At the age of 35, many incredible and unexpected things have happened, and this year is really amazing.
Before the age of 35, he always worked hard for work, sacrificing the interests of some families and individuals, and once stood at the table and bent over to work for a month without a day of rest after hemorrhoid surgery; always want to rely on their own struggle to impress the hearts of leaders and gain the trust of leaders; I always want to prove my mind and ability with practical actions; I always feel that I should make some contributions to the collective and society, otherwise I will do nothing in this life.
After the age of 35, I suddenly felt that it was futile to work hard; Suddenly feel that their ability and value do not need to be proved to others, let alone believe or understand; I suddenly felt that the greatest value of my efforts is to have a good body, a harmonious relationship between husband and wife, and take care of my children's healthy and happy growth; I suddenly felt that I didn't need to contribute anything to the society, and the society didn't need me to make any contribution, and the most valuable contribution was to make myself live well, let my family live well, and if I had the ability, I would bring some good influence to my relatives and friends.
Just after the age of 35, I calmly accepted these facts: I am an ordinary person, I am not smart enough, I am not good at empathizing with others, it is impossible to get rich and become a leader, and I cannot give my parents, wife, children more abundant wealth, contacts and other resources.
In this life, I may always be unable to hold on, starve to death, and eat a lot of hot pot with my family on weekends, Youngor's pants have been worn for seven or eight years, and I may have been so dull and mediocre.
35 years have passed, and I calmly accept the bland, mediocre, ordinary, and peaceful life.