An often overlooked but crucial truth in love relationships:The best way to love someone is to first manage yourself. This is not to say that we should be selfish and focus only on our own needs and interests, but rather to emphasize the importance of self-growth and improvement.
As we continue to learn, grow, and improve, our value will naturally increase. This value is not only reflected in material and social status, but more importantly, in our inner qualities, wisdom and personality charm. In this way, we will naturally attract more people, and it will also make our loved ones respect and cherish us more.
At the same time, this sentence also reminds us that love is not a simple exchange, it is not that if we are good to someone, the other person will return us in the same way. Love requires the efforts and dedication of both parties, but more importantly, our efforts must be valuable in order to be valued and responded to by the other party.
Therefore, in love, we should not only pay attention to the needs and feelings of the other person, but also pay attention to our own growth and improvement. Only when we become a better version of ourselves can we love others better and be loved better.
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