Meng Yunqing and Tao Dalei's relationship has actually broken down a long time ago, so many years, she has mentioned divorce many times, but every time it has been gently revealed in Tao Dalei's crying and howling.
But every time Tao Dalei delays the army, he will build a line of defense on her heart, as if pouring cement, making her psychological defense line more and more solid, becoming colder and harder, and gradually numb.
For so many years, she has been persuading herself not to divorce herself, giving herself reasons not to divorce, and convincing herself not to divorce, but their relationship has been nothing since they got married.
Meng Yunqing and Tao Dalei met for the first time on the train, Tao Dalei is the conductor, because of his handsome appearance, many aunts want to introduce their daughters to him.
Once, when Tao Dalei was cleaning the train with a broom, he met a difficult aunt again, and he was red-faced. Meng Yunqing couldn't look at it, walked over and took Tao Dalei's hand and said, Auntie, don't embarrass him, this is my object.
This was their first encounter, and Meng Yunqing was still in junior college at that time. Meng Yunqing has not graduated from junior college, and as soon as she reached the legal age of marriage, she stole her family's household registration book and Tao Dalei to get the certificate.
As soon as the photo was taken, before the certificate was issued, I met my parents who came to besiege him. It can be stopped for a while, but it can't be stopped for a lifetime, and in the end, Qiao Haiyun and his wife can't beat her in the end.
Qiao Haiyun could only put down his words, if Meng Yunqing and Tao Dalei were okay and they got married, the Meng family would not pay a penny. Meng Yunqing originally thought that they were just talking cruel words, but she didn't expect that they were really ruthless and didn't pay a penny.
The only red envelope was secretly wrapped by Meng's father who was worried that his daughter would be bullied, so he secretly wrapped it with his own private money, and Meng's father avoided Tao Dalei and gave the money to Meng Yunqing.
Before getting married, Meng Yunqing couldn't feel the gap between the two families, but after getting married, the gap came out all of a sudden.
Tao Dalei's father died early, his mother was not in good health, and when he heard that Tao Dalei had found a partner who opened a factory at home, he shouted that he was going to move to the city.
But in the end, not only did she not move to the city as she wished, but she also got a lot of anger at the daughter-in-law in the city. Meng Yunqing used to not cut her toenails at home, but after marrying Tao Dalei, she had to do laundry and cooking, and she was busy with everything, and in the end she was disgusted and did not do well.
Meng Yunqing's complete disappointment in Tao Dalei was after Tao Shuna was born, because Meng Yunqing gave birth to a daughter, and the Tao family did not value them.
In the winter when Tao Shuna was born, Meng Yunqing was still in confinement, so Tao's mother drove her and Tao Shuna to the north house, which was not warm, and she lived in the warm south house herself.
As soon as Tao Dalei came back, he called out cold, he ran to the south house and fell asleep, Meng Yunqing sat like this until dawn, listened to Tao's mother get up, and then called her to get up and cook ......
She originally thought that she was going to work hard in the Tao family for a lifetime, but Meng Mu still came, she took Tao Shuna back to her home, and she never went back until Tao Mu died.
For this reason, Tao Dalei has always complained about Meng's mother, saying that it was because she took Tao Shuna away that Tao's mother did not see her granddaughter ...... until she diedEvery time Tao Dalei complained, Meng Yunqing's heart became even colder.
The quarrel between the two escalated when Meng Yunqing went to the mall to work as a salesman, Tao Dalei disliked Meng Yunqing for showing up outside, feeling that her behavior was embarrassing, and sometimes when she met her head shrunk outside, she was afraid that Meng Yunqing would ...... greet him
When she first married Tao Dalei, Meng Yunqing thought about divorce, but at that time, she didn't want to bow her head to Qiao Haiyun and didn't want to admit that her choice was wrong.
Later, she became a salesman, she rushed forward with all her strength, the days were getting better and better, she felt that there might be no need to divorce, Tao Dalei was no different from being there or not.
No matter what, she still has Tao Xina, she can't be irresponsible to Nana, so she tries her best to maintain her relationship with Tao Dalei and not let Tao Shuna see the clues.
She suppressed her emotions and compromised again and again, but what she waited for was not Tao Dalei's understanding, but inch by inch. Tao Dalei doesn't like Meng Yunqing to go out and show up, but he likes the material enjoyment she brings.
While he looks down on her, doesn't understand her, questions her, thinks she's indecent, and thinks she's ashamed, he takes her hard-earned money and works hard to squander it and enjoy life.
He said that Meng Yunqing's success is all because she has a man like him behind her who supports her. But how dare he say that he supports it? His so-called support only existed in the moment when he asked her for money.
He never dared to greet her outside, nor did he dare to tell anyone about the difference in their salary, because he wanted to maintain his male dignity and decency.
For so many years, so many things, Meng Yunqing has always opened one eye and closed one eye, until Meng Yi'an divorced, she said the reason why she had been withholding and not divorcing, she felt that if she divorced, she would be irresponsible for Tao Shuna, even if it was for Nana, she couldn't divorce.
For so many years, Tao Dalei's every excesses and excesses have made her heart even colder, she has been thinking about divorce, and she has been mentioning divorce, but Tao Dalei is either using his daughter as an excuse, or crying and begging for mercy, which makes her firm heart shake repeatedly.
When Tao Dalei didn't raise it, she persuaded herself that there was no need to divorce because of this; When Tao Dalei's salary was low and she accused her of not coming from the right money, she persuaded herself that there was no need to divorce because of money; When Tao Dalei took her money out to squander again and again, she persuaded herself that there was no need to divorce ...... because of this
For so many years, she has always wanted to give Tao Shuna the life she wants, a happy family, but if she doesn't dare to pursue the life she wants, how can she make Tao Shuna have the courage to pursue everything she wants?
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