Fifty years old is a contemplative stage in life. For middle-aged women, marriage is particularly crucial, which is directly related to health and life fortune. At this time, women who endure hardship often do not understand the four key points, let's ** together.
1. Don't punish men with their physical needs at will.
When a woman is dissatisfied with a man, the dumbest act is to punish the other person with biological value. thought that this would control the man, but it turned out to be counterproductive, and the relationship between the husband and wife was even worse. I remember a news story about a famous educator divorcing his foreign wife, who often resorted to cold violence and sexual punishment, which led to an even worse relationship between the husband and wife. The key to a happy marriage is to be talkative, tolerant and understanding, not in this way.
2. Understand the importance of emotional value.
Women who suffer in marriage are often outspoken and do not understand the value of emotions. Although a colleague is not outstanding in appearance and ability, because she knows how to praise her husband and praise him with sweet words, her marriage is very happy. The use of emotions can make women a favored physique, on the contrary, women who do not know the art of language may suffer in marriage.
3. Understand the importance of material conditions.
There is a good saying, "It is better not to meet than to be able to do it". In the choice of marriage, you can't put your feelings above material things, otherwise you will suffer. Many women who are over 50 and happily married do so because they made no mistakes in their choices. On the contrary, women who do not understand the importance of material conditions may suffer in marriage, especially those who are immature and have made the wrong choices.
4. Understand the importance of self-growth.
Happy couples in wealthy families tend to be synchronized with each other, and there is no situation where the couple's abilities are too different. During a visit to a wealthy family, the hostess was learning about finance and accounting, and expressed her desire to take the exam. This attitude of self-growth is deeply impressive. In marriage, there is not much difference in the abilities of both parties, and only by growing together can they maintain happiness. Conversely, a situation where one person grows and the other stands still often leads to failed marriages.
After the age of fifty, we should have an epiphany that the main reason for a woman who suffers in marriage lies in herself. Rely on yourself at all times. Life will only be better if you remain independent. Share.
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