Everything in the world is predetermined, and Mo Xiao is busy with nothing.
Golden bottle plum. One
If marriage is the ultimate pursuit of love, Pan Jinlian likes Wu Song the most, Ximenqing likes Li Bei'er the most, Meng Yulou likes Li Yanei the most, Chen Jingji likes Pan Jinlian the most, and Sister Han Ai likes Chen Jingji the most.
Li Bei'er died, Ximenqing jumped to his feet and cried, seeing the scene, it was difficult to give up; Meng Yulou met Li Yanei, like Lin Daiyu met Jia Baoyu, and a lover eventually became a family; After Chen Jingji's death, Sister Han Ai cut her hair and ruined her eyes, rolled her green lights and yellow rolls, and stopped her death.
Both men and women in ancient and modern times regard marriage as the end of their lives. In the fairy tale world of Westerners, princesses and princes are coming to the end of the story in marriage.
But life is not as good as expected, and those who sell gold can't buy gold. When we look at the golden plum, we feel that most of people's lives, love and marriage are mismatched.
Pan Jinlian met Wu Song twice, and what she thought of was that she didn't want this marriage to end up here. She knew she was in the dark of death.
Love blinds.
But if love doesn't blind, is it still love?
As the years go by, the number of horseteeth increases, people seem to be more and more sober and sensible, and love is becoming more and more marginal in life. But in this kind of reason, we see the great regrets of life, see the boredom of life, and we sigh that life lacks real feelings.
2. In the eighty-sixth episode, Pan Jinlian, Chen Jingji, and Pang Chunmei's adultery was exposed, Pang Chunmei was kicked out of the house and stayed at Xue's sister-in-law's house.
That's all. Still in the eighty-sixth episode, Pan Jinlian found that Chen Jingji had Meng Yulou's hairpin in his hand, and the two of them were angry and quarreled at night, and they had no sleep all night. Every time these two people meet, they seem to be motivated by desire, but it is really rare to stay awake all night.
After that, Pan Jinlian was kicked out of the house and stayed at Wang Po's house, Chen Jingji came to visit, and said:
My sister, I cut the skin and flesh for you, and you are angry and ashamed for me, why don't you come to see you? Yesterday, when I went to Sister-in-law Xue's house, I knew that Chunmei was sold in the garrison mansion, so I inquired and learned that you left his house and married Grandma Wang. I have come to see you today and take counsel with you. The two of us are inseparable from each other, so what can we do? Now I am going to divorce his daughter, and I ask him that he wants my house to keep the gold and silver cages before. If he doesn't go with me, I'll go down one by one at the Manjumen Gate in Tokyo, where it's still too late for him to offer me with both hands. I secretly fake my surname, a sedan chair to marry to your family, the two of us will be reunited forever, be a husband and wife, why not? ”
Although Chen Jingji died in Pang Chunmei's bed in the end, Chen Jingji never expressed a word of wanting to marry Pang Chunmei.
But for Pan Jinlian, Chen Jingji can go bankrupt, regardless of human morality, and give everything.
His father died, and he rarely wept. His uncle Zhang Tuanlian originally borrowed to live in his house, but in order to marry Pan Jinlian, he invited his uncle out of the house. His mother traveled thousands of miles from Tokyo to Qinghe County and said, "I'll come back, why don't I pick it up." Chen Jingji said, I feel uncomfortable.
He was suffering for the newly dead Pan Jinlian.
When his father died, he didn't cry, but took the risk to cry on the street Pan Jinlian: Good sister, it's all because I was a step too late and missed your life. You are a human being when you are alive and a god after you die, and you have captured the enemy Wu Song and avenged your hatred. I watched him on the court to take advantage of my life's ambition.
Pan Jinlian was buried in Yongfu Temple, and the coffin of her father Chen Hong was also deposited in Yongfu Temple. Father's coffin, Chen Jingji just chanted and sent, according to the procedure, what he always cared about was Pan Jinlian's burial.
In this way, Chen Jingji seems to be a lover.
But when the father and lover are buried together in the same temple, who should cry first? Is this a problem?
Third, chaos is from above, Chen Jingji's bastard is the root planted in Ximenqing.
Pan Jinlian, whom Ximen Qing is dating, is the wife of Wuhan University and belongs to stealing; Dating Li Bei'er has crossed the red line of ethics. Friend's wife, don't play, this was taboo in the ancients. Guan Yu rode alone for thousands of miles, reading spring and autumn at night, just to avoid suspicion of his friend's wife; When it comes to Sister Li Gui, she can't tell the boundaries of ethics. Sister Li Gui is Ximenqing's concubine and Li Jiaoer's niece, and finally worships Wu Yueniang as her godmother, a mess of accounts.
Chen Jingji and Pan Jinlian were originally the relationship between mother-in-law and son-in-law, and they were known as silk and hemp relatives in ancient times, which was an extremely close relationship. Such a date is punishable by death. Ximen Qing has personally handled such a case.
Fate mocked Ximenqing, and such a thing happened in his own family.
But the ** relationship between the concubine or the stepmother and the son, do we see less in court dramas?
In Cao Yu's thunderstorm, such stories are still playing out.
In the Golden Bottle Meili, this is a life lesson, in the thunderstorm, the ambiguity between the son and the stepmother rises to the confrontation between human affection and human ethics, and it has become a textbook for social enlightenment.
Modern people do not seem to rank feelings according to hierarchies, and admit that feelings are diverse and complex. In "Anna Karenina", who is more important in Anna's heart, son or Volynsky? Volynsky or the son brought more pain to Anna? At the moment when Anna falls into the tracks in a trance, it seems to become a topic of nothingness.
Originally, in Western human values, Adam and Eve were the first to encounter a relationship. Doesn't this recognize that the relationship between husband and wife is the most important relationship in human relations, and does it not recognize the importance of the relationship between men and women in disguise?
Between parents, children, and lovers, modern people are getting closer and closer to their lovers.
Fourth, Chen Jingji cares much more about Pan Jinlian than about his parents. is also a mourning for death, Chen Jingji couldn't stop crying at Pan Jinlian, but he couldn't shed tears for his father Chen Jingji.
In the eyes of the ancients, this was intolerable.
Acknowledging the existence of a feeling is not the same as acknowledging that the feeling is reasonable. In the ancient Chinese people, fathers and sons had relatives, kings and ministers had righteousness, husbands and wives were different, the elders and young were orderly, friends had letters, and they sacrificed their feelings for responsibility.
It's the price that people have to pay.
Wine and wealth, if you allow your desires to run rampant, what rules are there in the world? Self-cultivation and family rule the country and level the world, if the body is not cultivated, the family is not even, and the whole country is not chaotic? Therefore, in the system set up by the ancients, personal feelings must be subject to ethical constraints. You may love your lover more in your heart, and Chen Jingji's feelings for Pan Jinlian may be heavier than his father, but if you can't even distinguish the order between worshipping your parents and your lover, won't you become a pig and dog who can't be separated?
What's more, it's your little mother-in-law that you're meeting privately?
If the ancients were today, they would definitely stand up and refute the emotional ethics of today.
Fifth, Pan Jinlian was killed by Wu Song, and the ghost had nowhere to susten, so he first dreamed of Chen Jingji, and then dreamed of Pang Chunmei, and finally buried in the incense courtyard of Zhou Shoubei, Yongfu Temple.
The book begins at the Jade Emperor Temple and ends at Yongfu Temple. Zhang Zhupo said that Yongfu Temple is a matter of gushing belly, the door of birth and the death of my household, and the story of desire.
Yongfu Temple is the settlement of the story, Ximen Qing encountered Hu monks, found **, originated from Yongfu Temple, Pan Jinlian, Pang Chunmei, Chen Jingji are buried in Yongfu Temple.
In the world of the ancients, life has a gathering and a dispersion, and history has a beginning and an end. In the end, the Romance of the Three Kingdoms will return to Jin, the Water Margin will be discharged, the Journey to the West will obtain the true scriptures, and the god list will be on the altar to be crowned a god.
In the Golden Vase Meili, these lonely men and widows will eventually gather in Yongfu Temple, where good and evil will be retributed, reflecting ethical justice.
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