirk, there is a farce that I can't imagine in my life.
On that day, Xiao He handed my father and mother a meeting gift, a full 16A bride price of 80,000 yuan. I was stunned, thinking that this young man's family is really not simple, a son of a wealthy family! In this way, I moved the money home, planning to expand the capital of our small shop.
Life began, Xiao He gave me some pocket money every month, saying that he was saving money, and I believed it. This kid is also very romantic, and from time to time he gives me a little surprise, and I once thought I had picked up a big million. Our small shop has also opened, and although we are not rich, we are happy.
But it didn't take long for me to start noticing that something was wrong. Every time, Xiao He pinched some money to me, saying that it was for life. I thought that this kid's salary was like that, but he couldn't be so picky. So, I started to keep an eye on his whereabouts and made myself a bit of a detective.
Once, I saw him hiding his pay stub under the bed, and it looked strange, just like he was hiding his thoughts. Later, I secretly flipped through his bank card statement, and at that moment, I was dumbfounded.
It turned out that Xiao He was not saving money, but repaying debts. His salary could not pay off his uncle's debts, so he chose to remain silent. But the problem is that he doesn't have the courage to tell me the truth, and prefers to cover it up with lies. My heart sank to the bottom.
One day, Xiao He's uncle came to the door and asked for money, I was in the store at the time, and he called and said that there was no money. I was stupid, looking at the store in my hand with **, dumbfounded. Xiao He knelt on the ground without saying a word and called his mother for help, but I didn't expect the pot to be directly buckled on my head.
The bride price is borrowed, so you have to pay the debt! "When I said that, I felt like I was stunned. I'm that 1680,000 turned out to be our debt, and Xiao He borrowed it in order to marry me. I wanted to slap him awake, but looking at his depressed face, I could only hold back.
Yanling, help me. He looked at me with a blank eye, and my heart softened. I asked him, "Why didn't you tell me?" He lowered his head: "I'm afraid you won't marry me." ”
I suddenly felt how stupid I was, for the sake of a bride price, I actually believed a lie. I looked at the man in front of me who had made me feel happy, and my heart was churning with anger and disappointment.
Forget it, I'll go back to my parents' house. I said coldly. He tried to hold me, but I shook off his hand mercilessly. He looked remorseful, but I couldn't trust him anymore.
When I returned to my parents' home and my life started again, I tried my best to leave Xiao He's affairs behind. My relatives and friends persuaded me to get back together, but I panicked, thinking that this man had hidden such a big thing from me, how could I trust him again?
However, the world is unpredictable, and life is a drama. One day, I met Xiao He's uncle at the market. As soon as he saw me, he began to explain, saying that Xiao He did owe him a lot of debt, but he was helpless, for the sake of my good to Xiao He, he would forget the arrears. I almost didn't get struck by lightning.
Yanling, Xiao He really loves you. Uncle patted his chest and promised. I wondered, why did Xiao He's arrears suddenly not be wanted? I thought I was blind, and I thanked my uncle, and my heart was in a mess.
After returning home, I called Xiao He ** and asked him about his uncle. He said with a sad face that his uncle really had no choice but to lie and prevaricate. I'm starting to soften my heart again, after all, feelings are such a thing, and sometimes I can't control my feelings when I am reasonable.
We started to contact again, and Xiao He tried every possible way to redeem it. He quit his good job and started working hard to make money. I also feel that this time I am finally serious, and my heart will soften. So, once again, we decided to start over.
However, the story is not so simple. One day, I found an IOU in Xiao He's pocket, and the borrower turned out to be his ex-girlfriend. My eyes widened and I began to wonder about this guy's level of honesty.
What is it? I threw the IOU in front of him. Xiao He looked remorseful, and muttered: "It was really difficult at that time, she took the initiative to lend it to me, and I couldn't refuse." ”
How many secrets did you not tell me? "I was shaking with anger. Xiao He was speechless for a while, and I looked at him, as if my heart was torn apart by something.
Breaking up again, this time I feel thorough. This man, how can he hide so many things every time. I didn't even think about it, so I picked up my bag and left, listening to his voice calling me farther and farther away. I don't want to listen to his excuses anymore, I don't want to believe his lies anymore.
The days passed slowly, and I found myself again. Perhaps, this experience taught me a lesson from heaven to see a person clearly and not to always be deceived by appearances. I learned to be independent, I learned to be strong.
And Xiao He, I don't want to care about him anymore. No one owes anyone, and life is not something that cannot continue without anyone. Let the past pass, I don't want to go back. Without him, my life was easier and freer.
However, the story doesn't end there. By chance, I learned that Xiao He had actually been paying for me. He quit his job to give me a better life and borrowed money to solve his family's problems. Although his approach is unacceptable, his original intentions are genuine.
I began to think that maybe there was too much misunderstanding between us. In the torrent of life, everyone has their own difficulties, and every relationship has twists and turns. I suddenly felt that maybe I could give Xiao He a chance to re-examine this person.
So, I took the initiative to find Xiao He, and we sat down and had a good chat. He apologized to me and admitted that he was too careless in handling things, but he really wanted to start over. I looked at the seriousness and honesty in his eyes, and my heart inevitably softened.
Everyone in life is growing, and I thought, maybe this experience is our shared wealth. So, once again, we decided to start over. This time, we learned to be more authentic with each other, without lies and suspicions.
Maybe that's life, twists and turns. We learn from our mistakes and grow from our pain. Only by understanding and tolerating each other can we truly come together. This time, we learned how to manage this relationship and how to really support each other.
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