The adult world is often perceived as strong, independent, and sensible. However, under this seemingly strong appearance, there are countless unspeakable grievances. Behind a simple "I'm fine", there may be thousands of bitterness that cannot be expressed.
In the adult world, we often learn to hide our emotions. We don't want to cause trouble for others, we don't want to show our vulnerability. So, we choose to cover up our inner pain and confusion with "I'm fine". This phrase became our protective color and made others think that we were all right.
However, this hiding is not because we are powerless, but because we are sensible. We understand that the difficulties and challenges in life need to be faced by ourselves, and we don't want others to worry about us. We have learned to take responsibility and to persevere in the face of difficulties.
But are we, who even have to think about the consequences of collapse, really strong enough to be invulnerable? In fact, sometimes people cry, not because they are weak, but because they have been strong for too long. We suffer in silence under the pressures of life, trying to keep a smile and composure. However, when the flood of emotions can no longer be suppressed, we will suddenly collapse at a certain moment.
Those seemingly trivial things may be the last straw that crushes us. Maybe it's a failed interview, maybe it's the breakdown of a relationship, maybe it's all kinds of unsatisfactory things in life. These seemingly ordinary things, when they add up, eventually make us unbearable.
However, it is in these moments of collapse that we truly realize our limits. We have discovered that we are not omnipotent, and that we also have a vulnerable side. At this time, we need to give ourselves some tolerance and understanding. We need to allow ourselves to cry and allow ourselves to release our emotions.
In love, we often face similar confusion. We may choose to endure for the sake of the other person's happiness and choose to hide our emotions. We are afraid that expressing our true feelings will hurt the other person or destroy an existing relationship. However, such concealment often leaves us feeling tired and powerless.
Love needs not only to be sensible and strong, but also to be sincere and communicative. We need to learn to share our joys and sorrows with our partner and let them know our true inner world. It is only through open communication that we can build a truly strong relationship.
So, when we are having a hard time in love, don't be afraid to express our emotions. Don't always cover up the pain in your heart with "I'm fine". Facing problems and taking responsibility with your partner is what makes love stronger.
In the adult world, we need to learn to face up to our emotions and not overly suppress them. Crying does not represent weakness, but rather a release and healing. When we feel tired, we might as well find a quiet corner and let ourselves unleash. Then, wipe away your tears and pick yourself up again.
Because, we are all flesh and blood people, and we all have the right to feel sadness and joy. It is only after accepting our vulnerability and strength that we can truly become strong inside. Let's bravely face the challenges of life together, no longer hide our grievances, and write our own wonderful life with real emotions.