There is never a first-come-first-served distinction in emotional matters, and there are only love and non-love.
It's not that if you've known someone for a long time, they're necessarily going to like you. Sometimes, what can move him is not necessarily time, not necessarily companionship, but it must be his feelings for a person.
He is only with a person if he has special feelings for him.
People's emotions are often complicated, and men treat you like this, most of them have a new love, so let's leave.
If a person likes you, they won't always look down at their phone when they're with you. Even if it's because something at work isn't done, he'll let you know what's going on and won't even mind letting you look at his phone page.
For him, you are by his side at the moment, and that is the most important thing.
But if he's always bowing his head and replying to messages from time to time when he's with you, then it's probably keeping in touch with other people.
And if you can't cut this connection for a while, the other party is probably a difficult and clingy person - an ambiguous object.
A man who always looks at his phone when he meets you actually doesn't respect you very much.
Because he doesn't think it's important to meet you, that's why he treats you casually.
When you meet such a person, don't continue to spend it with him, just be interesting and leave.
If you always keep in touch with someone for a long time, then you can basically find out his living habits, daily hobbies, and also know his chat habits.
One of the differences between men and women in chatting is that the emojis he posts are not cute, but often have a "straight male aesthetic". In the eyes of women, this kind of aesthetic is actually "rustic".
When he chats with you, and suddenly sends some emojis that you haven't seen, or even these emojis still have a hint of cuteness and exquisite beauty, in fact, you should be vigilant: he may also be in touch with other women, and these emojis are often sent by the other party.
Men are not really interested in cute things, but when a person often chats with him in a pleasant tone, he subtly accepts what the other person posts.
With a new love by his side, you are not his only one.
Since he doesn't love you, then you let go, don't destroy your mentality for the sake of an unfaithful person.
You used to be in touch every day, and you could meet up every weekend.
I don't know when he spends less and less time with you. Sometimes you share your joys with him, and he always doesn't reply after a long time. You said you wanted to ask him to watch a movie on the weekend, but he said that he had to work overtime and didn't have time to go to ......
In fact, he has long kept a distance from you in his heart.
It seems that there is a huge chasm between you, and he no longer takes the initiative to cross it.
When he's not with you, he may be with someone else.
Because what I used to do to you, I am now doing it to others, so I can't spare time for you.
When love is tilted, you don't get all of his love.
After feeling his indifference, let's leave with interest, there is no need to continue to pester him.
You also have your dignity, and those who lose you will never be lost.
"New love" is a frightening word in the relationship, but the appearance of a third party is not necessarily accidental, but the other party has already moved away from you.
So don't blame the new love, but blame him for not choosing you firmly.
It is not a pity for you to lose someone who is not loyal.
After all, you have loved sincerely and frankly, and when you look back, the person who should feel pity should be him.