Hello everyone, I'm Mu Muxue! Each of us has our own magnetic field, and the impact of magnetic field on people cannot be underestimated. The magnetic field of positive energy will make us develop in a positive direction and enhance our inner energy. The magnetic field of negative energy can disrupt our inner peace and interfere with our normal life. In life, if we always get along with people who are full of negative energy, we will invisibly consume our energy and even affect our fortune. Girls should learn to protect their energy and prevent others from borrowing luck. Especially girls who are not strong-willed and easily influenced by others. Don't overdo it, let go of the helping complex; Empathy is a great quality, but excessive empathy can trap oneself in an unnecessary emotional vortex and constantly drain one's energy. I used to be a very empathetic person, and I always liked to put myself in the shoes of others. However, this will make me feel more and more tired, and even fall into other people's emotions, unable to get out, and lose objective and rational judgment. Looking back at what we did at that time, it was extremely irrational. We need to learn to control our ability to empathize, maintain our independence and sobriety, and care about the feelings of others in moderation, but don't let other people's emotions dominate our hearts. Fang Qi said
"I have the decision in my hands, not sacrifice and dedication as the best expression. ”When communicating with others, we need to maintain a certain distance and rationality, and avoid over-engagement. This will not only protect your own energy, but also better help others solve problems.
Stay away from people with negative energy;
People with negative energy tend to bring us negative emotions and influences, making us depressed and anxious. In the past, some friends with negative energy encountered unhappy things and liked to talk to me. The first few times were fine, and I was able to comfort them rationally. But as time went on, I became irritable and became as fond of complaining as the people who complained. Later, I gradually felt that my magnetic field was becoming more and more wrong, and I realized that I had to stay away from those who had negative energy. Venerable Hongyi once said:
"Anything that is negative energy, don't respond, the response will be entangled with it, and the entanglement will be lost by it. ”Negative energy always likes to complain and has a negative and pessimistic attitude towards life. They will exude a bad aura that affects the people around them. If we are constantly with such people, we will be infected by their negative energy and will easily become like them. This will hinder our growth, lower our fortunes, and even invite bad luck. If we have such people around us, it is best to try to stay away from them. Be kind to yourself and keep your peace of mind; I don't know if you have this feeling, when we are upset about things, we tend to mess up a simple thing; And when we maintain peace of mind, it is often easier to accomplish something. Kazuo Inamori once said:
"Calm down, everything is possible. ”Inner peace is a rare state that helps us keep a clear head and stable emotions. Only when we have peace of mind can we better cope with the challenges and pressures of the outside world. Be kind to yourself and maintain inner peace is an important way for girls to protect their energy. Girls should learn to care for themselves, take care of themselves, and not let other people's actions and words affect their emotions and mentality. In daily life, you can do more things that make you feel happy and satisfied, such as listening, watching movies, exercising, etc. Don't disbelieve in yourself, don't be anxious in advance;
Girls should believe in themselves and not easily deny their abilities and values.
Don't feel bleak when you see others shining. I have to learn to affirm myself, maybe I can't do it at this point, but I will do well at the other side. Self-confidence is a powerful force that can make us more determined in the face of difficulties. If we don't have confidence in ourselves, then we are easily influenced and distracted by others. Don't be anxious in advance, and don't worry too much about the future. Too much anxiety will only keep us stuck in negative emotions and drain our energy. 
Surround yourself with high-energy people and replenish your energy in a timely manner; There is a saying that goes like this: "With hardworking people, you will not be lazy." With positive people, you won't be depressed. "Spending time with high-energy people makes us feel positive and motivated. Their positive energy will infect us and bring out our inner potential. Therefore, we can try to associate with people with high energy and draw the power of positive energy from them. At the same time, we must also learn to replenish our energy and keep our hearts full and full. You can boost your energy levels by exercising, learning something new, traveling, and more. Do it quietly until you succeed. I have a habit of not liking to tell people about things until they are done. Just like when I write my own articles, I rarely take the initiative to talk to the people around me before I have made any achievements. Because after I say that, my writing is easily influenced by others, and I am easily distracted, so there is a high probability that I will not do well in this matter. There is a sentence in "Han Feizi: Difficult to Say" that says:
"Things are done in secret, and words are defeated. ”In the process of pursuing your dreams, keep a low profile and confidentiality, and do not disclose your plans and goals easily. In this way, you can avoid attracting the attention and distraction of others, which is more conducive to your own success. Girls must learn to be low-key and do things in a high-profile manner. Once you have a goal, do it quietly until you succeed in doing it. That's all for today's sharing, I hope it inspires you! In life, we must learn to prevent others from borrowing luck, protect our own magnetic field, and constantly improve our own energy, so that life will become smoother and smoother. All of the above!
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Author: Mu Muxue, a self-leading writer who focuses on personal growth and is working hard to be free, may we become a better version of ourselves through hard work and live the life we yearn for.