Yesterday I saw a particularly interesting question, if your husband gives you 100,000 a month, but does not come home, can you accept it?
Many netizens said, but whenever I hesitate for a second, I think I'm ignorant, I don't need 100,000 or 20,000, as long as I give money, I can serve the third sister in confinement, what about you? Can you accept it?
In fact, many people will be deceived by this kind of remarks, thinking that to solve the problem of men's marriage, they don't need to talk about feelings with men, as long as they talk about money with men, after all, men's money is in, and the heart is in, right? As long as the man gives enough rice, it doesn't matter if he betrays him or not.
But in fact, sisters, many women control men's money bags, or some even sign certain agreements with men, but they still can't get men's hearts, and she can't wait for men's returns. Do you know why this is happening? Have you ever wondered? In fact, it is because a man's heart is becoming black step by step, when you only want money, and the man only gives you money, you still have some functional value for him. This is an equivalent exchange, but when you are emotionally isolated for a long time, when your feelings are exhausted, when the child grows up, you really don't have much use for him, and then he will have no scruples. Do you think he will give you money obediently at that time?
So this kind of day as long as money, you will really get more and more collapsed, you are just temporarily numb, temporarily enjoying the gifts given to you by the material. Because of your husband, he will only care less and less about you and will treat you like a pet who only wags his tail and begs for pity. The words are not rough, I am happy to talk to you for a few words, I am unhappy to scold you for a few words, all the bad things are vented on you, and you are not allowed to have any dissatisfaction, just if you are a little dissatisfied, you will not give money. I had a fan before who was directly collapsed by her husband with a sentence. Her husband said, don't you just want money every month? What else do you pretend to be high, is there any difference between you and those who sell outside? When she told me this, I was really shocked.
So sisters, if you grab men's money in marriage, only men's money, ignore feelings, ignore the family atmosphere, sense of belonging, sense of security, you will soon find that this must be a point of no return, because this will lead women to two desperate situations.
The first is that they have no dignity, lose their wings, lose their ability to earn a living, and are completely dependent on men. Because the moment you take a man's money, you have given up resistance, you don't believe that you can change the situation through your own efforts, you don't believe that you can defend your family, you don't believe that you can have a happy marriage, and you don't believe that you have the ability to make a living.
Second, it can make you depressed for a long time. At first, you may think that it doesn't matter, you have money to spend, but as time spreads, you will find that the man's attitude is like a stinger, and finally completely breaks your heart. You have to accept the mental stimulation that your husband brings to you every day, you will constantly consume yourself, keep denying your need for intimacy, and finally your body will collapse, your spirit will collapse.
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