Sometimes, the workplace can be really difficult for female job seekers.
Not only do you have to face external employment pressure, but you also have to face pressure from within your family!
How to find a balance between work and family is an unavoidable question for every female job seeker.
Recently, a female netizen encountered a very distressing thing and posted on a social platform to seek the opinions of other netizens.
After learning that her monthly salary was only more than 6,000, this netizen's mother-in-law asked her to quit her job and go home to take care of the family!
and promised to take out 5,000 from the more than 10,000 pensions of his father-in-law and mother-in-law every month to subsidize the living expenses of this netizen.
Not only did her husband raise his hands in favor of this matter, but even the parents of netizens persuaded him to accept his mother-in-law's suggestion.
This netizen is also hesitant whether to accept her mother-in-law's suggestion and resign and go home to take care of the family!
Other netizens expressed different opinions, persuading this female netizen not to give up her hard-won job as a last resort.
Although the mother-in-law subsidizes 5,000 yuan, the total income of the whole family has not increased, and it is impossible to receive living expenses from the mother-in-law for a long time.
Now the employment environment is not good, the employment pressure is very high, the layoffs are serious, no one can guarantee that your husband's job has been stable and secure, and resigning and going home is equivalent to cutting off a family's income**, be cautious.
Female job seekers are inherently discriminated against in employment, and the older they get, the more difficult it is to find a job, especially after giving birth.
In the family, there must be an independent income**, and the economy must not be dependent on the husband's family, and the occurrence of domestic violence in recent years is caused by the loss of family status because women have no independent income**.
This netizen's profession is sales, sales is a profession that is easy to accumulate contacts, and resigning and returning home will not only gradually distance yourself from your circle, but also easily disconnect from this society.
Not economically viable,** income and additional expenses are not calculated. After resigning, you need to bear the five social insurances and one housing fund, do not pay the five social insurances and one housing fund, do not have maternity allowance and retirement pension, and the provident fund for loans and houses cannot be used, which increases family costs in disguise.
However, it is expected that this netizen will most likely accept her mother-in-law's suggestion and resign and go home due to family pressure.
In this case, there is no need to be pessimistic, this is simply someone to provide you with a life guarantee for entrepreneurship!
No matter how much you have to do at home, it won't take up all your time, and you can use your skills and connections to do the work you like.
At this stage, a large number of office workers are also looking for side hustles to make money, and some people earn more from side hustles than their main hustles!
Here I would like to share the experience of a friend who also wanted to go out to work after giving birth.
Her previous job was to help people repair ** next to the Civil Affairs Bureau, and her salary in a small county town was only 3,000 yuan.
Her mother-in-law refused to let her go out to work, but promised a monthly subsidy of 3,000 yuan.
After she compromised, in addition to cooking and cleaning up the house every day, she took on some side jobs of photo studios on the Internet for the rest of the time.
The ** of those travel photos in the scenic spot is what they helped to polish the skin.
At the beginning, I was not proficient in business, working three shifts a day, getting up early and being greedy for darkness, and earning relatively little.
After the business is proficient, the speed of retouching is getting faster and faster, and you can earn 5000-6000 per month, and you have more and more time to spare.
Later, he began to be a second-tier dealer, and then packed the ** that he received to make the difference.
The most difficult time for my friend's family is to get through the difficulties with the money she earns from repairing **!
If you are not sure that you can earn money at home, it is advisable not to quit your job.
No matter how good others give, it is not as good as earning it yourself!
What do you think?
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