If you also feel that there is no one to rely on at this moment, then congratulations, it is God who wants you to wake up, in fact, most people are woken up by pain, when you experience a desperate situation in life, there is no one to help you shelter from the wind and rain, there is no way out, you will completely burst out of inner strength.
You must know that the fastest way to make a person grow is not to be proud of the wind and the spring breeze of rain, but to see through, look away and look down after the tribulation. Master Hongyi said that the heavens grind your feelings in order to make you look down on everything and let go of your obsessions; Grinding your wealth is to let you settle your heart and reduce greed; Sharpen your mind so that you can be calm and comfortable in dealing with others in the future. You must know that if the heart is not bitter, wisdom will not be opened, if the body is not bitter, the blessing will not be thick, all the enlightened people have experienced the heart and body suffering, all the waves are not shocked, there are all kinds of pain and struggle, as the so-called heart does not die, the Tao will not be born.
So, when you feel that there is no way out and no one to help you, that is precisely the only path that God has given you, which is the path of self-awakening. Only when people have experienced the time when life is worse than death, and have experienced the moment when they are torn apart and reassembled, can they truly become strong.
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