What's the best way to punish someone who betrays you?
It's definitely not as hungry as he is, and there's no need to ruin their adultery. The effect of force is mutual, and it hurts to hit someone's hand. If you can do these three things, he may turn back to you and beg for mercy.
First of all, there is no need to have any expectations for him, since the relationship has come to this point, we should admit that the man we fancy is not so good. Since he said he loved you while turning around and hugging other women, then at least he was 90% responsible. There is no harm if there is no expectation, no matter how unwilling you are, you have to accept the reality that he does not love you as much as before. All your love, all your affection, all your kindness may be worthless in his eyes at the moment, so the girls must not be entangled, let alone wash their faces with tears, and muster up the courage to face the future life.
Second, divert attention. What is the most proud thing about a betrayer? is that after a shameless thing is discovered, he can still enjoy the attention and love of two women at the same time. So we can't be his bragging capital, whether he is doing well now has nothing to do with whether others kiss me or not. Even if he wants to come back to you, you must wait for him to take the initiative to make up for the injuries you have suffered during this time before you can think about it. Otherwise, you have to remember that the highest level of revenge is ignorance, and the most elegant punishment is silence.
Third, love yourself again. No matter who is right or wrong in this relationship, you are extremely lacking in love now, and the most difficult thing to face is to stay alone in the empty room, and the pain engraved in your heart, but at this time you must learn to reconcile with yourself, and don't cause secondary harm to yourself, since he doesn't feel sorry for you, then we feel sorry for ourselves, the past has become history, the future is not yet visible, cherish the present self, is the best gift you give yourself, treat yourself well, find your own interests, learn more, improve yourself, cognition, emotional intelligenceWhen you really enrich yourself, you will be relieved, and you will regain your brilliance. At that point, the one who regrets it is definitely not you.
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