How do you know if someone really likes you or just for fun?
In fact, the answer lies in his attitude towards you.
Words are just words, deeds are truth.
So you need to know how he treats you and how important you are to him.
If he really cares about you, he will naturally care about your life, give you support and comfort, trust your choices, understand your feelings, and make a real contribution to you that will change your life for the better.
But if he just plays with you, he is always wary of you, worrying about everything with you, calculating gains and losses, doing things perfunctorily, doing everything behind his back, and only caring about his own business. Think about the things you're interested in.
So in a relationship, don't let a little "good impression" trick you into thinking that you can't live without him or her.
If someone treats you like this, no matter how much you like that person, you need to stop losing and let go as soon as possible.
They say they love you, but they never act.
Some people are like that. They always say sweet things to make you happy, but never do anything practical to prove their love.
If you want to express your love, he will change the subject or say, "Is love measured in money and gifts?" ”
I have a friend who met such a person. Friends, we've been together for many years. The boy never gave her any gifts, at most just chatting.
He told her over and over again every day that he loved her and cared for her. If she is jealous, I remind her to have good morning, good night, go to bed early, drink plenty of water, and not eat with other boys. And tell him she's a**.
However, when it comes to holidays and anniversaries, people suddenly get busy and say, "I have something to do." "When I found her again later that day, she didn't say anything.
At one point, she couldn't help but complain to him that she also wanted romance and surprises.
He changed the subject. When she insisted on asking him why he didn't buy her a gift, he told her that he loved her very much, but that he was currently in financial difficulties and would make up for it in the future. He also asked if their relationship would not stand up to these trials.
In fact, he didn't love her at all. Deceive her trust and feelings with some false promises. Whenever we talk about these things, we tend to be perfunctory or make excuses.
In fact, he didn't take her to heart at all.
Procrastination is the most painful thing in a relationship.
Some people prefer to bet on their emotions. Unfortunately, most end up failing miserably.
Some people may talk to you for a long time, but never give you a clear identity or commitment. I won't take the initiative to tell you about my future plans. He also won't introduce you to his family or friends.
Every time you ask him what your relationship is, he will reply that he just wants to focus on his work now and talk about other things later.
If you ask him if he loves you, he will hesitate, hesitate, and be vague. In fact, he just doesn't love you. You just don't want to lose your spare tire.
When a person does this to you, it actually means that you have not yet entered his heart. He's not judging whether the person of the future is you. He just wanted to see if there was a better option first.
If you really love someone, they will be afraid of losing you.
So he will do everything he can to keep you.
We hope to establish a relationship with you as soon as possible.
Make you his official girlfriend or boyfriend.
No compromise and rigorous attitude.
Some people say that this is your personality and you need to understand it.
Some say that this is their principle and cannot be violated.
But how can you always be so stubborn and strong in the face of your loved ones? Only in the face of the person you hate will you be uncompromising and unyielding.
My colleague has a similar relationship. For each meal, the boy has to choose the restaurant and the dishes according to his taste. He won't try anything he doesn't like or can't eat. Every time she had to deal with him.
Even something as trivial as washing dishes was exhausted from working overtime, and the boys kept pestering her to do it the next day. His attitude was stern and he did not give her any room for negotiation.
Every time we argued, he didn't admit his mistake and didn't apologize. He continues to argue with her and says he is right. She could only compromise and find a way for him. Otherwise, it will always be a cold war.
She had to do everything according to his wishes.
And he never cared about her, nor did he compromise with her.
The interaction between the two often made her feel suffocated and miserable.
If you love someone, you feel sorry for them. Mutual tolerance and respect, mutual understanding and consideration, mutual submission and appeasement.
Someone who truly loves you won't just talk about love, won't stop you from giving you a future, won't always let you do whatever you want. Instead, use your actions to prove that He values and values you.