Love is like a tide, silent when it recedes. ”
In life, the traces of love are often hidden in subtle changes. When you find that the person around you begins to show the following manifestations frequently, perhaps, her feelings for you in the bottom of her heart have quietly changed.
1. Alienation and indifference.
You who used to talk about everything, but now you are in the embarrassment of silence. She no longer shares the bits and pieces of her life with you, no longer cares about your mood ups and downs, and even if you take the initiative to find a topic, she only responds perfunctorily. This shift in attitude from enthusiasm to indifference, like the cold wind in winter, cold and direct, indicates that her emotional temperature is gradually decreasing.
2. Independence replaces dependence.
In the past, she would ask you for help in the face of difficulties and snuggle up to you when she was tired. And now, everything is in order for her, and she no longer needs your assistance or expects your company. Her independence does not mean growth, but rather suggests a psychological distance that suggests that she may no longer see you as an emotional dependent.
3. Stop focusing on your life.
Once, she would remember your preferences, understand your daily routine, and even your smile could tug at her heartstrings. But now, you're working late into the night, and she's no longer anxiously waiting;You are not feeling well, and she is no longer caring for you. Her neglect and indifference seem to have drawn a line intentionally or unintentionally, telling you that you are no longer the person who is carefully cared for in her heart.
Fourth, no more mention of you in future planning.
Talking about the future was originally a dream woven by two people. But now, when she talks about her plans for the future, she no longer comes naturally to you, as if you have become a part of her life blueprint that can be erased at will. Such a change clearly sends a signal that your place in her world is gradually fading or even disappearing.
Fifth, frequent quarrels and cold wars.
If your relationship has entered a cycle of frequent arguments and cold wars, then it may not just be a matter of personality run-in. Behind the quarrel, it may be the accumulation and explosion of her inner dissatisfaction, and the cold war, she is trying to escape or alienate you in this way. When love wanes, conflicts become more acute and quarrels are more likely to occur.
In general, the disappearance of love is not achieved overnight, but a subtle process. When a woman begins to show all of these changes, it may be that she has made a decision deep down in her heart and has not yet found the right way to express it to you. As readers, we should understand that we should respect and accept each person's emotional choices, but also learn to let go at the right time so that each other has the opportunity to pursue true happiness. Because, although love is beautiful, reluctant love will only make people tired. Only by facing it honestly can we truly be relieved and open a new chapter for each other.