If you don't love someone, you should leave completely. But there is such a phenomenon in love: a man does not love you, and being with you is constantly consuming you, you can feel his love, but he is unwilling to leave you. This way of getting along will make you wonder. In the end, love or not is impossible to guess, in fact, there is such a situation in love: even if a person does not love you, he does not want to be separated from you. Here's what he really thinks:
1. Reluctance to change habits and fear of strangenessTwo people are very accustomed to each other when they are together. Accustomed to saying good morning every morning day after day, accustomed to slapstick, having each other's presence in each other's lives, this habit has formed path dependence, and your existence in a man's life has become natural. Breaking a habit is more frightening than not loving you. A cousin of mine and her brother-in-law met when they were 20 years old, got married when they were 22 years old, and their children were 8 years old. My sister had a bad temper, and the two were noisy, and finally chose to divorce, but it didn't take long for her to automatically remarry. After the remarriage, the relationship was not as good as before, the quarrel still existed, and even intensified, and the brother-in-law began to do it, but the brother-in-law has never thought of divorce. It wasn't until my brother-in-law had an extramarital lover that he and his sister went through the divorce procedures, separated happily, and never looked back. Sometimes, I think that I am reluctant to leave for love, but in fact, when we are together and have a sense of familiarity with each other, separation means the re-establishment of new habits and stepping out of the comfort zone of interpersonal relationships. The fear and strangeness of the unknown will make a person willingly stay in the comfort zone, even if it is painful, but the degree of this pain will be subconsciously less than change, so it will be content with the status quo. 
2. Keep a spare tire for yourself and prepare for a variety of thingsThe love of adults has sincerity, and it is more about consideration. I've seen such a **: a man and a woman know each other on a blind date, and the girl's enthusiasm makes the man feel that the person in front of him is not bad, so he agrees to try it together. After getting along for a while, the girl asked the man if he liked her. The man said that he liked it, but the narration about the real psychology of the boy in the picture said: There is no better choice, you can catch one and count one. The girl asked again, when will the two get married? The boy said that he wanted to look at the girl, and the narrator of the picture said that the boy's real thoughts were: I want to find a better look. Obviously, the boy treats the girl as a spare tire, and there is no better choice at the moment, so he will be with the girl first. It seems that the relationship is stable, but in fact, the boy's heart has not settled down at all. The boy who treats you as a spare tire, you can't feel love with him, or you can't feel that much love, because he doesn't fully approve of you in his heart, but just treats you as a closer passerby. 
Maybe he has high enough emotional intelligence to make you very happy, but maybe you don't feel love from him at all. You are not his only one, you may be just one of them. Love has never had a fixed answer. Because the truth of love is always hidden in the heart of the person you love. You know what you think, but you can't guess what the other person really thinks. What you can do is that when you can feel love, love bravely, love with your heart, but if you can't feel love, leave generously. Because the man who really loves you, he will not be willing to let you go, he will change and give you the love you want; If the other party can't do this, love and dislove are very obvious, and there is no need to embarrass yourself. Enjoy the New Year