Mastering some social skills can avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles and avoid many detours. Here are some pieces of wisdom that can help us deal with relationships more harmoniously over the years.
1.When visiting others, bring appropriate gifts, which not only shows your respect, but also the superfluous etiquette usually does not cause offend.
2.Always have some cigarettes in your pocket, and when you meet a doorman or security guard, handing over a cigarette is often more effective than saying anything.
3.Don't be fooled when someone deliberately asks you for trouble. Stay calm and deal with the problem sensibly.
4.In love, don't please the other person too much, excessive pleasing will only make you lose your self-esteem and make the other person look down on you.
5.Remember, people mostly act out of profit. In any relationship, it is necessary to maintain mutual benefit and give each other some sweetness so that the relationship can last for a long time.
6.Living in someone else's home for a long time can often be tiresome, even for those close to you.
7.During the meal, don't rush to move the chopsticks, doing so may make you look uneducated.
8.In your dealings with people, keep a part of yourself so that others don't offend you easily.
9.In other people's homes, we must know how to praise, whether it is the children, the environment or the physical condition of the elderly, which is a kind of wisdom in dealing with people.
10.When communicating with people, you should be in a good sense of proportion, do not say everything, and avoid unnecessary misunderstandings.
11.Money can straighten one's waist and make one's woman look radiant.
12.When communicating with your wife, focus on her feelings rather than just right or wrong.
13.If you're in someone else's house and their significant other is hiding in the room and doesn't come out, it could mean that they don't welcome you and you should find an excuse to leave.
14.Before inviting a friend to your home for dinner, you should discuss it with your wife, because the home is a home for two people, and being arbitrary is a sign of disrespect for the other person. If the wife is upset, go out to eat.
15.The brother-in-law should wait for a while before using the bathroom that he has just used, which is a sign of respect for the family.
16.Women should avoid getting too close to married men, and even if they are rich, they should firmly refuse, otherwise they may be labeled as juniors.
17.The less you know about someone else's privacy, the better. Once this kind of thing is spread, it is easy to be suspicious, and it is better not to know than to know.
18.Don't joke about other people's shortcomings and shortcomings, it's disrespectful.
19.Money largely determines our freedom of action.
20.Don't just say "you should" to others, as this can be offensive.
21.When we are young, we may not be so afraid of difficulties, but as we get older, we begin to be afraid of difficulties and challenges.
22.Happiness cannot be enjoyed, and the truth cannot be exhausted.
23.Don't make decisions for others, not even your closest friends. Because even if you do it right, they won't necessarily appreciate you; But if you do something wrong, they will surely blame you.
24.As people get older, they become more and more cunning.
25.Arrogant soldiers tend to fail, and pampered children tend to turn bad.
26.If you don't see things with your own eyes, don't jump to conclusions, and even if you see them with your own eyes, you must first figure out the ins and outs of the matter before jumping to conclusions.
27.The people who look down on you are often your relatives; Those who are afraid that you have money are often your acquaintances.
28.Don't slap your face, don't scold your mother.
29.When eating in a restaurant, be kind to the waiter, which is a basic social morality.
30.When you invite guests to eat, do not go to the toilet at the end of the meal, as a form of respect for the guests.
31.The sooner you repay others for their help, the better, which will let them know that you are a grateful person and that others will be more willing to help you next time.
Thousands of years of history have taught us that human feelings are an indispensable part of our lives. Although we may not believe in human feelings, we must know how to use human feelings.
Sophisticated human feelings are the key to determining the height of our lives!