In today's society, people often regard education and status as important criteria to measure whether a relationship is compatible. However, in the case of my younger brother Xiaohai and his wife Xiaofang, I saw a different story. Xiao Hai, a graduate student at 985 University, is very knowledgeable and deeply respected by his family and friends. And his wife Xiaofang, who only has a junior high school education, plays a pivotal role in the family. Although in the eyes of outsiders, their union does not seem to be so matched, Xiaohai always smiled and said: "I am the one who climbs." ”
This starts with my old friend Xiaoqiang, whom I haven't seen for many years. That day, I was wandering down the street when suddenly a familiar figure came into view. That's Xiaoqiang, our playmate when we were kids. The years have left their mark on his face, but his eyes still reveal a mischievous light. We exchanged a few pleasantries, and he told me about his experience of working hard outside the home over the years. He has gone through countless difficulties and setbacks to get to where he is today. I am very emotional and at the same time happy for his success.
On the way home, I thought of Xiaohai and Xiaofang. Xiaohai and Xiaoqiang's experiences are somewhat similar, they both achieved success through their own efforts. However, when choosing a partner, Xiaohai did not pay attention to the other party's education and status, but paid more attention to the inner fit and cherished each other. This made me wonder if the real match is not about the superficial conditions, but about the inner feelings of both parties.
Xiaofang's position at home has always been awkward. Relatives always look at her strangely, and even say things that make her feel stressed on some occasions. However, Xiaofang has not given up, and she has been trying to integrate into the family, although the process has not been so smooth. I remember one time, Xiaofang was busy preparing dinner in the kitchen, while her relatives were talking in the living room. Xiao Fang accidentally knocked over a plate, and the chatter of relatives immediately became louder. She ran out of the kitchen with red eyes, and I saw her tears rolling in her eyes. At that moment, I deeply felt her helplessness and grievance.
Xiaohai has always firmly supported Xiaofang. He always told her not to care about other people's eyes and words, as long as they loved each other, it was enough. Every time Xiao Fang was wronged, Xiao Hai would hold her hand tightly, giving her strength and courage. Once, when our family had dinner in our ancestral house, our relatives began to discuss Xiaohai's marriage again. The atmosphere became a little tense, but Xiao Hai calmly put down his chopsticks and said in a firm tone: "I know you are all talking about my marriage with Xiao Fang. But I want to tell you that Xiaofang is the person I love the most, and her education and status do not matter. The important thing is that we love each other and that we value each other. These words silenced everyone present. Xiao Fang's eyes were red, and she looked at Xiao Hai gratefully. At that moment, I was deeply moved by their love.
The story of Xiaohai and Xiaofang made me understand a truth: on the road of affection, the right person is not the most important. The true match lies in the inner fit of both parties and the cherishing of each other. As long as people who love each other can support and understand each other, then any difficulties can be overcome together. After eating, the atmosphere at home became much more relaxed. Xiao Hai took Xiao Fang to the yard for a walk, and the two held hands, with happy smiles on their faces. I sat under the eaves and thought back to the scene just now, and my heart was inexplicably moved.
However, life is always full of uncertainties. That night, Xiaohai received a **, which was called by his mentor. The mentor told him that there was an opportunity to study abroad, but he had to go alone. This news is undoubtedly a great opportunity for Xiaohai, but it also means that the couple will face separation. Xiao Hai was in a dilemma, he didn't want to give up this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, and he didn't want Xiao Fang to feel lonely and helpless. In those days, the family atmosphere became dull. Xiaohai is clearly in trouble, while Xiaofang tries to act strong to avoid embarrassing Xiaohai.
After the relatives learned the news, they persuaded Xiao Hai to seize the opportunity, but few people took Xiao Fang's feelings into account. However, Xiao Hai did not blindly follow the opinions of others, but chose to face this problem with Xiao Fang, they had in-depth communication and discussion, and finally Xiao Hai made a decision, he gave up the opportunity to study abroad, and chose to stay by Xiao Fang's side to accompany her to spend the future days, this decision made relatives talk a lot, but Xiao Hai didn't care, he knew that his choice was right, because he loved Xiao Fang deeply, and was unwilling to let her face the difficulties and challenges of life alone.
I watched the scene of Xiaohai and Xiaofang hugging and crying, my heart was full of emotion, their story made me deeply realize that on the road of feelings, the real match does not lie in the superficial education and status, but in the inner fit and cherishing of each other, as long as the people who love each other can support each other and understand each other, then any difficulties can be overcome together, and life will become more beautiful and fulfilling.
Now the story of Xiaohai and Xiaofang continues, and I can't predict their future, but I firmly believe that as long as they hold hands and connect hearts, no difficulties can stop them from pursuing happiness, and their love will become stronger and more precious.
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