February** Dynamic Incentive Program
A good relationship never goes bad because of a small thing, but because of a myriad of things that seem small to us.
To put it simply, a bad relationship starts here. That's the little things.
It's like I once read such a passage: "The relationship between two people breaks down, never because of a small thing, but because of the accumulation of no small thing." With estrangement, no amount of apology can save the original intention.
In fact, the thing that makes people collapse is very simple, it is the tone of your voice to me. It is your impatient emotions, your various perfunctory and ignorant feelings. Although they are all trivial things like sesame seeds, the sesame seeds all over the ground are enough to make people pick up and collapse. ”
Yes, many changes in relationships are not formed all at once, but more often because of the small things encountered one after another, and finally because of the accumulation.
I was so tired that I suddenly broke out.
And the result of the outbreak was that this relationship, which was originally very good, suddenly collapsed. So! We must not underestimate the impact of a small thing on us.
As the old saying goes: "The great things in the world must be done in detail." ”
Any small mistake, after continuous accumulation and expansion, may turn the result upside down. After all, our lives are made up of little things one after another.
It's as if people's mobile phones are now a must-have, and the influence of mobile phones is getting bigger and bigger for us. A lot of times we feel like it's just a small thing.
But before we know it, it's already affecting our lives. For example, when we open a mobile app, it is easy to lose sight of time.
In the process of continuous swiping of fingers, attracted by one message after another, before you know it, time passes quickly, I believe you also feel this way.
But what do we feel when this action stops? We will feel regret and emptiness. Because before we knew it, what we had planned to do was delayed.
This seems to be a small thing in our life, but after a long time of accumulation, these little things will slowly affect our life.
Yes, we should never ignore a small thing, especially the relationship between people, many times the reason why the relationship changes, is because we don't care about the little things.
It's as if I've seen a story about an old couple whose husband is meticulous and planned, and the wife is usually rough.
But these two people with very different personalities have been in love with each other for a lifetime. So someone asked them if they had any secrets.
They just said to do every little thing in their usual life. It's like a husband doesn't like to eat vegetables, and his wife never forces him to eat them.
And if the wife wants to buy something, the husband will never stop her, as long as she is happy. It is in this mode of getting along that the two have fallen in love with each other for a lifetime.
It's true that we need to pay attention to the little things in many things, but of course it doesn't mean that we have to worry about them. It's just that we have to understand that a small thing doesn't affect anything.
But if these little things accumulate too much in the day-to-day life, then the last little thing can also become a big thing. For example, in relationships, we need to value the efforts of others.
Don't always take others for granted. After all, there is no one in this world who should be good to you for granted.
This is true between family members, between friends, and between husband and wife. That's why we should pay attention to every little thing in life, and don't always turn a blind eye to the efforts of others.
Because after a long time, other people's hearts will also be cold. To sum up, in the process of interpersonal communication, we should be more tolerant and less blameworthy of our family members. For friends, we should be more grateful and less demanding. For partners, we need to count less and support more.
Only then will we be able to make the relationship better and better, so never think that the little things in life are not important. The more trivial and detailed things we have, the more we should pay attention to them.
After all, the embankment of a thousand miles is destroyed in an anthill, and the accumulation of small things will also make the result worse. The same is true for relationships between people, if you do too many wrong little things, no matter how good the relationship will become.
Text|Ming Fusheng.
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