A female teacher in Shanghai fell in love with a male classmate and saved Messi, I thank you for the king of the ball (in fact, no matter how much you scold, you can't hurt Messi's hair), no way, people are more interested in the peach incident. To get back to the point, a reader asked me yesterday, is this female teacher breaking the law? I'm afraid it's not illegal. But if a person does something wrong, he will be punished. If the law can't punish her, then wield the stick of morality and smash her, is there anything wrong? Yesterday I wrote in the article: morality is a criterion used to demand oneself, not to attack others; The precepts are a yardstick for one's own words and deeds, not a whip for demeaning others. 
Many people turn a blind eye, there is no way, the IQ is here, and many people can't read the words they don't agree with. There are still many people who tilt their heads and ask me three big words: Why? Then I will answer this question, why can morality only demand oneself, and cannot be used as an attack on others? Three words:There is no standard. The law has standards, for example, if you steal something for 500 yuan and steal 50,000 or 5 million, and after you are caught, there is a clear difference in sentencing standards. But morally, they are all thieves, and even those who steal more than 5 million things are praised for their "high means" and "robbing the rich to help the poor". For example, swallow Li San, the drum is on the commotion, and so on. Therefore, morality is a thing, and it is ridiculous to despise the "little thief" and worship the "big thief". People have prejudices, and the law has to correct them. The sentence for stealing 500 pieces and stealing 5 million must be different. "Robbing the rich and helping the poor" cannot be a reason to steal things, otherwise everyone will "rob the rich and help the poor", and the social wealth will come from? 
Let's take the peachy incident of "female teacher" as an example. Moral lynching, how to deal with such incidents fairly? Can you stipulate that if you cheat on a male classmate over the age of 18, the neighbor will scold her for 3 years, and if you cheat on a male classmate under the age of 18, the neighbor will scold her for 5 years? cheated on a male classmate under the age of 16, and the neighbor scolded her for 7 years? Then I may ask, what should I do if my neighbor moves? How many decibels should a neighbor scold a female teacher? Scolding in Mandarin or Shanghainese or Northern Jiangsu? (As far as I know, dialects are not the same in terms of swearing) What is the linguistic logic of swearing? For example, if a male classmate over 18 years old scolds, you can't bring *** to cheating male classmates under the age of 16 can you scold people with *** when scolding, can you compare gestures, throw eggs, and rotten leaves? Than what gesture to throw a few eggs? How many pounds of leaves? If your neighbor's throat is uncomfortable, can you roll her eyes to express your disdain? Left or right eye roll? What is the ratio of white and black eyes? What should the scolding neighbor do if she is busy with work and often works overtime and has no energy to continue scolding her? 
You see, there is no standard for your moral punishment, so it is difficult to enforce. Again, I noticed that many people on the Internet said that "men are not handsome at all, they are boring", "female teachers are a pity", and so on. This shows that the appearance of the party involved in the peach incident can affect the strength of her moral punishment. "Poor female teacher and handsome and dashing male classmates" vs "Female teachers with ordinary appearance and male classmates who look a little ugly" Who do you think will be more morally punished? Is this fair? Have you seen "The Beautiful Legend of Sicily"? There are more Italian women sleeping with the Germans, why is Marlena repaired the worst? It's nothing more than that she looks the most beautiful! 
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Everyone—as long as it's human—has likes and dislikes. Take me as an example, I sympathize with this pair of bitter mandarin ducks, from my subjective point of view, I think there is love between them. Then you let me wield the moral stick to be ruthless to them, I can't do this. What about a different person? For example, Si Xnan cheated, Fang Xzi **, Yuan Xmu seduced a female student, etc., these gang forced me to look unpleasant, then I must clap my hands and scold them to death. It's called watching people put on the plate, is that fair? 
There is no standard for moral judgment, how much to sentence and how to judge depends entirely on the mood, so morality can only be used to demand oneself. Of course, I can understand those who swing the moral stick and smash it at others, and many times this is called a "sense of justice". If he doesn't do it right, I have to scold him, am I wrong? Only, in doing so, ask yourself: What is my standard of punishment? Can it be done consistently? Is it fair to do so?