Foreword: When people are on a journey, wind and rain are common, frost and snow are common, but they are testing ourselves.
If you don't have emergency tools, you can only get wet, small troubles are fine, once you encounter a big problem, who can help you protect you in such a timely manner?
Try to accumulate resources, and the road will be relatively smooth
Two days ago, I saw Sister Hui and her brother-in-law coming back for the New Year, and the relatives were very enthusiastic because they were developed.
More than ten years ago, their family moved here from other places, and there was nothing to make a living for a while, so they set up a stall, and due to the influence of the weather, they had to do odd jobs for two or three months, and their lives were tight. Even Sister Hui couldn't get out of her college tuition, and she borrowed it from relatives and friends, but she didn't make it up.
Fortunately, with student loans, she is smart and studious, while being a tutor for others, and on the other hand, she got a full scholarship with excellent grades to finish college.
Perhaps, God really has eyes! Sister Hui's family with her graduation, every step of the way, what to do to make money, three or five years later, the family moved to the south, with the willingness to endure hardships, the advantages of people, opened a Northeast restaurant, the scale is getting bigger and bigger, needless to say.
The heart is ** hurt, and the rain and snow are not cold
Bai Luomei said: If you carry your bags on your back, you are a passerby; Let go of the burden and find your hometown.
There is no absolute stability in life, and on the way to pursue your dreams, you should take a calm and indifferent heart and actively deal with the challenges of life.
In the words of Sister Hui: It is not easy for anyone, we can't help others a lot, we all have to rely on ourselves to solve problems. This is the ability we must have, otherwise, it will be difficult to straighten the body.
Because this is the confidence of our laughter in life, it is not that we will not cooperate, but after having it, we will cooperate better, and we can even create high-standard thinking and seize greater opportunities in life.
Self-growth is the beginning of a fulfilling life
The book says: People are always lonely, and joining in the fun of others is the most stupid behavior. But everything that has some meaning can only be done by bending your feet and bowing your head, and using your hands and feet together.
Little by little, I have grown in knowledge, become more and more handy, naturally no longer rely on others, nor have false expectations and hopes for anything, and it is easier to accept and understand reality, so as to willingly create my own wonderful life.
Just like the cloud in "Caigen Tan": Sitting alone in the dead of night, I feel that I am poor and really alone, and there are great opportunities in this.
The rest of your life is expensive, don't be too wronged yourself
Yu Hua said in "Alive": Life is everyone's own feelings, and it does not belong to anyone else's opinion.
Sister Hui and her brother-in-law are college classmates, and her brother-in-law has chased her for three years, but she didn't dare to agree, for fear that she won't be able to pass the parents' hurdle; After graduation, Sister Hui went to a large company not only to get a high salary, but also to cooperate with her mentor to develop a new technology, which advanced by leaps and bounds within two years.
Afterwards, some of their classmates secretly asked their brother-in-law: If you don't have a high salary and an invention patent, brother, you will still wait, right? He didn't answer, just squeezed the other person's shoulder.
After all, life is too hard, and who doesn't want to work with the strong and walk under the umbrella? As long as the two sides respect and love each other and exchange hearts for hearts in the days to come, it will be fine.
Caputuring words: In the stormy life, we should have our own umbrella.
Some people say: The best teacher in life is the test in life: the bowing of parents, the indifference of relatives, the departure of friends, and empty pockets. But you must have a lofty moral standard in your heart, look at the brilliant starry sky above your head, and use your tenacity and hard work to support a barrier and preserve the most beautiful scenery.
Only in this way can we be like Sister Hui, rewrite an unsatisfactory fate, grasp the initiative of happiness, and enjoy a completely different life experience. **10,000 Fans Incentive Plan
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