Don't miss today's wonderful topic when you pass by, thank you for reading, I hope to move your little hands to make a fortune Like Follow Comment.
Here, I wish you all a happy life, smooth work, and wealth every day!
The things that are young will eventually be trapped in their lives, and the floating scenery of twilight will eventually wake up in an instant, and they will finally solve the puzzles of a lifetime because of one thing and one thing. Looking back, the light boat has crossed the ten thousand mountains, and if you want to buy osmanthus and carry wine, it is not the same as the end, and the youth travels. This is a passage that I accidentally saw when I was flipping through it, as if I was electrocuted, and my soul was redeemed in an instant, who said the regrets of life so thoroughly, and said the relief so indifferently. It turns out that it is always yourself who traps you, and the obsession you have been obsessed with will really be relieved in a moment.
People are always obsessed with the unattainable.
When I was five years old, I accidentally tripped and fell, in fact, it didn't hurt, I just pretended to cry and couldn't afford to lie on the ground, just to let my father, who was sitting next to me, pick me up and hold me tightly in his arms to comfort me, but no!
At the age of six, he always longed for a rag doll and hoped that she would fill the loneliness of childhood and the neglect of his parents. My parents wouldn't buy it, but I really wanted to have one, so I clumsily sewed a crooked puppet with stitch after thread, and even the facial features on my face were drawn with pencils, and out of being too clumsy and ashamed to see people, I hid her in the bed. was accidentally discovered by his family and made fun of him, and that scene is still vivid in my mind.
When I was eight years old, I saw that others looked good in the right dress, this kind of **, just ask, which little girl can resist it? I hesitated for a long time about this idea, and finally mustered up the courage to tell my mother, only to get the cold word "don't buy". The small buds that have just sprouted are completely killed.
When I was twelve years old, I was promoted to junior high school that year, and when I saw the eighth grade in the township, I ran home excitedly to share the good news with my parents.
When I was thirteen, I walked five or six miles from my home to school, and when I saw my companion riding a bicycle, I really wanted to, but I couldn't say the word "want" anymore.
When I was in high school, when my love was just beginning to bloom, the people around me had flower messengers one after another. I also have a favorite person, who is very good, and when I look at myself, I dwarf it, so I can only look at it from afar.
When I was in college, I was more helpless than independent, I went to school to report alone, I went to work part-time alone, I fought for what I encountered and what I wanted, or I hid it in my heart and didn't say anything.
worked, changed several jobs, tasted helplessness and sadness in the process, and envied the decent, stable and bright life of others.
When you get married and live in different places, the more crowded you are, the more you want him to be by your side. But what is often exchanged is just us tossing and turning one after another, and sleepless nights. So, being able to walk hand in hand with my family at dusk became my longing. may have lacked family warmth when he was a child, and he always wanted to make up for it in the family he established.
Later, life gradually improved, my husband's career was stable, and I also had a stable and decent job through hard work. We have enough of the power to have what we dreamed of as children: a rag doll, a beautiful princess dress, a fancy bicycle ......But the other part can never be recovered, just like: the comfort of my father after falling, the courage to speak up when I like it, the praise of my parents without hesitation after the exam, and the ignorance ...... in my youth
What you can let go of is what you can have when you become an adult, and those that you can't have will be drawn into a prison, trapped in your life, and you will never be able to get out of your childhood.
In adulthood, a good person was able to generously feast on his young self.
Some people spend a whole year in their childhood, and some people have a childhood that can be a lifetime. What is not available becomes an eternal regret.
Parents are waiting for their children to say, "Thank you," while children are waiting for parents to say, "I'm sorry."
Yes, the ragdoll princess dress that I couldn't ask for when I was a child was compensated for my daughter, so let's raise myself again.
When we are young, those things that we want and can't get may always be left in our hearts in the way of regrets, regrets, and resentments.
I'm sorry for you, but the other will also start your wonderful journey.
Re-nurture your childhood self.
At the age of 30, it has become pointless to buy something that the 18-year-old likes. Yes, time has passed, and it is boring.
When I buy some childish things as an adult, I don't really like it, and I make up for what I couldn't ask for in my childhood.
After many requests are not met, people will slowly not dare to expect extravagance, and over time, they will become inferior.
Kudos to you, you are the one who really breaks free.
If we can't have it, we can't forget it, and sometimes what we think about is not the thing itself, but the importance and love.
Mr. Yang Jiang once wrote: "Everyone will have a particularly difficult time, the embarrassment of life, the frustration of work, and the hesitation of love. If you survive, life will suddenly open up, and the time that can't survive will also teach you how to shake hands with them, so you don't have to be afraid, the sun rises and the moon sets, and there is always a dawn. ”
Don't be trapped in the heart, don't stay in things. Realize that the past is not admonished, and those who know the future can be traced. May we all reconcile with our past selves and embrace a better future.
Thank you friends for reading, the vast sea of people, rubbing shoulders is fate, meet one, don't forget to like and collect attention.
Let us tell us your story in the comments section, and we'll see you in the comments section!