On the road of affection, everyone wants to find a sincere and reliable partner to walk side by side.
But the reality often backfires, even if you are a simple and kind person, sometimes you will inevitably be taken advantage of by people with ulterior motives.
Some people don't take their relationship seriously, they just want to live in the present for a short time, instead of imagining a future with you.
If you meet such a person emotionally, it is best to see his true face in time and not be confused by his clever words.
If a man has these 3 manifestations, he just wants to play with you. Stop loving.
Many women will have an emotional misunderstanding in their feelings, that is, they think that if a man often takes the initiative to chat with him, then most likely he likes you.
But this matter can only be guessed 50 percent, and the remaining 50 percent depends on what he does next.
If he often takes the initiative to contact you and take the initiative to share his life with you, but he never asks you to meet, never sends you red envelopes during festivals (the amount is not necessarily large, just his heart and attitude), and he never says that he wants to take the initiative to come to you, then he actually doesn't take you to heart.
Online chatting doesn't take much effort, it's just a matter of fingertips.
So don't be too moved by cheap behavior.
He often takes the initiative to find you, but he doesn't promote your relationship, which means that he just wants to play with you and doesn't want to have any substantive relationship with you.
In the relationship between men and women, there is a kind of person whose boundary line is not very strong, and often says something misleading.
For example, in the process of chatting, he will often praise you for being virtuous and beautiful, saying that if anyone is with you in the future, it will be a great blessing.
Or, he often talks in front of you, you are the ideal type, he has wanted to chase you before, but he has never had the courage and so on.
These words sounded easy to make people think wildly, but he didn't think so.
If he always talks to you ambiguously, but he doesn't take the initiative to pursue you, and he doesn't officially confess to you, then you don't bother with him, he just wants to play with you.
If a person really likes you, he will not hang on to you.
Most of the people who play ambiguously with you but don't give a name are probably not serious.
In an emotional live broadcast, a girl asked that she had been in contact with a netizen for several years. Once she made it clear that she wanted to fall in love with the other party, but the other party avoided it. So she wanted to know, did the other party like her or not?
When the blogger heard this, he replied with certainty: "He doesn't like you." ”
But the girl didn't believe it: "How is it possible, the two of us have only been each other for so many years, and we have always kept in touch." ”
The blogger said: "But you made it clear to him, but he avoided it!."”
Sometimes, the answer is actually obvious, but the person himself does not want to believe it.
If a person who has been in contact with you for a long time, but the two of you have never been able to achieve results, then he will most likely just use you as a boring chat partner.
He thinks that this can get emotional value from you without being responsible for you, so why not?
Sober up, don't lie to yourself. Admit his hypocrisy, let it go, and go live your life.
If you can't avoid the insincere people in the relationship between men and women, then you can only maintain your attitude.
Encounters who take the initiative to chat with you, but do not advance the relationship;Talk to you about ambiguous love, but don't give a name;Those who have been in contact with you for a long time, but have no results, should stay away decisively, so as not to provoke you.
He just wants to have fun, but you don't have to be with him.