The premise of the pursuit of longevity should be that you will not suffer sin and your children will not be burdened.
is old and can't move, 75-year-old Uncle Zhou has a new understanding of "longevity".
Uncle Zhou sighed and said
The ancients always said that the old man lived a long life and his descendants, and he didn't believe it before, but now he feels it very deeply.
However, people, who are born greedy for life and afraid of death, want to live for a long time, so they are miserable and their children are also hard.
Longevity is not a shame, but longevity without vision and virtue is a shame.
Don't persuade others to be kind without others suffering
A month ago, Uncle Zhou's 80-year-old cousin died. On the day he sent his cousin away, Uncle Zhou looked at his niece's emaciated face that had no tears, and said a sentence in distress:
My sister, you're doing well. From now on, you don't have to suffer, and my girl doesn't have to suffer.
Uncle Zhou's cousin has been paralyzed in bed for ten years, and the personal care before the bed is borne by the niece alone. My niece is also in her 50s, and she has been taking care of her old mother for ten years, and she is already tired and out of shape. Several times, my niece cried in front of Uncle Zhou and said:
Uncle, I was really tortured to death.
What can Uncle Zhou say?I can only sigh silently in my heart. No matter how beautiful the persuasion is, it can't solve the suffering of my cousin and niece.
Everyone says that they should honor the elderly, but how many people can really do it when it really falls on themselves?How can a filial son in front of a long-term sick bed be so good?
A lot of times, it's easier said than done.
Middle-aged people work hard to find a job, and only old age can enjoy
When people are old, the greatest sense of security comes from having money in their hands.
These pension money either comes from educating the children in a proper way, and the children have income, which can give the elderly enough to provide for the elderly.
Either the old man worked hard when he was young and saved enough for himself to have a certain amount of pension and pension.
Uncle Zhou was very grateful for his long-term vision back then.
When Uncle Zhou was young, he ran a grocery store in his hometown town, although he was nominally self-employed, but his identity was still a farmer.
This is what Uncle Zhou doesn't want to see, so in the years when he was young and strong, Uncle Zhou and his wife worked hard to earn money, and then took out part of their not too rich savings to buy endowment insurance.
At that time, many people around laughed at Uncle Zhou's money and burned in a panic, but Uncle Zhou gritted his teeth and persevered.
Today, those who laugh at him take more than 100 yuan of peasant pensions supported by the state every month, while Uncle Zhou and his family have more than 3,000 yuan per month.
When people are old, if they have a certain pension in hand, they don't have to trouble their children for the elderly, and they don't have to look at their children's faces, so they will be more confident and have a higher quality of life.
When you are young, plan more and work harder, and you will be blessed to enjoy when you are old.
Compassion is the only way to be filial piety, and there is cause and effect in many blessings
There is a saying:
The water in the front yard does not flow into the back yard, and if you want your children and grandchildren to be filial, you must first set an example.
If you don't accumulate virtue when you're young and don't inherit the family style of filial piety, when you get old, you will naturally not be able to enjoy the blessings of longevity and blessings.
Uncle Zhou was deeply touched by this.
Uncle Zhou's little Uncle Wang has always been a person who only cares about his own family, after getting married and having children, his parents are siblings, and his son is his wife's business, and he has never ignored it.
Therefore, after his son grew up, he only had deep feelings for his grandparents who had always taken care of him, and he disliked and despised Uncle Wang from the bottom of his heart.
Before last year, Uncle Wang went out to play cards on a rainy day, accidentally slipped and fractured his lower leg. Uncle Wang's son sent him to the hospital, and then directly hired a nurse to order takeout for dinner.
There are many people to take care of by the nurses, of course, there are times when they can't take care of them, so Uncle Wang loses his temper at his son, shouting that his son is obviously free, but he is unwilling to take care of himself.
Uncle Wang's son directly replied to Uncle Wang in front of many people:
When my grandparents were alive, did you take care of them for a day? Even if it's to hand them a glass of water and serve a bowl of rice?
Uncle Wang stopped talking for an instant.
When you are young, you don't educate your children well, you don't inherit the family style of filial piety, and when you are old, you want to get the filial piety of your children in return, which is a fool's dream.
Longevity is not a shame, but longevity without virtue and vision is the real shame.
There is love when you are young, promising when you are middle-aged, and virtue when you are old, and your life will be worry-free.