Everyone is surrounded by a lot of people. However, some people's existence is meaningful, and some people's existence is meaningless.
As the old saying goes: "The road knows the horsepower, and the heart will be seen over time".
After the test of time, it is clear whether you are a human or a ghost.
In fact, a person's true feelings cannot be hidden at all, and a person's character is revealed in the details.
To judge whether a person is worthy of deep friendship, you don't need to look at big things, you need to look at small things.
People who are good at small things will naturally be good at big things.
There are people who are good on the surface, but in fact they are evil, doing one thing in front of people and another behind their backs.
Although some people seem to be cold, they are actually very honest and kind, but they don't like to talk much.
The real details are in the subtleties.
Observing people is a highly skilled task. Interactions between people are essentially mutually beneficial.
If two people can't achieve mutual benefit and win-win results for a long time, then the relationship will come to an abrupt end.
Of course, there are other types of relationships. It may seem like one person is helping another, but in reality they are using friendship to deceive the other person.
Psychological research shows that the words people say most often reflect their true inner selves.
Everyone has a different personality, and personality traits often determine the tone and manner in which a person speaks.
Humans are good at camouflage, but there are some expressions that cannot be disguised.
In interpersonal interactions, people who often say the following four sentences are kind on the surface, but often dark on the inside.
I've been so good to you, you should know how to thank you.
Carnegie wrote in The Weakness of Human Nature: "Gratitude is a product of education. You don't get it from ordinary people. Forget it. "It's human nature to be grateful. ”
Usually, when a person shows kindness to another person, he or she does not ask the other person to be grateful.
People who are always concerned about making others appreciate themselves tend to have a well-thought-out plan.
For them, kindness is like an exchange. If the other party does not redeem on time, it proves that the other party has suffered losses in the relationship.
At this point, the person who wants something engages in moral kidnapping, emphasizing his own contribution while showing the other person a "path" on how to reciprocate.
Real help usually doesn't require gratitude. Those who always say that they are good to you are actually trying to find a way to kidnap you morally before showing kindness.
I'll tell you a secret, but never tell anyone else.
There is a saying circulating on the Internet: "You know too much".
The emojis that follow this sentence are usually not very friendly.
Knowledge is good, but knowing too many secrets can be life-threatening.
If you want to protect yourself in relationships, you need to stay away from good and evil, in addition to not getting into trouble.
Don't participate in recreational activities that you shouldn't be attending. Also, don't listen to news you don't need to know. If it's not relevant to you, don't try to get into the details out of curiosity.
As the saying goes, curiosity kills cats. The more you know, the worse it gets.
If you surround yourself with people who are always sharing secrets in a mysterious way, repeatedly emphasize that they won't tell anyone else. You must be careful when encountering this kind of person, the other party is likely to want to drag you into the water.
I'm a simple person who doesn't think too much.
Human nature is indeed mysterious. The more drunk you are, the less willing you are to admit that you are drunk.
Similarly, the older a fox gets, the more likely it is to pretend to be harmless to humans and animals.
Poor people often look or pretend to be fat, while rich people often cry when they are poor in front of others. It's human nature. The more you have, the more you want to hide it, and the less you have to lose. The more I wanted to show off.
If a person constantly emphasizes that his mind is simple, we can basically conclude that the person's mind is very complex.
Because really simple people would never think of talking like that in front of others.
Never trust a person's appearance. Usually what you see is what others want you to see.
I'll be honest: I'm a simple person, and I can't be a simple person.
They have all thought about it for you, why are you still lost?
Before you make a decision, you should be wary of those who chatter.
In life, we often meet some people who provide ** activities. Whenever you contact us, we will always provide you with the perfect discount.
Most of the discounts are for a limited time.
Once E&P considers it, we will close the deal immediately. All the subtext is "There are no shops like this outside of this village." ”
Anyone with a little life experience can understand the truth.
In fact, this situation often occurs not only when selling products, but also in relationships.
If you have someone around you who thinks about everything for you and persistently urges you to make decisions according to the proposed plan, you should be wary.
After all, the relationship between people is essentially a relationship of interest. There is no benefit, and there is no benefit to waking up early.