Some people say: Looking for a partner, it doesn't matter if you have an RV or not, as long as you are not a "three-no" parent.
Aunt Zhang said: When looking for a partner, you can't only look at the other party's family background and economic conditions, but also look at the other party's character and ability, and whether the other party's parents have the following three things, and then make a decision.
First, there is no virtue and no virtue.
Parents without moral character cannot educate good children, and their children's moral character is not much better.
Parents who have no moral character will not be able to do things, will not treat others, will not be able to speak of conscience, will not be honest, will not respect people, have no respect, have a difficult family, and have a difficult family to be harmonious, and those who can endure it will also make the family noisy and unpeaceful because of their selfish behavior that has no sense of responsibility, no sympathy, and no tolerance.
With such parents who have no character and no morality, the house is big, and the car is luxurious, you must also think twice and choose carefully, so that you will not regret it for life.
Second, there is no sense of boundaries.
As the saying goes, the most comfortable relationship between people is to keep a distance between people, even if it is their own parents.
As some people say, being a parent is important to be clear, measured, and know how to quit in a timely manner, so as to maintain a good sense of boundary with others, so as not to invade the space and privacy of others.
Only parents with this kind of consciousness can become role models for their children to learn from, and educate them to be able to distinguish between right and wrong, make independent judgments, and be independent
Only such a person can bear the responsibility, and only then will he feel sorry for and cherish his lover!
In other words, in terms of finding a partner, it is not to see if there is a car and a house, but to find a partner who is suitable for you, and love each other for the rest of your life.
Three, no health, often sick.
In this life, the greatest wealth is health, if people do not have health, drag down their children, and suffer themselves.
Choosing such a family and having such parents will have to prepare for greater pressure.
Of course, if the person you choose is exceptionally good and has no genetic diseases, you will still be happy.
After all, both parents will be old and will leave, and only their partner is the lover who will accompany them for a lifetime!
Therefore, when choosing a partner, try to avoid this kind of "no character, no morality, no sense of boundaries, and no healthy parents."
The first two, in particular, are the most important and need to be carefully considered. Stay sane.
Choosing the right partner and family, having a happy marriage, and living a happy life is the greatest success in this life.